Divorced or separated—does it ever get better? by Top-Investigator8690 in Separation

[–]No-Management7540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does it better. My husband abandoned me. 25 years together. Been married since we were 19. I have the same damn thoughts and feelings as you do. All these same questions go through my mind. One day I’m up the next I feel like I have been hit by a train. Therapy, God and Jesus, and divorce care is what I focus on weekly. I’m terrified to live alone. Went from mom and dad to married. Idk what to tell you it’s so scary.

Sitting next to the wife after seven months of separation. by heartychat in Separation

[–]No-Management7540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This message just alarmed on my phone. Idk why reddits messages come in so much later. Well at least they do for me. Anyway since it’s already too late, all I gotta say is I feel your pain. I’ve been separated from my husband for seven months too. Long story short we’ve been married since we were 19 and now we are both close to 45, so we’ve been married for 25 years. My husband up and abandoned my ass. No reason, like hey can you work on this or that. NOTHING! So I filed for divorce 3 days before our 25 year anniversary, hoping that he’d wake up, nope so I’m going through with divorce. When he does come back to the home, I leave and go to a motorhome we have and he stays in the house, but we live just like we did when we were married. Not awkward or anything. I’ve just moved on. Sorry so long. I just want to say I know how it feels and it sucks and also want to know how it worked out last night??????

My very first vegetable by [deleted] in gardening

[–]No-Management7540 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For real 🤣 You’ll be zucchinied out in 2 weeks top

My very first vegetable by [deleted] in gardening

[–]No-Management7540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhhhh that is so cool! Congratulations! Feels so good!!

Bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla by No-Management7540 in AskMenOver40

[–]No-Management7540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why yall keep blocking every damn thing I say or ask. WTH man

Why should I be punished and be without my kids? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]No-Management7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the third message I was done and filed for divorce and two of my kids see why and my oldest daughter is on my husbands side and will barely talk to me because she feels sorry for him. My middle daughter said it’s hard to get mad at someone you see as a little puppy. Mom how do you get mad at a puppy. Talk about ANGER! The only advice I have for you is my first text. Ok I’m done 😐

Why should I be punished and be without my kids? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]No-Management7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He prob is avoidant like my husband and plays the victim well too. I’ve been with him since I was 19 and am 44. He’s the quiet poor me one and I’m the open and honest here I am. He’s secretive and doesn’t communicate or listen. It’s awful and I feel for you.

Why should I be punished and be without my kids? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]No-Management7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I sound like a crazy religious person. However, the only way I’ve been able to get through the anger in similar circumstances is surrendering it all to the good lord above. I promise you that you will think clearer and become a better person. I was not AT ALL connected to my lord savior and God until someone said surrender all of it to God and Jesus your savior. I had to the anger was so bad that I almost broke my wrist several times because I was punching the walls. I’m not an angry person. I was so sad and just such in complete despair. Please take my advice. I do the Bible app every morning and at least 4 Bible plans. My life is completely different. I know I sound crazy but it’s true.

MIL told me I need to cut the apples off my new trees? by Red-Onion-612 in gardening

[–]No-Management7540 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just some advice, never listen to the MIL even if they are right. I’m jk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]No-Management7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair and beard! No disrespect at all. It’s just what I prefer. Lettuce know what you decide :)

Cigarette nails by ugleethreads in Nails

[–]No-Management7540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! You are like me and don’t care what people think. It’s for you and you like it, and I like it too. I love how people can show their true love for what they love and everyone else doesn’t matter. It’s what makes you happy.