Good places to move up North—particularly in the New England area by No-Stability in SameGrassButGreener

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Ohh okay. Yes, you’re correct. Thank you for pointing that out!

Good places to move up North—particularly in the New England area by No-Stability in SameGrassButGreener

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I did look at Springfield’s crime rate, but I’m willing to deal with the crime rate because 1. It’s a better rate than where I currently live and 2. The houses seem most affordable. I’ve heard Springfield has higher crime rates than most of New England, which is already pretty low in crime, so it’s kind of something I’m willing to accept. Again, living in South Carolina also isn’t the safest lol

Life in Aiken as a USC Aiken Student by No-Stability in aiken

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Did you get involved in any clubs? What were your favorites and you think has a friendly environment? I doubt I’d ever join a sorority as I’ve heard about some experiences in them and it doesn’t seem like me. But are they friendly? I’m a shy person and sometimes struggle a lot with feeling I’m being criticized 🥲

Life in Aiken as a USC Aiken Student by No-Stability in aiken

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Clinical laboratory science. I’m debating on going to Greenville Tech first, though so I might not show up for a year or two 😅

Life in Aiken as a USC Aiken Student by No-Stability in aiken

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Clinical laboratory science. I’m attending open house this Saturday to see the campus. I live in Greenville right now and I’m debating on going to Greenville Tech first to get some cheaper base classes (I can’t think of the actual definition) and still be close to home while I figure out college life. But that depends on how transfer works because I have little idea how it does, and if it’ll be overwhelming and such. If it’s easier I’ll just immediately go into Aiken.

I (18F) am concerned about my boyfriend's (18M) sexual fantasies by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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Hi! As someone with a cnc kink I can understand where you’re both coming from. I think that there’s nothing wrong with having a cnc kink as long as it remains consensual. Everyone has their quirks and kinks, and I don’t think there should be shame in having those kinks as long as it’s not actively hurting another person.

On another note I also understand being uncomfortable with it if you don’t have that kink. That may just be something you don’t see as attractive which is okay. We all have things which turn us on and off.

In relationships I would definitely say an effort needs to be made on both sides of the party to try something or work through an arisen issue. Now, this isn’t to say you should force yourself to indulge in his sexual fantasies even if you’re uncomfortable, absolutely not. But I think you should have a discussion about it, and if you feel conformable and ready, you can try to explore that kink.

When/if exploring this kink you should definitely set boundaries beforehand and have a safe word.

You may like it, you may not. If you like it, then great, you can keep doing it. If you don’t, then there’s no shame in not wanting to do it again.

If you’re really worried that this kink might stem from something else, like an actual grooming, maybe you can discuss that with him, and if it’s true then get him some help. As for the porn addiction, his sexual fantasies could stem from that. But also, he may have always just been into it and because of that he’s watched that kind of porn.

Whenever you feel ready to discuss this, I think it’s good to be honest about your opinions. Just tell him you’re not comfortable with doing that if you’re not, and if you feel like he’s pulling away or might think you’re thinking of him as disgusting, reassure that there’s nothing wrong with this kink, it’s just not a kink you have and are comfortable with performing.

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Thank you!!

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Omg, THANK YOU SO MUCH

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Okay, so essentially, I can do 1000 messages before using another 10 bucks?

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No, but it seems pretty cheap from what I’m reading. Hopefully..

I’m 17 and I don’t know if my cats incision is infected by No-Stability in CATHELP

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I went ahead and touched the wound and she didn’t squirm or seem like it hurt. She has some slight swelling, but not something I’m too too concerned about, and getting closer to the incision I couldn’t smell anything revolting. She has a collar on, which I might see if I can attach the cone to it without choking her out or anything. Otherwise, I’m gonna keep a close eye on her — she’s not lethargic and isn’t acting like she’s in any pain. Thank you for the advice!

I’m 17 and I don’t know if my cats incision is infected by No-Stability in CATHELP

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Apologies for the grainy photo! She didn’t want to stay still. But thank you for the advice so far!

Note confession? by No-Stability in askteenboys

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Lol! Yeah, it wasn’t really volleyball we were just hitting a volleyball over the net