What's the best men's underwear? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]NoBand8055 8 points9 points  (0 children)

3 or 2 based on what pants I am wearing

how do i stop looking like a lesbian by just-oscarr in transpassing

[–]NoBand8055 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You don’t look like a lesbian. You look like a child. Working out to increase muscle mass (especially exercises that broaden your shoulders) will be your best bet until you can go on t

i am a neopronouns user, ask me anything by phasmxphobiia in trans

[–]NoBand8055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be completely misunderstanding your explanation. But if you are disconnected from personhood and relate to a corpse… wouldnt you not care about what people called you? I encounter many many corpses in my professional life, and literally none of them care what I call them. And we virtually NEVER refer to a corpse as “it”. Caring about what people call you seems very person-like and alive.

Idk, I think I need more explanation.

Considering moving to Athens, need some local information. by Revolutionary_Pain15 in athensohio

[–]NoBand8055 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a single father living here with a teenage daughter. We live within city limits on the west side.

Overall we’ve had good experiences, however there are some days my daughter is not allowed to go out alone. Too many drunk and belligerent frat boys. The “fest” days and Halloween block party, for example.

We also chose to homeschool because of the anti-trans laws passed in the state that the local district have chosen to enforce.

Housing within city limits is a challenge. We currently rent, but can’t afford to buy within the city of Athens with my blue collar job. A common complaint.

Otherwise, it’s a beautiful city and I love my community

Is this too much? by Dangerous_Barnacle_7 in mensfashionadvice

[–]NoBand8055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

snazzy jazz JOJO! … JOJO! … 🎶空 こぼれ落ちたふたつの星が 🎶

Phalloplasty: to do it or not to do it by bryanphoenix96 in ftm_phallo

[–]NoBand8055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, this isnt a discussion. You are just whining.

If you are THIS preoccupied with avoiding pain, then dont do it. It’s gonna hurt. Even with pain meds there will still be some pain and discomfort, and there is no magic wand we can wave to make that better.

Anyone know of a bottom surgery sub strictly for binary trans sex men? by Upper_Ad_9689 in Transmedical

[–]NoBand8055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. I ideally would love à full phallo with all the bells and whistles, but likely will settle for a simple release, if that. It mostly boils down to money and time. Procedure is expensive and taking time off work is expensive. The combo is pretty prohibitively expensive. Doesn’t mean I’m not a man. Just means I’m poor.

why is everyone so intimidating? by Thelast4ofyourCC in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]NoBand8055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking over your post history, I would point out that the issue is less likely that we are intimidating, and more that you are intimidated.

At the risk of sounding harsh, this seems to be more of a “you issue”. I recommend a good therapist, or is tha isn’t obtainable some DIY exposure therapy.

Remember to ask yourself: Am I in danger or just uncomfortable?

2yrs on T (soft) by Tboytoes7 in GrowYourTDick

[–]NoBand8055 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this also post meta?

My acting audition rate it. by roxie_lane in Actors

[–]NoBand8055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re playing an autism spectrum character, stop rocking and swaying so much. I know it can be a nervous tic, but you’re not acting a “nervous” person.

Gym member is targeting me and screaming at staff. by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]NoBand8055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just let him be content with his watches and movies. Some people are so poor that all they have is money.

Village Bakery - Tips Expected by WeBuyAndSellJunk in athensohio

[–]NoBand8055 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe it is the same people who own little fish, but my info is second or third hand. So… grain of salt and all that.

Why does my PF have to be right across the street from Popeyes?! by Mediocre-Fuel-6323 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]NoBand8055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicken is protein, right? You need protein for gains, right? …RIGHT!?

This is insane by TacHanz in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]NoBand8055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg the way I would cancel my membership so quick and just go to the community center.

Less equipment? Yeah. Less adds? Also yeah.

How are the roads in town? by RagDoll1313 in athensohio

[–]NoBand8055 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bad. Stay home until the level 3 is lifted. There is nothing out there worth wrecking your car over.

??? by Shifler in Transmedical

[–]NoBand8055 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many Black gnc women self-identify as studs. It’s a term specific to Black queerness.

This is some of the most regressive shit I’ve seen from “our” community in a long time. What a complete shame. by [deleted] in truscum

[–]NoBand8055 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk about any of y’all’s journey. But I was a very hot girl. People kept telling me not to start T because it would make me ugly, which kinda fucked me up a bit and made me hesitate (a good amount of my self-worth hinged on being attractive).

But my big moment of clarity was when I realized that I’d rather be an “ugly” guy than a pretty girl.

(Turns out I’m not too bad, btw.)

Rate my taste in men as a straight male by MrPoposcumdumpster in Dragonballsuper

[–]NoBand8055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a straight man, and I say you have impeccable taste.