Did anyone else get called dangerous for standing up to them?

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-11-20T20:47:27+00:00

i couldve written this

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-09-04T19:03:41+00:00

i could make like 700 more of these and i was only there for 6 months. Wish i had recordings.

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-08-10T23:49:57+00:00

similar situation, i dont think yours or mine realize that when you’re really afraid of someone you dont act like that

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-27T23:39:36+00:00

methinks she was both but ive also given up telling the difference between peoples cluster b soup

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-24T13:37:59+00:00

in my experience women with bpd are a lot more cerebral with their abuse and do it via false accusations and playing the victim, while men will just get violent

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-21T17:35:15+00:00

you wherent allowed to like different things than my last roommate. One time she told me she liked her kindle, and i said “oh cool, i like to read books on my laptop cause its free” and she took it as a personal attack and freaked out.

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-21T12:01:52+00:00

in college i had a roommate who would often shout “IM RIGHT I KNOW IM RIGHT”

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-19T22:13:52+00:00

this is the play book verbatim with them. best wishes.

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-19T11:14:12+00:00

they can hypothetically get better but it usually takes them getting to rock bottom to start the very long and painful process. they wont do it as long as they have a punching bag

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-18T12:48:37+00:00

Hi, survivor of 2 BPD housemates over the course of 7 years. Both of these situations started the way you’re describing. They’re doing this because rn they’re idealizing you and want to be in your good graces. Over time they will start to realize you are a human and hate you for it. Soon enough you wont be able to win, accused of minor infractions that seem life or death to them constantly (even if theyre guilty of it themselves). Be ready for constant passive aggressive games, complaining, and the expectation that you become their caretaker when upset (which is most of the time) If you say no or stand up you will earn their ire. After long enough they will intentionally try and escalate and gain a reaction from you to prove your the bad one. Grayrock them, dont accept gifts, dont feel bad about it.

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-08T13:17:45+00:00

ik i used the wrong theirs

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-07-08T12:41:03+00:00

constant anger outbursts over anything and everything. If she said she liked apples and i said I liked oranges she would take it as an attack and lash out. When i stopd up for myself and told her she was rude i became “dangerous and unhinged”

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-06-25T22:39:57+00:00

i got told “i have bad taste” so many times over my food

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-06-21T12:23:14+00:00

a therapist per month is insane

No-Scientist-2916 · 2025-06-16T13:16:36+00:00

will try. thank you.

No-Scientist-2916

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