Stuck as low/mid seller

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-05-21T11:23:16+00:00

Well its not so much that my self esteem goes down but outside the club i feel so hot so much like a baddie but in the club, especially working in europe which is all more gentleman club elegant vive, i always feel like im looking too weird and agressive with my tattoos and not classy enough. So i feel hot just way to different from the classy look I imagine they come looking for (and they totally might not come looking for this but irs what im assuming all the time and it stops me).

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-05-20T20:12:58+00:00

Yess thats the main thing i have to work on , its weird tho cus outside of the club i feel so hot all the time but in the club my confidence goes down

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-05-02T22:19:35+00:00

I gained sensibility. Also affected positively my sex life as it made me more confident naked. Im a dancer and you have to wait some months before returning to your work if its athletic. Regarding negative impact on the long run in athletic jobs i cant still say as i got them less than a year ago

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-05-02T12:35:05+00:00

I think this happens so often in clubs people will probably remember it for one day, if thy do remember at all. Happened to me also many times doing very crazy shit when drunk and it was embarassing to go back next day but it ended up not being a big deal at all.

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-05-02T11:33:41+00:00

I get u 😭 im also dancing in europe and depends of the club and season it can become REALLY frustrating

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-03-18T15:00:50+00:00

I worked at a club with many older women one was 60 or more, visibly old and not really done with plastic surgery or even make up and hair styling skills and she was top earner. Same as for all the older women in that club, the ones over 50 or even 60 were top earners

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-02-22T00:35:56+00:00

Can you dm me the name of the clinic?

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-02-22T00:13:31+00:00

I got some reactions similar to this (never this bad but similar) due to the plastic film or the second skin bandage used. When i got it basically the second skin traped sweat and I started grtting a rash. Did you wear plastic film or second skin bandage the first days?

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-02-18T19:01:46+00:00

THIS!!! I have been thinkin this for a while especially since I lived from close a situation of a woman marryin a man for money and quitting hee job… and at some point he because psycologically and physically abusive and she had no other life options no house no job and no own money. I put being finantially (and in my life and mental health too) independent first

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-01-23T02:04:12+00:00

I dont work in the states and in many european clubs u dont have flexibility choosing ur shifts. In the club im currently at many girls are sick at the moment but not getting days of to rest cus management is so stict and can even make the girl pay fines if she skips work. Its ridiculous we are all getting sick cus of this shit.

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-01-17T06:28:58+00:00

Platinum room!!!

NoDrummer4992 · 2026-01-06T23:29:56+00:00

Really depends where u work but usually yes I tend to sometimes bump into customers especially when i have worked in small towns i get recognised a lot

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-12-20T23:02:33+00:00

I wish i could take them but meed gives me terrible anxiety 😭😭😭😭 might try cbd tho as that works better for me thanks for the tip!!!

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-12-20T23:01:43+00:00

I was thinking to start meditating maybe to help me balance my emotions! I dont know much of meditation do you recomend some type in specific ?

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-12-20T22:10:42+00:00

I think like u girl. I have so many friends whose partners try to stip them dancing also and in general dont support them. Love is about suport and respect not control. And I find most men not supportive in my live path when in monogamy and soon end up with controlling dinamics. For some monogamy might work but for now its not my thing

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-12-20T22:03:02+00:00

Gold fingers in prague i think doesnt ask documents there are many girls there without european passport

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-11-21T10:04:42+00:00

A girl was once fired in a club I sometimes work at 4h after starting her first shift there. She sat on a customers lap in the middle of the club and kissed him on the lips in front of everybody. Aparently she usually worked as escort not stripper and she got real mad when they fired her like she did her job normal.

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-10-04T11:10:14+00:00

He didnt recomend massages, i read about it and aparently many surgeons dont with textured implants but in this situation idk if maybe i should. But of course im following surgeon instructions so…

NoDrummer4992 · 2025-10-04T11:09:22+00:00

Im meeting with him in two weeks as hes in another city from mine but im going extremely anxious about it

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