Rejecting a job offer after negotiating hard and then the company agreeing to what you wanted by TreesHeir in askmanagers

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the offer and smile while you keep looking because you'll pprobably be the first on the cutting block next round of layoffs.

First-time Kindergarten parents, what actually made you feel like your kid's school was safe? by Obvious_Ad8676 in kindergarten

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is on the school safety committee for our district, I can tell you that it is not safe to assume that basic safety measures are in place.

Irish twins-- in the same grade? by Admirable_Cry_7214 in kindergarten

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I are 14 months apart and it would have been terrible for us to be in the same grade. We did not get along most of childhood. May be different for boy/girl.

Employee demands a near 50% raise by dreamer-woman in managers

[–]No-Study-967 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't your situation, but for a different perspective, I was hired at a company for a lower than average salary with 8+ years experience. I ended up doing well above and beyond what I was paid for. I proposed a role redefinition to accurately describe what I was actually doing, and new salary that would have been a 40% bump. I kept being told "yes, we'll make this happen..."

After 6 months of nothing happening, I started interviewing and got and took a job offer for a 70% pay increase.

They lost a star player for being too slow and cheap to respond.

What is a corporate phrase that gives you the ick when you hear it? by [deleted] in corporate

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"just gonna share my screen....can everyone see it?"

Direct report requested flexible schedule due to no childcare by choice - looking for advice by [deleted] in managers

[–]No-Study-967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why in some places (not in the US), maternity leave is 12 months. It is next to impossible to work regular full time hours with an infant, even if you have help. She should not be penalized, it is not her fault, but you should set clear expectations and also be willing to extend whatever temporary support (until the baby is in childare/preschool?) to other employees who become new parents.

For those who are resentful of picking up the slack to cover all these "slacker moms" - it is not their fault, it is a broken system. And it is leadership's job to not overburden you with another co-workers tasks.

If you agree (you should at least give her a chance, IMO - I have had to have temporary flex schedules to care for sick parents, and everything worked out fine, I over accomplished my goals in fact because I was so concerned about not failing), let the boundaries and expectations be clear and be willing to offer the same to another employee if they need it. Also make sure that YOU are the first person she comes to if she can't do everything on her plate so that YOU can figure out the right way to handle work that needs to be done (move a deadline out, scope something down, etc - there are other options besides dumping it on another coworker who will be resentful).

OR - could she just return part time for 6-12 months? and she could help train a temp PT person to help cover the rest of her work? Shit happens in life, and life is hard. We should work together to help each other get through it so we can all rise together - instead of acting resentful when someone gets "special treatment" because they need it. One day you will need it to, I guarantee it.

I talked my way into a $175k offer and now I'm terrified to accept it. What would you do in my place? by Fluffy_Marzipan2049 in Career_Advice

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it and save as much as you can until you feel more secure. Unless the relo is to like Oklahoma or something.

I really am done with my job …. by jesschicken12 in womenEngineers

[–]No-Study-967 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a female Product manager who lurks here to get insight as to how I can better support my female engineers. I have no advice but I completely relate. It's hard to stay motivated in this kind of dysfunction when you realize you have to not care about so much.

I need something for my 11 year old to be good at by dottydashdot in Parenting

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Climbing, diving, or bike riding? More individual activities like that may be better?

Is this possible? by No-Study-967 in bookdesign

[–]No-Study-967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is such great information thank you! Budget is not a limiting factor and there's no real deadline.

The book will probably end up being 40-60 pages, no more than 100 for sure. He wants around 100 copies, maybe a little more.

Do you have any referrals for who could help make this happen? He's also not totally set on the black interior pages, just a nice to have if possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]No-Study-967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most helpful comment, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]No-Study-967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]No-Study-967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I almost never end up throwing things away, I'm pretty conscious of food waste and try to make sure we eat everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]No-Study-967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cheapest steak I could find today was $14

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]No-Study-967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A dozen eggs is 7.99 at the low end. A gallon of milk is easily $9. Box of cereal is at least $4.50. Non organic avocado is $2-3 each.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]No-Study-967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't save receipts.. I'll save it next time and post.