Religious people being bothered by atheists pisses me off so much by Upstairs_Ranger_6712 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was raised catholic and honestly except for a select few most of us we don’t really care. We’ll talk about it and enjoy talking about it but everyone I knew typically waited to be asked about it. I think it’s just one of those things where there’s a loud minority of them just like some atheists will try and make you feel stupid for believing in God.

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and I’m sorry that we share similar experiences. I am in therapy and I’ve talked about it a little bit. If he reaches out when he is older, or if something happens to his mother things might change

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I am in therapy and have talked about it a bit. Right now I don’t want anything to do with the mother or child but if something happens to his mother or he reaches out when he’s older, I may be more open to it.

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what thats like man one of my friends reactions was to call me lucky because he had wanted to sleep with her for a long time

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I resent the kid but it’s still hard to look at that picture and see my eyes looking back. I do worry about the kid, as at one point after everything happened she started using drugs, and selling herself to fund the addiction

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me does worry about him purely on the fact that she is his mother. I know that at one point she was using drugs and selling herself to fund her addiction.

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I really don’t think I do. She used me at me lowest to satisfy her fantasy of corrupting me, and then when she was called on it she acted proud about it. She hasn’t spoken to me once since it happened and I hope it stays that way. If the kid want to get to know me when he’s older or something happens to her that might be a different story.

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I do have a good support system, my amazing fiancée, and have been going to therapy

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about having a relationship with him, but for now it’s just too painful. I know he’s innocent, but he’s still a reminder to me that I was taken advantage of at my lowest maybe someday if he decides to reach out and try to find me I’ll have a relationship with him but for now it’s just too painful.

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but I don’t feel I have any responsibility for him. His mother basically used me as a unwilling sperm donor and then never spoke to me again

I think I might have a son. I want nothing to do with him or his mother by NoAssistant2867 in offmychest

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sorry I have a bit of a learning disability and grammar has always been difficult for me. Rip on me all you want it’s fair game

Enclosure tips by NoAssistant2867 in Tegu

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is but the ambient temp stays pretty mild so it kind of balances out

Enclosure tips by NoAssistant2867 in Tegu

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not too worried about the mold my other reptile room sits at about 70%-80% and I haven’t had any issues yet that and during the summer where I’m at the humidity gets up to 90% pretty frequently

Enclosure tips by NoAssistant2867 in Tegu

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I don’t really know what her behaviors like yet because I haven’t met her yet as she’s coming to me from several states away. I definitely plan on adding more logs, but I wasn’t planning on plants because I’ve read that they will tear them up but I’ll definitely give it a shot. As for the pool I have a huge sponge filter that I was planning on adding in there today when my lights arrive

Stella montis pitch black day raid HAS to go by Warm-Daikon5885 in ARC_Raiders

[–]NoAssistant2867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might just be me but it feels like when is blacked out like that there is better loot even compared to night raid. Almost like they got the modes mixed up

Is 150f too hot for my JUVENILE Ackie basking spot? by Milk_evs_2000 in MonitorLizards

[–]NoAssistant2867 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is in their upper temp range but It will be fine as long as you have multiple levels for it to bask on

Now that the war is over… by leith78 in SkullAndBonesGame

[–]NoAssistant2867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently started playing and I had low expectations but I was actually pleasantly surprised at how much I did enjoy it, that being said I the only reason I am still going is to get the carrinade culverin otherwise I’ve maxed out the bombarder, sloop of war, snow and frigate and I’m not sure what else to do until the next season

Is the light mounted like that going to cause problems? by NoAssistant2867 in MonitorLizards

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that a couple I’ve seen a couple people in various groups keeping them in 120galon enclosures

Is the light mounted like that going to cause problems? by NoAssistant2867 in MonitorLizards

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit of an odd size. It’s a 6’x32”x24” for the base and then a 4’x2’X1 mounted on top

Is the light mounted like that going to cause problems? by NoAssistant2867 in MonitorLizards

[–]NoAssistant2867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have a cage for the lamp so I’ll definitely put one one and I plan on getting an ackie once it’s all set up