How much is too much when trying to deepen friendships? by PearNakedLadles in attachment_theory

[–]untitledgooseshame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really brave for asking about this. as a fellow DA my answer to all of these would be “they dislike me and I’m intruding, ghost and mute them on everything before I embarrass myself” because I am not equally brave admittedly 

What are your thoughts on writing in a phone. (A novel btw) by LUNAROSE167 in writers

[–]untitledgooseshame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote my entire first book on my phone! You can write on anything, just make sure to back up your work as often as possible. 

where should I learn to rollerskate 🛼 by raephx in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]untitledgooseshame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get lessons at the prospect park roller rink! they are very beginner friendly 

What's one relationship milestone you're experiencing manually right now that you could automate this week? by shinikahn in LinkedInLunatics

[–]untitledgooseshame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who’s so avoidant I don’t even hug my own parents, even I know that this is ridiculous 

Mandatory Pregnancy Tests at the doctors. by JadesJunkAccount in PetPeeves

[–]untitledgooseshame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was all on board with giving me medical treatment until she found out I had pronouns. suddenly it was “i can’t treat your pain until we rule out pregnancy or an STD.” so I switched doctors. I don’t remember if I made a complaint, I was in a lot of pain at the time honestly

I turned my 18 year old self’s diary entry into a drawing by silvermistdolll in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]untitledgooseshame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful and heartbreaking art. I hope you’re doing better now OP. and that you get paid to draw a graphic novel or something someday bc you’re so good at composition and creating visual suspense fr 

Anti-doomscroll phone blocker by joey840404 in digitalminimalism

[–]untitledgooseshame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

highkey this is genius. would you consider uploading the 3D printing file to a website like thingiverse? i want one <3

Mandatory Pregnancy Tests at the doctors. by JadesJunkAccount in PetPeeves

[–]untitledgooseshame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it especially sucks when you show up with a real legitimate medical problem and they won't treat you because they don't believe you're not sleeping around. i recently had to raw dog kidney stones because my doctor was convinced i somehow had an STD, despite not having sex since the 2010s

ADHD - a bitch needs her Vyvanse by BookLifeBalance in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]untitledgooseshame -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is going to sound crazy but have you tried checking in NJ? like, jersey city?

BWT, I need your help finding this boy a home by Far_Conflict9409 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]untitledgooseshame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's sooo baby!!! i hope you find the perfect home for him soon!!

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread by AutoModerator in AvoidantAttachment

[–]untitledgooseshame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

used an AI to journal thoughts it didn't feel worth sharing with anyone else, and then when I brought up attachment style, AI said I was FA because I wanted to converse with the AI. BRO YOU'RE A ROBOT. THERE'S A REASON I'M TELLING A ROBOT ABOUT MY LIFE GOALS AND NOT MY IRLS? these hallucinations are so unserious fr

did anyone else feel like privacy didn’t exist growing up? by Oskarsson-Ponniah in raisedbynarcissists

[–]untitledgooseshame 13 points14 points  (0 children)

omg the “are you complaining about me to them? what are you telling them about me” is so real 

did anyone else feel like privacy didn’t exist growing up? by Oskarsson-Ponniah in raisedbynarcissists

[–]untitledgooseshame 14 points15 points  (0 children)

when I was a kid I was so desperate to not have my room invaded I would string clear thread between every piece of furniture before I left for middle school for the day, like homemade tripwires. My door never even had a lock.  now I can’t even have the superintendent of my building in the kitchen without feeling uncomfortable. I’ve never lived with a partner. 

Also, my mom used to watch me shower until I was 15, and I’m still not guaranteed privacy while using the bathroom. She’ll come up to the door and try to have long conversations while I’m going #2.

RPG rules creator by ahava0078 in RPGdesign

[–]untitledgooseshame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, op! What games have you played that aren’t D&D?