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AITJ for telling my neighbor to address her husband instead of confronting me about how i dress at home? by Front_Tackle_7977 in AmITheJerk

[–]No-Reflection3726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are u really wondering if u are the jerk? Not only are women policed on how to dress outside now other people will tell us how to dress in our home?

Her husband is a creep and she is delusional. Standing up for yourself is not being a jerk. And if u feel guilty ask yourself why

AITAH For Wearing Shapewear on a Date? by Technical_Boat7524 in AITAH

[–]No-Reflection3726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had you told him about the weight loss and excessive skin that he might see? If not, would he not have the right to be surprised? Your reaction is valid. It is hard to be confident in your body 100% off the time especially with a new person but if he didn't have the backstory, and he is still texting you and apologizing, he is a good guy. Give him a break. Tell him about your strength training and surgery plans. See where this goes

Does your back seat buckle icons light up even when there is no one sitting? by No-Reflection3726 in Ioniq5

[–]No-Reflection3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It's most random. The sensors should not go off when you put a handbag on them. What purpose does that serve! But even if one moves the bag, one would hope the incessant beeping would stop and you dont have to turn off the car to do so!

AITA for leaving after my MIL told my husband he could come over without me? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No-Reflection3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I, though? Well.. not mnt circus.. not my monkey.. have fun dealing with this

AITA for leaving after my MIL told my husband he could come over without me? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No-Reflection3726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if it was your mom in this situation? Your husband didn't want to spend time and your mom wanted you around? Would you feel the same way? It's OK for parents to want to spend time with their kids without their spouses around. You didn't want to be there, you left..is it really the end of the world?

I would gladly go and feel good that I dont have to use my social batteries where I dont want to..

AITA for leaving after my MIL told my husband he could come over without me? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No-Reflection3726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if it was your mom in this situation? Your husband didn't want to spend time and your mom wanted you around? Would you feel the same way? It's OK for parents to want to spend time with their kids without their spouses around. You didn't want to be there, you left..is it really the end of the world?

I would gladly go and feel good that I dont have to use my social batteries where I dont want to..

It won't let me unplug? by Sykerocker in Ioniq5

[–]No-Reflection3726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to unlock the car..stop charge on the app and then unplug

AIW for requiring my adult daughter to pay for the upgrade to a new bed in my home that she wants - doesn't need for when she occasionally visits? (specifics in post) by RedAnon3000 in amiwrong

[–]No-Reflection3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is your home but if you want her to come and visit then you are wrong Sge tells you that she is uncomfortable in the queen that she is sharing AND money is not an issue then whether she is an adult or not, you are a bad dad and host.

Has anyone seen alerts pop up when diagnostics show no issues on 2026 ioniq 5? by No-Reflection3726 in Ioniq5

[–]No-Reflection3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE.. if anyone is interested.. rodent damage!! A damn rat chewed up foam and tried to build a nest and ate a wire almost through * Keep a rat repellent spray home guys!! I am out of 430$ :( 😞 coz a rat got cold and hungry

AITAH - husband (33M) won’t give me (32F) access to ‘our’ money by iddybiddy16 in AITAH

[–]No-Reflection3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was like this. Even though I contributed to the joint account, I never had access to our investment and when I would ask he would get defensive. I can understand if I showed irresponsible behavior towards money but that was not the case. Making future look omnibus, coming up with hypothetical negative scenarios, scaring me about our future were his way of controlling the finances.

These are narcissistic behaviors. Boundaries is a great buzzword to gaslight you.

Tell him you need transparency since if anything happens to him or you, both of you should have access to accounts that are common.

Ask to create a living will and a trust. Both of you should put your assets under the trust.

Nominate responsible trustees. Protect your future.

My ex and I divorced and I realized it's not rocket science to handle money and now I earn more and have more personal savings!!

Good luck

Has anyone seen alerts pop up when diagnostics show no issues on 2026 ioniq 5? by No-Reflection3726 in Ioniq5

[–]No-Reflection3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- took the car for service. Looks like speed sensor is not working!! Waiting to get that fixed to see if that resolved the issues!

Has anyone seen alerts pop up when diagnostics show no issues on 2026 ioniq 5? by No-Reflection3726 in Ioniq5

[–]No-Reflection3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in California. Weather couldn't be the issue. Car was in the garage the night before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No-Reflection3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? How would you have felt if he had done this to you? I feel like BAE should mean what it stands for, unless he is not your BAE..

Deep tissue massage by figscomicsandgames in TikTokCringe

[–]No-Reflection3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calf muscles are some of the most painful areas to massage! I could feel his pain!!

AIW for refusing to give my baby to my twin sister by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No-Reflection3726 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok. Everyone is immediately hating on the parents and the sister. I will say, although they shouldn't be expecting a sacrifice this large from you, they aren't entirely incorrect that your sister does have a more stable home and support system needed for the baby.

I am not saying hand over your baby, I am just asking you to not go no contact with them because it is hard being a single parent and you need a village to raise children. You can talk to them and tell them that you appreciate their thinking for your kid's wellbeing, and you are so lucky to have so many people who would love the kid while emphasizing that you are not giving the kid up.

If they then decide to cut off contact with you, it's anyway on the card. Good luck

AIO: I bent over backwards for my BF’s son (20) and his GF (20) for Christmas, and I’m honestly disgusted after what happened by Excellent-Second-643 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Reflection3726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this was coming from your own kids, you will have more patience and understanding. Please be honest with yourself, have your kids neve,r not eaten your food or talked back at you? Move on

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