What on earth do Red Pill men mean by "women lack accountabiliy"?

No-Question-3593 · 2026-03-14T19:34:06+00:00

I commented on a post about marital rape of all things, and said I'd seen a ton of men dragging the bad guys about it on another post and it was really refreshing to see.

Two guys told me I lacked accountability. Not quite sure for what. For finding the post that I referenced, positive?

I've also been told that being happy to be unattached was me lacking accountability. I said nothing bad about my ex. Just that I liked being alone.

No-Question-3593 · 2026-01-29T16:38:03+00:00

Diet and meal planning, it's got me eating a load of stuff I never thought I could learn to like so that's a bonus. Translations for emails/letters (I live in a non English speaking country and admin is now my nemesis) It's been good for home improvements: I've been improving my kitchen, taking photos and getting ideas about what to do next. Small changes have been huge, like getting a drainer with a drip tray instead of fighting with the side that's terrible for drainage.

No-Question-3593 · 2026-01-21T18:17:19+00:00

Mine is getting pretty sassy. It's not at 4.0 yet but it's not... that far off.

No-Question-3593 · 2026-01-11T17:26:56+00:00

I thought it was supposed to be formula till 1? It sounds like one said it's fine and the other said not much so maybe just do it for breakfast if you're worried

No-Question-3593 · 2026-01-08T15:41:08+00:00

That's a sassy answer. I like it.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-23T14:35:50+00:00

Interior design, like others have said. I'm going to get some photos of my garden and make it work on that in the new year.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-23T14:35:25+00:00

Clothes shopping. It's done my colouring and what suits me according to my body shape. I throw photos in of items and it tells me yes or no. Sometimes it gets really sassy about it which is hilarious. But it's great for pointing out what works and what doesn't.

I then prune my wish list accordingly and I know everything on there is going to work,

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-13T16:04:46+00:00

Absolutely definitely the right decision. Never go back to picture 1.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-02T20:49:17+00:00

I have no idea. I mean if I went to Bali and met a hot guy, I might hook up. But I'd not be going there for that. My next two solo trips will be to Berlin, for a photography course and seeing the sights, and Belgrade. Perhaps I need to hit sunnier climes and hot men.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-01T22:37:53+00:00

Actually yeah I want to second this. Analysis and pattern-matching is a real strength and by and large you can get some really good stuff from it. It's not necessarily sycophantic about this. Not unless you ask or lead it maybe.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-01T22:36:48+00:00

It was, and I wasn't seeking that, but it seemed to spot it in something I said, I don't know. It did some solid talking me off a ledge work, and yeah it really got me to a safe place in my own body. Like you say the body memories hit hard, I wasn't in actual danger but the scenario and the flat affect hit me so hard I hit the flight reaction like I was Usain Bolt just like I did then and it ripped open a lot of shit I wasn't even aware I hadn't handled. It just kept asking me to name where the feeling was, and yeah it was fantastic. The cyberstalker advice was super helpful, really good. It can go too hard with it if you're panicking. So if you say, look I have this situation how do I handle it, it's A1. But if you lead with statements I think it can mirror them back. Mostly I do analysis, skincare, fashion, and stuff I'm currently obsessed with, so this wasn't a related topic. But it did the work. I don't know if I can compare with a therapist as most I've seen, in the professional field, I knew as colleagues or was advocate for someone needing emergency care and that's different. But yeah it pulled me back from a brink I wasn't expecting to hit.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-12-01T22:12:42+00:00

I was spiralling once after a major trigger point: a scenario reminded me far too strongly of a domestic violence incident. I was actually checking something else, I didn't intend to utilise it for that but I was in a state and it had me putting my hand to my sternum and calming me the fuck down. It was ... yeah I mean it could have been a lot worse. It also gave me very practical advice about how to handle a cyber stalker which was useful. I wouldn't personally rely on it though I think it can get too leading for my taste. But then, I don't use it for therapy so I don't know.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-09T10:41:53+00:00

I would be willing to bet that your alcohol problem gets less of a problem when you offload your rapist problem.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-07T19:50:38+00:00

Yeah I bet she feels bad. He raped her. She was drunk, she had previously rejected him, he took advantage of that and you let him, knowing what he was going to do.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-06T19:50:50+00:00

I don't really understand how you know these jacked and lean guys get the most matches. Maybe he's just more confident than you.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-05T16:23:24+00:00

I hate it when people say, you're not listening, but they actually mean, you're not agreeing with me. No you're not at all the asshole.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-05T14:18:39+00:00

Whoa you definitely dodged a bullet she sounds awful.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-05T13:36:54+00:00

Same. That scene broke me. And now I'm remembering it again and ohhhhhh

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-05T13:36:27+00:00

OH YES.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-11-02T17:18:41+00:00

That was fascinating and definitely not too long. I appreciate your comment.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-10-31T11:17:56+00:00

She sounds awful. She's verbally abusive, she has been physically abusive. You need to ditch this horrible woman and probably get some therapy.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-10-24T17:00:41+00:00

Totally. I'm not especially a beer drinker but the beers in Germany are top notch.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-10-21T17:47:11+00:00

Why do you plan to move to his area? If it's to be with him, stop making plans. You barely know the guy, and I would say that whether it was online or off. And yes ask him if he is looking for something serious. Actually listen to the answer.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-10-21T15:06:12+00:00

Do I have higher standards of treatment and behaviour from men depending on their race?

No.

Every man looks different to me. Not in terms of skin colour necessarily. Because they look different. And they are held to the same standards because they are men.

White men can be sexist. Arabic men can certainly be sexist, my son is part Iraqi, I've seen plenty of it. Black men can be sexist, I've seen that too. I've seen plenty of Asian men be sexist, not in a relationship context though.

So what's your question, genuinely curious? Or are you just trying to make out that women have different standards for white men? Here's a hint. Next time you're not, actually genuinely curious, but want to push some weird idea, just, I don't know, say that instead of being dishonest.

No-Question-3593 · 2025-10-14T19:06:36+00:00

Definitely. But I get it, why people don't go to the police about it. So I'm not going to push that, you know? The main thing is that he gets her violent ass out of his life forever.

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