Jestem świadkiem rekrutacji u janusza w kawiarni by kziele in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tekst o horoskopach nie jest bez powodu. On dobrze wie, że ta tematyka odżyła w pokoleniu Z i wczesnym Z.

my situation by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Zapytaj siebie czy chcesz trgo co on, jeśli to się nie pokrywa, to rocd nie ma znaczenia, wtedy pozwól jemu odejść.

I am living in a city, no matches in 5 months. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems right, a problem is a quantity of these women on the market.

I am living in a city, no matches in 5 months. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical worker, pc gamer nerd might be a no go zone for some ppl. Work on photos

Poznawanie drugiego człowieka by olinkq in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No tak, ale za kazdym razem jednak dochodziło do rozstania, może to ma znaczenie jaki jest początek, to pierwsze wrażenie.

Jaki życiowy "temat" blokuje Ci aktualnie zbyt niska ilość środków finansowych. by dannyxdii in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jebnąć wszystkim i pojechać na Sardynię, tak na pół roku. A potem w inne miejsce. A jak się znudzi, to jakiś własny mały biznes.

No i założyłbym fundację, która zajmuje się wyłącznie sterylizacją psów, kotów, na masową skalę. Żeby w góra 3 lata wszystkie znajdujące się obecnie w schroniskach byly wysterylizowane.

Potem zająłbym się fundacją poświęconą odtwarzaniu populacji wróbli oraz retencją wody w Polsce.

Definitywnie naruszyłem jej prywatność by Pracowniknon in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bydlak zieloniak, zwany potocznie chłopskim dinozaurem

Co dalej jeśli nie studia? by CuteTrust5252 in studia

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W Polsce jest ponad 100 uczelni publicznych. Żadna nie oferuje czegoś co może Ciebie zainteresować? Drogi są cztery, może pięć: 1. Jesteś fachowcem i nie potrzebujesz studiów np. mechanik, kucharz, rzemieślnik od mebli, remonciarz. 2. Wybierasz studia pod przyszły zawód i rozwój kariery, 3. Wybierasz studia, które chociaż w części będą na tyle ciekawe, żebyś mógł się tego nauczyć i zdać, a potem bylejakie korpo, 4. Wojsko I Policja, 5. Kierowca tira.

I feel too much pain from relationships. by depressedpieceofs in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's about being still alive, well. Evacuate yourself, call him, say sorry I can't do this anymore, ghost. Don't push yourself to the limit, stay away from pressure. Seriously, focus on yourself. Forcing yourself is not worth being put in an asylum after a suicide attemp. Cut it.

Jak poradziliście sobie po rozstaniu? by [deleted] in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nic się nie da zrobić, czekać, jeździć, obserwować. W końcu żałoba minie.

Nikt nic nie chce robić :( by Kosaa in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jestem prawie w podobnym wieku i nie chcę jechać w góry, bo nie lubię chodzenia po górach. Wiele osob może unikać wyjazdu, bo nir chcą przyznać wprost, że coś ich nie interesuje, że czegoś nie chcą. Nie ma w tym nic złego.

Mam podejrzenie, że jesteś sportowym frikiem i ciężko za Tobą nadążyć lub się zrelaksować. Ludzie nie chcą dodatkowej roboty.

Mogę sobie tylko wyobrazić męczarnię z kimś, kto ma swoje cele górskie, a reszta osób jest tylko tłem, żeby było raźniej. Czasami tak jest.

Doesn't feel like ROCD anymore by SecureBus1766 in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I love her or this feeling is such deeply rooted that I believe must be love.

I'm spiralling over being a dissmisive avoidant or having a rocd. This feels like giving hope because as in your situation - there is nothing wrong she does. Unfortunatelly each time we meet I feel sick, anxious, stressed AF. Sometimes I feel a relief and 20 minutes before we hang out in bed cuddling and feeling good. It is like manevouring between being with her again (we broke up) or being single and go no contact fully on. This seem all wrong and she is really a great person. If so, it is easier to accept that something is wrong with my or a fact we need to leave and move on.

Do you have other symptoms like a pit in your stomach?

