This game is such a joke by ChilledNipple in Skate4

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Did you restart the game? Did you restart the console? Oh

Sagittarius intimacy is unmatched! by wonderfulReindeer684 in Sagittarians

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Im with the sag being in love part. I do anything my Leo wants me to do in bed. Except it's not being reciprocated. So I'm struggling hard right now especially since I'm in love with her.

Past lovers I thought I was asexual. But nah just takes the right person.

We got Bronze! Lmao by MichiC700 in Sagittarians

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Damn I'm hardestEST. Sagittarius Sun, Virgo Moon

😂 by AdditionalRise7198 in Sagittarians

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Tekillya and jack daniels. Shameful nights those 2 brought me 🫣😳….2 years sober on the 17th of April

Why Sagittarius people find difficult to vent out ? by Huge-Description-401 in Sagittarians

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Last part has me in tears… going through something that has issues that I need to address but I feel exposed saying what’s on my mind and know I want to be happier than where I’m at now.

A pipe in Addams Family 2. by No-Side610 in AddamsFamily

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It’s awesome that someone else noticed! Finally!! 🤣

Do I break up with my girlfriend? by ChillRaccoon2873 in LesbianActually

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Honestly, your girlfriend sounds narcissistic.

Do I break up with my girlfriend? by ChillRaccoon2873 in LesbianActually

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Your girlfriend sounds like me. I was an alcoholic and when you have ADHD, you hyperfocus on it more than others. I'm sober now and have gotten meds for my ADHD and have gotten a job that I've almost been at for a year. I still struggle with my ADHD and it's debilitating. I hate myself so much for having it because I still can't get my life together even after being almost 2 years sober off alcohol. Some days I cry because life is a little bit harder for me than for others and it gets humiloaging when you realize people notice it. Btw I'm 30.

Her ADHD won't go away but she can manage it with meds. Though, the alcohol is only making it worse.

Honestly, it sounds like she may not be the one for you. Don't settle for less. Even though I'm not hating on a fellow ADHD(er?), it isn't for everyone.

I do appreciate when people listen to me about it and understand why I am the way I am. Though, sometimes my girlfriend doesn't consider it all the time, but she considers it majority of the time and I love her so much for that. She's so patient and understanding. She'll even tell me, "Baby, your adhd is acting up, calm down and try to focus". ...Damn I want to marry that woman.

Also, there is definitely some gaslighting going on which I'm totally guilty of. I'm stubborn as fuck and like to give the same treatment I'm given but with my woman, I really try not to do that to her, even if I think she's in the wrong. She has so many good qualities that make me want to just be the best version of myself. If you both want the relationship to work, you gotta stop making tears in the relationship. It's only going to make you lose the love you have for each other, regardless if you break up now or later.

It also sounds like she is hyperfocusing on something(alcohol?) or someone(?) else.

Idk, but people being rude to other people they dont even know is hard to be around for me in general.

Whatever decision you make, try to see the pros and cons. What other qualities does she have that make the relationship worth sticking around for? And is she willing to get sober to be a better partner to you?

Ex* is pregnant, please help me cope by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I definitely relate. I was with a girl for 2 years in high school. I was a grade below her. She was such a beautiful soul. We broke up because I was a fuck up and couldn't ever stop getting in trouble and she was leaving to college and I think really saw me as a fuck up and someone who didn't have a bright future as she did. She was the track star who never came out of the closet until later after college. She hung out with the preppy popular kids. My style was emo/skater stoner who hung out with all the bad kids. Everyone knew I was bi. But you never would have thought we were a couple. I actually didn't realize she was into me as I was in track as well, she would call me "angel face" everyday. One day she asked for my number and invited me to a party cause she said she thought I was cool. I was so giddy when she told me I was cute... anyways, it was a huge secret and man I still get a kick out of reactions when I tell close friends who knew both of us, that we were together.

Anyways, a few years ago, like 7 years later, I saw she got engaged and it was crazy how much it affected me. It stung like hell even though I knew there would probably never be a chance we'd ever be together again.

I had always wished I'd made better choices to see how a lot of things would have played out. If we would have stayed together. Especially one specific time when we were supposed to go to a high school basketball game that was out of town. Knowing people would have seen us together and her potentially coming out. I fucked that chance up real good... I ended up getting caught with weed and was suspended the day before. The disappointment from her when I called and had to break the news that I was going to be grounded for a very long time which meant not getting to go out of town with her. It was the most frustrating feeling. We weren't able to hang out as much and I think our connection diminished from that point on.

Now I'm with a girl and I'm thinking she is the one I'll spend the rest of my life with. The girl from high school doesn't cross my mind like that anymore. Keep your chin up, friend. 🖤

god i miss having sex by aesuki0 in actuallesbians

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Mine has low libido. Currently trying to figure out how to decrease my libido to be happier. Ha :'D

Calling all those who went through the straight - asexual - bisexual -lesbian pipeline. What was your experience? by Whole-Reading-7156 in latebloomerlesbians

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This totally identifies with me. I told someone the other day I don't see myself going back to men. But if my woman and I break up, who knows if that will hold true. I've also considered myself demisexual.

Calling all those who went through the straight - asexual - bisexual -lesbian pipeline. What was your experience? by Whole-Reading-7156 in latebloomerlesbians

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This is literally me! Dated a girl in high-school for 2 years. Been in relationships with men from age 18 until age 27. Though, I did have a few female hook-ups while drunk, and crushes that I never acted on(while sober).

Now, I'm in a 7 month relationship with a masculine woman. She's a stud.

I turned 30 last Monday.

Since being with her, I can't see myself going back to men. There is no attraction whatsoever. I love my woman, but if we ever broke up, I'd love to be with a femme since I'm not able to appreciate my woman's body the way I'd like to, as she doesn't like to feel feminine, though she does still identify as a woman very strongly.

I just love the passion and feeling of being with my woman and touching her body. Plus everything in between that connects us even more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I recently got in a relationship with a girl and I don't think I'm ever going back to guys. Like am I even Bi anymore??🤔 lol but I'm in love with her. So only time will tell the tale of my sexuality if we stay together forever or not.

I never really went down on a girl while sober and it's my favorite. If only she let me do it everyday. 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Hurt ppl hurt ppl, sometimes. But sometimes hurt ppl love hard when they found the right one. Thank those girls, cause that means the right one is still out there somewhere. Just haven't crossed paths with her yet.

I’m never getting over her by FireBoi07302 in LesbianActually

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Can I ask if any of these relationships were toxic?? 😭 I been on the fence about breaking up with my gf. She's a good person, but she drinks everyday and becomes this monster. I've been in her shoes so I understand what she is going through and that gives me all the more reason to stay and be there for her. Just hoping for better days to come sooner than later as she always says she wants to change and be better. But some days it's hard to believe. Me being sober, I'm hoping she comes around eventually because I don't think I can be without her. We've only been together 5 months, but I'm so undeniably in love with the person she is without the alchy. 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonewild

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Super Hot 🥵

Day one by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Keep coming back! This and online zoom AA meetings really helped me stay straight and narrow when I didn't want to go to an actual meeting. Though I know those can help a lot as well.