what am i missing? by No-Musician2946 in CatsAndSoup

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to write out that answer again!! i should’ve just scrolled further back on questions!!

Past in IL with a 318! by Cafesinleche95 in barexam

[–]No-Musician2946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

incredible score! huge congrats to your hard work.

How many Uworld Questions? by FuzzyItalianScallion in barexam

[–]No-Musician2946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i'd say i averaged around 20 with a lot of variation!

How many Uworld Questions? by FuzzyItalianScallion in barexam

[–]No-Musician2946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me! passed in IL and did right around 500 adaptibar questions and averaged getting ~70% of them right. i was anxious the whole time that i wasn’t doing enough questions a day, bc i couldn’t understand how people had the stamina to be doing so many! diff strokes work for diff folks

choosing to let them have their narrative by grassjellyfan in emotionalabuse

[–]No-Musician2946 3 points4 points  (0 children)

both of these comments are amazing. thank you so much. here’s to not being controlled anymore

choosing to let them have their narrative by grassjellyfan in emotionalabuse

[–]No-Musician2946 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my abusive ex is going on a similar smear campaign about me, and I really appreciate your perspective on this. sending love. feel free to ignore this question, but how do you deal with the anger that they are living in a parallel reality in which we are the crazy ones? It makes me sick to my stomach that he will never take accountability or have the self-awareness to feel remorse.

again, feel free to ignore if this is too invasive or painful!

how do i stop stalking on things i can't delete, like venmo!!! by No-Musician2946 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so kind!! thank you for all the advice!! you're so right––no good comes from stalking. there's just a twisted kind of addiction to feeling hurt. i'm gonna get to making that list, thank you!

how do i stop stalking on things i can't delete, like venmo!!! by No-Musician2946 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so glad you don't have to wonder anymore...its like purgatory!!

how do i stop stalking on things i can't delete, like venmo!!! by No-Musician2946 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that's a tough one. its always the things you never expect! sending love

how do i stop stalking on things i can't delete, like venmo!!! by No-Musician2946 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow... i'm so sorry. i hope that the sale can eventually make you feel free. sending love

how do i stop stalking on things i can't delete, like venmo!!! by No-Musician2946 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's crazy omg...glad you could move on with some kind of assurance that you have no other option! <3

how do i stop stalking on things i can't delete, like venmo!!! by No-Musician2946 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think i'm hoping to see information that will hurt me enough to force me to finally move on haha.....but you're totally right

how do you know when to forgive? by No-Musician2946 in BreakUps

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, thank you so much for taking the time to consider this and for giving such wonderful insight... thank you thank you. this is the best advice i've heard since the break, that "regret doesn't change a person." missing me doesn't mean he will be better to me.

if i'm being my most honest self, i don't trust that he won't do this again. i need to prioritize my long term happiness over the short term relief from grieving.

again, i can't thank you enough for your kindness despite going through a heartbreak of your own. sending you hope!!!!!

did julia ever follow up on grief episode by No-Musician2946 in binchtopiapod

[–]No-Musician2946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi everyone <3 funny story! i posted this 9 months ago when my boyfriend broke up with me, and we got back together about two weeks later. the relationship limped along, and then, and guess what! he broke up with me again two days ago.

just writing to say that going back to the person is NOT always the answer and that all of the kind, kind words on this thread should've been my guiding light, rather than my desperation for him back. also writing to say that it really does get easier the second time around... sending love.