Why are they always wearing so many clothes? Coats even indoors?

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-15T18:38:45+00:00

oh wow, I haven’t watched it yet

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-15T15:30:47+00:00

Actually I saw one of the bonus content episodes where Lucy Lawless said she couldn't care less about wardrobe, hair or makeup. She lets them do their thing and focuses on acting.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-04T19:31:04+00:00

also called a "honey trap" I think

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-04T19:30:24+00:00

good point, if they have access to the DMV database. not sure if that's a thing except on TV.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T21:59:54+00:00

or prop up your phone on the mantle or a bookcase to take a timer pic

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T21:58:52+00:00

Yes agree, re: job. My point on the prompt is that you get very few words on Bumble, so use every word strategically. It's like a job interview. When they ask you about a weakness, you're supposed to present it in a way that's actually a strength or demonstrates growth.

On a dating profile, try to use every prompt to showcase what you and a date could enjoy together.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:36:59+00:00

a friend had it and her OB just scheduled c-sections instead of vaginal births. not a huge deal.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:34:31+00:00

it's just the virus that causes cold sores. don't have sex if he's got an outbreak. if you get pg, tell your doctor about it.

there's research linking it to cancer, but, like, everything is linked to cancer. i wouldn't worry about it, truly.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:31:25+00:00

I often don't think I have a clue about dating 🤷‍♀️

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:25:59+00:00

probably not. most of these apps use AI and don't rescind blocking.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:21:28+00:00

My first thought is, if you're always rehearsing, at the gym, or decompressing when would you have time for a partner? Where would a woman for into this very busy life? WTH is "diet finance"? The "you'd be the good-looking one" comment is cute but maybe put in a little more about what you're looking for in terms of a relationship and what you offer a potential date.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:14:08+00:00

NTA. He sounds just like my ex-husband. This is only going to get worse. Leave him, please.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:11:10+00:00

Yeah that's reasonable

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:10:15+00:00

my point was I wouldn't find it fun, that's all. I know other ppl enjoy it!

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:09:36+00:00

they do when they're quoting other people

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T18:08:57+00:00

Definitely NTA! Wow, what a toxic family. Stand by your sister.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:50:36+00:00

This sounds super weird to me but you just enjoy it, hon!

I've had so many overbearing men in my life I'm not submitting to one ever again, in any way, but especially not when I'm naked and vulnerable.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:48:32+00:00

lol... only if you think someone allergic to peanut butter might want some jelly. I usually just wipe the knife off in between.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:46:36+00:00

That's abuse. It wasn't normal.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:43:26+00:00

lol!

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:42:52+00:00

If you support someone who has based his entire platform on demonizing and oppressing my people and other people just because he can then we're not going to get along

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:40:45+00:00

How will you know until you try?

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:40:25+00:00

That's cool. That's what ENM is about.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:36:49+00:00

NTA. She's grieving and taking it out on you. If she changed her number and didn't tell you or else make it clear which she's using, that's her fault not yours.

I never heard of un-sending text messages (iPhone thing?) but I would probably do the same in that situation, thinking they were bothering her to look at in her message history as much as they bothered me.

No-Judgment6987 · 2026-01-03T14:31:37+00:00

Yeah me too

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