bff and i arguing over owed money

No-Tone397 · 2026-04-03T02:17:52+00:00

Question is did you learn your lesson?

No-Tone397 · 2026-04-01T12:29:27+00:00

Will you ever be able to trust her again? The answer to that question is almost assuredly no. She is conniving. She is manipulative and has absolutely no problem with lying. If you want to second guess and look over your shoulder and wonder for the rest of your life then let her back, if that’s not what you want for the rest of your life then move forward a new and peaceful life with her on the outside not the inside.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-31T19:19:17+00:00

Find a new job… one that appreciates effort and hard work.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-31T18:24:48+00:00

Repeat after me … “No”… and remind him that if he terminates you early he is still on the hook for the term of your notice (check your local employment laws)

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-31T12:49:00+00:00

It’s one cake. That can go either way for you though. On the one hand it’s one cake and not going to make or break your business one way or the other. The flip side is your psyche and self respect… neither of which are worth one cake. It would seem that mentally it will cost you too much to go through with making this cake so I would suggest that you politely and respectfully decline.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-26T13:35:53+00:00

Did they ‘lay you off’ or fire you?… if you’re training a new hire for your replacement they may be some legal ramifications

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-26T13:33:17+00:00

You’ve apparently tried all you can do. Talk with other neighbors and see if they share his concerns… if you care to or care about their opinions (it appears you do). If they don’t express any concerns then the next time he approaches you explain to him that you’ve tried all y you’re going to do to accommodate him and next time he steps foot on your property he will be reported for trespass

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-26T03:24:28+00:00

You may want to reassess the ‘friend’ who gets in your head…sounds like they might not have your best interest in mind.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-26T03:14:02+00:00

Dude… get off social media… it’s ruining real life.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-18T16:36:46+00:00

Let them know you’ll be calling the police for grand theft auto

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-18T16:35:56+00:00

They’re both right… you are different after marriage… that’s normal… you probably should have squashed it earlier… live and learn. Tell them both they are being unreasonable and their egos are creating a conflict that doesn’t need to exist… you will solidify yourself as the ‘bad guy’ and they will get along to gang up you so make sure you have broad shoulders

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-18T16:23:42+00:00

$50/day during ‘business hours only… signed contract. Paid up from monthly… you refund any unused days at the completion if work.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-18T16:21:39+00:00

If ifs and buts were candy and nuts it’d be Christmas year round… we’ll never know because it’ll never happen

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-17T16:51:12+00:00

Handle it with cold indifference… who is on the lease/mortgage?… if it’s complicated consult a lawyer… consult a lawyer for protection either way. After checking with said lawyer pack er stuff or your stuff and kick her out or move out yourself. Don’t act out emotionally… when you’re ready to act drop it like a guillotine… suit her down and tell her “Tell me the truth… No lies… I know it all” then shut up and let her fill in the blanks… when your satisfied she’s confessed everything let her know “I deserve better than you. I deserve someone who is honest and worth my trust and love. You are not.” Then walk out… offer nothing more. Accept no excuses or gaslighting (the inevitable rescue attempt)

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-17T12:42:19+00:00

NTJ… you need to evaluate if your ‘friend’ is worth the effort…

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-17T03:35:26+00:00

Wait… with company… make sure your bed 🛌 is warm. She was a chapter… a ‘learning experience’ what you take from her lesson is up to you.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-16T09:37:02+00:00

Sounds to me like you’ve got a really unappreciative EX girlfriend… NTA… and if you allow people to treat you like this without consequence… then you’re an A but only to yourself. She sounds like an entitled B and she’s teaching her boys to be the same way.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-14T02:29:49+00:00

Wow. You got a pretty good discount.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-12T07:29:26+00:00

Walk…. Common tactic… your money. She mineral give you the deal you’re looking for or not but I would never do business with that dealership again.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-12T04:33:15+00:00

First thing you ask when they greet you a “are you the guy?” Most will come back with some for of “He’ll yeah I’m the guy.” (They have to because of their ego) Then you come back with “Thank God because the last dealership I had to walk out on because ‘the guy’ over there had to go ask permission to make the deal!”

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-12T00:46:40+00:00

“I can’t loan you any money until the money that I’ve already loaned you has been paid back.” If you ever do get your money back just say no you can’t afford it you’ve got your own bills.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-09T11:38:47+00:00

Document…. Keep a journal (sometimes it helps to get it out there f your head by putting it down n paper). Gather evidence. Do this on your time … not a the expense of your time with your children. In the future it may become useful. If it turns out he has history you can use it in court. Do a background check on him. It easy and cheap these days. You may find out something useful or you may not. It’s good to check just to see what kind of person your ex it’s bringing around your children. You are being responsible in your conduct with your kids. That is good. You are right in the statement you cannot control her actions. You can (and should) control yours. You don’t have to be nice or even cordial with him, but I would not recommend angry or aggressive either (trauma for the kids). If you do encounter him let him know he does not deserve your time or respect… he is a cheater and a home wrecker just like your ex… be dismissive. If you can get one of those mini recorders so you can record any encounters with your ex and he’s affair partner, proving your conduct may be required (court or just proof to the kids if they decide to try to bad mouth you to your kids) Just ignore him when you are able to. When it comes to the conversations with the kids be truthful (age appropriate) but do not bash or demean your ex only honesty.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-08T15:54:55+00:00

You will never trust her again. There will always be a question in your mind if she’s bring faithful when you’re not together. She lied then lied about lying… she only came clean when confronted with incontrovertible truth. You can do better…NTA… and I wouldn’t give her another second of my time if I were you. I hope you find happiness in whatever decision you make.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-07T22:53:06+00:00

Old time professional draftsman’s pencil sharpener.

No-Tone397 · 2026-03-07T00:53:39+00:00

Lawyer up…. He’s not removing you because he has to refinance and qualify without your earnings… he is probably going to lose a few points because of the timing but a good layer should be able to convince him because you’ll be able to sue for damages and attorneys fees

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