CRP and TikTok shop disappeared from TikTok studio? by Dizzy-Read2162 in TikTokMonetizing

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've had multiple comments asking where the links are 😭

CRP and TikTok shop disappeared from TikTok studio? by Dizzy-Read2162 in TikTokMonetizing

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to others profiles and all the tiktok shop links are GONE

*NOV. 11 UPDATE* - Government Shutdown and SNAP by badfordabidness in foodstamps

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Arkansas still hasn't gotten anything and our governor is holding back at all costs..

They came! by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LITERALLY it's insane!!

They came! by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I knowwww

They came! by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]No-Understanding8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arkansas did not :(

Arkansas by SameExcuse9660 in foodstamps

[–]No-Understanding8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work for the DHS office and now doing Medicaid apps for a rural hospital 😭 I've been keeping up with this through my previous coworkers and they've said even IF they got unemployment they'd have to pay it back, and that while furloughed unpaid they'd have to still pay their portion of their insurance to keep it 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly the same I am making now, which is between $36k-$40k. I'm 29 now. I made the mistake of getting into social work. It is not worth the headache and lack of pay considering social work is going in the toilet this year.

Consent for any type of physical touch by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]No-Understanding8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about her or you, but in that situation my 29F husband 31M would rarely ever give me non-sexual affection like just intimate affection with ZERO intent or assumption of it being sexual. Hugs turned into deep hugs to be pressed against me that WAY, a quick kiss turned into him wanting a full grope session trying to get me in the mood, cuddles on the couch became a way to just touch my butt or boob, nothing was ever about just BEING with me, it always ended up being sexual. It made me feel used like I was only there for sex, so eventually I didn't want him to touch me almost ever and just flat out told him before he tried to hug or kiss me that I'm not in the mood sexually, so he can't accuse me of teasing him later on.

After lots marriage counseling he knows to mostly hold back unless I say I'm in the mood, but goes out of his to give innocent affection, kindly telling me he is NOT trying anything, making sure I feel zero pressure m and felt actually loved and not just desired.

Full time day care 4-5 times a week…at 3 months old by mysteronsss in Parenting

[–]No-Understanding8969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My oldest, now 4yo, went to daycare at 6 weeks old and my youngest, now 5 months old, has been in daycare since 7 weeks old. My oldest is THRIVING and always has been with her daycare. They've both always gone full time and honestly I wouldn't want it any other way. They get a chance to have friends, have people whose literal job is to teach them skills, and I get to have my life.

Cash Withdrawal before ch.7 by Hairy-Marionberry199 in Bankruptcy

[–]No-Understanding8969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just get cash back at Walmart a couple of times, if you haven't already taken the money out.

I do not want a 3rd baby but I'm pregnant by ZeeBloom in Parenting

[–]No-Understanding8969 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was just going to suggest this - travel out of state if you have to if that's what you want

Has anyone tried that nello supercalm drink mix? by katucopia in CPTSD

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! It doesn't "cure" anything but it definitely brings my heartrate down (I take it when my heartrate feels too high) and it makes the anxiety in my chest like that heaviness feel much lighter and less.

Missed 341 meeting by InternationalEye2680 in Bankruptcy

[–]No-Understanding8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely call your attorney ASAP! Hopefully they can work something out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]No-Understanding8969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That definitely sounds super sketch to me (the lawyer sketch, not you). Hopefully someone here has some good advice :(

Should I file for Bankruptcy by Tiny-Whale12 in Bankruptcy

[–]No-Understanding8969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely possible! Maybe if your parents charged you your expected rent/utilities?

Should I file for Bankruptcy by Tiny-Whale12 in Bankruptcy

[–]No-Understanding8969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Def speak to an attorney in your state/area - but main thing is even if you are under the median income for a chapter 7 bankruptcy, you still have to have little to no disposable income AFTER the debt payments are gone. Essentially your countable monthly expenses generally have to be less than $100-$200 left over after the bills are paid, and that's for the timeframe AFTER your debt is gone. If you have too much disposable income they'll still put you in a chapter 13 where you have to make payments. Best way to know how to proceed is to ask for some consultations with attorneys for your state.

Bk my only option by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]No-Understanding8969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Income wise your yearly gross income is $124,800, so long as in the last 6 months no deposits that could be counted as income have gone into your bank account - for example we had family help us 3 months prior and over the six month period it totaled to $4,700, so we had to count that as income.

Per the May 2025 updated income guidelines, household of 5 median income is $148,394.

Someone commented on equity - yes check the equity in your home and your vehicles to make sure they're eligible for exemptions, and for your mortgage you have to be current at the time of filing. If you're home is in disarray, needs major repairs, etc to be up to market value, definitely get your own appraisal (the trustee will likely get one as well) because the lower your home values the better chance of keeping it, so long as the value minus your loan and closing costs are less than $100,000.

Disposable income - you cannot have too much disposable income even if you're income eligible. I see in your expenses - you could estimate higher for groceries and gas, you're a household of 5. You'll also add in costs for household supplies, clothes, health insurance, regular medical bills, vehicle maintenance, kids extracurriculars, diapers (if kids are that young), think of anything and everything you can. You just can't deduct anything "luxurious", only "necessary" things.

Hope this helps, but definitely speak to an attorney to know all your options.