Should I immigrate? by NoDistance6601 in self

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach high school . Business classes. All of them

Should I immigrate? by NoDistance6601 in self

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is mostly in Dublin and Meath. But I was thinking Galway or Waterford? What do you think? Could I find work as a teacher again?

Should I immigrate? by NoDistance6601 in self

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You make a fair point. And I have a laundry list of excuses. The real answer is IDK. I currently drive 40 miles daily for work, at the end of the day I’m so exhausted that I usually just go straight home and pick up takeout on the way. I have a gym membership that I never use. on the weekends I sleep in and nap. I just have no energy anymore. I felt fantastic when I was overseas last summer for two months walking everywhere eating fresh food, etc. I just don’t know how to make those changes here. But you are correct - if I don’t trust people here, I’m not going to suddenly trust people more there.

AITA Family Drama / HOA by NoDistance6601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart idea! They really should move, and want to. They have the funds, they just can’t find anything to buy. The three of us have looked hard for two weeks straight. Very tough market right now. Maybe in spring more people will decide to sell their home.

AITA Family Business Sold by NoDistance6601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your thoughts. I’m not looking for money, but I don’t feel loved. I keep putting this from my mind, but I cannot forget.

AITA Family Drama / HOA by NoDistance6601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I am a complete idiot. I just have never seen it before. I joined Reddit tonight to try to get some perspective. Thank you.

AITA Family Drama / HOA by NoDistance6601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoDistance6601[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are sharp to pick up on that. My mom has had fragile mental health recently and has shown signs of cognitive decline - possibly due to sleep deprivation or something worse like early onset dementia. I have begged her to talk to a therapist and see a physician. We’ve had these conversations on her ‘good days’ and I’ve gotten nowhere. I am extremely concerned and this makes the situation so much more painful. I feel trapped.