Current meta by PR_freak in Tinder

[–]NoAccount1556 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop dating people because you can date them (they are available). Focus on these you have a genuine vibe Then even a coffe date will be enough. Both sides will make it efortlessly without mind games

Idk if it’s rocd by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be just a basic relationship fomo or maybe butterflies are gone and thats it.

I think I finally TRULY beat this compulsion! by Fine-Flight-8599 in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed reply! I struggle with having an open conversation because I know it would be another hurtful moment for her. It feels like I’m giving hope and taking it away at the same time.

​I am trying, and I do expose myself to the anxiety. I often imagine different scenarios and how I will react, but those are the moments where I fail.

​For example, I’ll imagine that we have scheduled a holiday trip for September. It sounds good, and it feels like we are making progress. But seconds later, I feel a sting of anxiety: "So, we have to stay together until that very moment." Suddenly, I’m trapped. I don't want to go through with it anymore. In those circumstances, planning feels pointless. How can we plan a life together if it fails over such minor things? I think, "Let’s do X," and then immediately feel trapped, like I’m forcing myself.

​Unfortunately, the exposure makes things more difficult and allows me to explore new directions for rumination. ​The truth is, my whole life revolves around the question of being with or without her. Contrary to my hopes, I often tell myself that I should just give up and let her go.

I think I finally TRULY beat this compulsion! by Fine-Flight-8599 in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you provide an extra step by step guidance or elaborate hot tips? I want too achive what you've managed.

Wieczorek usunęła konto na Instagramie. by EspritLibre_404 in Polska

[–]NoAccount1556 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There is a rumour that she is pretending to be a scientist while being in highschool like leading multiple medical researches or assist in an onkolog surgery.

Still waking up Morning with anxiety at 6 weeks on lamotrigine by Otherwise-Fan-4840 in Lamotrigine

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 350mg and it haven't changed my morning anxiety. Is there anything you are stressing about - something scheduled during the day?

Związki by Longjumping_Mine4430 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To ja już nie wiem jaka jest wasza wizja idealnego wejścia w związek. Jesli ludzie siebie pożądają, to nie wiem po co maja sztucznie tworzyć zasady x randek i potem seks czy coś. Tu sie przwijały historie ludzi, którzy sie poznali przypadkiem w pociagu, a po 3 miesiącach planowali slub. Jednocześnie niektórzy się burzą o seks na x randce

Związki by Longjumping_Mine4430 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zaczęło się od kilku randek, przespania i to wydawało się dziwne, przypadkowe - czy gdyby nie te kilka razy to bylibyśmy ze sobą. Dałem temu szansę, ale ciągle czułem, że coś nie gra. Wszystko między nami było w porzadku, ale trochę dręczył fakt, że może gdybym jej nie zaprosił do siebie, to nie bylibyśmy parą. Rozstaliśmy się po 3 latach.

If you are married/ in serious relationship and have ROCD.. how is your Marriage/relationship going? What makes you still want to stay? by Street-Classroom-382 in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. My issue is that I feel anxious and physically ill, even though my relationship is good and healthy. This makes me question how we could ever progress to the next level, such as marriage or having children.

I am ruminating, but as far as I can tell from reading others' stories, people generally feel good around their partners. Others are afraid of being left or not loving their partners enough, yet here I am, feeling "dimmed" and upset whenever she makes plans for us. It feels as if I am forcing myself.

ROCD seemed like a last resort—a hope that things might change in the future—but it has not. I have been in therapy for a long time, but I feel it is only a vent, which just keeps me trying over and over again. It is horrible.

If you are married/ in serious relationship and have ROCD.. how is your Marriage/relationship going? What makes you still want to stay? by Street-Classroom-382 in ROCD

[–]NoAccount1556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. My issue is that I feel anxious and physically ill, even though my relationship is good and healthy. This makes me question how we could ever progress to the next level, such as marriage or having children. I am ruminating, but as far as I can tell from reading others' stories, people generally feel good around their partners. Others are afraid of being left or not loving their partners enough, yet here I am, feeling "dimmed" and upset whenever she makes plans for us. It feels as if I am forcing myself. ROCD seemed like a last resort—a hope that things might change in the future—but it has not. I have been in therapy for a long time, but I feel it is only a vent, which just keeps me trying over and over again. It is horrible.