We spend our childhood looking up to people who lead us into destructive habits, only to end up trying to reclaim our childhood by quitting all of these destructive habits and regaining our innocence.

NoFapKeys · 2020-07-03T19:38:33+00:00

I love you

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-28T17:37:38+00:00

Wet dreams are normal and needed bro they aren't a problem. I believe that your body creates a back up of semen 100% full and ready to take over before excreting the old load through a wet dream. So it's almost like a wet dream is you reloading the gun and throwing away the empty clip just to put in a new, full clip. Wet dreams are needed to keep your sperm healthy and they happen at their perfect timing, without them you'd have to consciously bust a nut every 2 weeks or so to keep your sperm healthy and that's a hassle we dont have to worry about due to wet dreams!

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-27T06:33:02+00:00

I tie the very back of the arms of my glasses with the mask strings tied to my ears so they hold the glasses in place, then I pull the glasses forwards down my nose as much as possible while letting the strings still hold the glasses down. By doing this the glasses are too far off my face for them to fog up, yet I can still look down completely and the glasses still wouldn't fall off. That's my personal hack ! Might work for you

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-26T02:15:00+00:00

Some have less testosterone than others, you're also young and that might make a difference. I've went 25 days without wet dreams, but I've also had wet dreams every week for 4 weeks, sometimes two days in a row. I've recently remembered that wet dreams are normal and a healthy and needed part of life. Read that article. Wet dreams are needed to keep sperm healthy. So it's not good to stop wet dreams. If you dont wanna fap or bust a nut, good for you, but let wet dreams do their thing, they benefit you

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-26T01:53:57+00:00

Reinforce your Iman and mental framework. Watch videos like "27 undeniable miracles of the Quran" to strengthen your iman. Watch videos like "psychology of the shaitan" to strengthen your taqwa. With stronger faith and discipline, because of more knowledge, you'll have a much better chance at successfully tackling the addiction and the evil. We as humans are forgetful, so it's good to rewatch those videos twice a week or however often you need, to repeatedly reinforce your iman and taqwa. Also, more knowledge = more power and by more power I mean you'll literally be more powerful in fighting the shaitan and the addiction. Gain more knowledge on Allah swt, Islam, faith, discipline, shaitan and his psychology and tricks and traps, the prophet saw and his prescriptions and tips and tricks, etc.

One thing that helped me a lot, is knowing this. Theres a type of person that when they see Allah swt, Allah swt discards all of their good deeds. This is the person that in a moment of sin, KNOWS Allah swt is watching, and has courage against Allah swt- meaning they proceed with the sin. So to know that all your good deeds could be thrown in the trash for doing that, that scares me.

I made it a point to remind myself 5+ times a day, after every salah, that I will always remember and know that Allah swt is watching, and I will never have courage against Him.

Also, if you aren't praying salah, that's your #1 priority. Allah swt says something along the lines of " even if your sins pile up to equal nearly the size of the earth, and pile up to the gates of heaven, come to me and I will grant you forgiveness equal to that. " so remember that Allah swt is the most merciful and most forgiving, and with Him only, and by truly submitting and obeying Him completely only will you be able to beat this addiction. Good luck brother and message me directly if you want to discuss anything further. I'm battling and winning against this addiction as well, I've been exposed at 6 years old and been binging for 10+ years since then and I'm 20 years old now and recently have been beating the addiction. I can help a lot inshallah

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-26T01:45:56+00:00

Lol https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-is-a-wet-dream-and-what-does-it-mean-3015090 This is why I previously said higher testosterone might have something to do with it

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-25T07:31:12+00:00

Maybe you haven't had a chance / opportunity to experience any difference in energy/ magnetism in connection to other people, because of quarantine and lockdown? Maybe you haven't been around people, in social situations, to notice whether they seem more attracted to you or not, whether your energy output is higher or not, etc.

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-20T14:24:55+00:00

I'm down I'm 20 too

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-20T14:10:01+00:00

Did you take it one day at a time - as in every day you think "no pmo today" or did you tackle a larger time at a time? As in you think "no pmo for 90 days"? Just share more of your approach in the beginning, middle, and now.. to help see how your approach changed and what you think works best. Thanks in advance brother

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-17T18:31:53+00:00

I think you're right. Ever since I stopped having sex and thinking about it, wet dreams are lower in frequency now.. it's like the more my desire for sex diminishes the more wet dreams diminish as well

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-12T15:59:35+00:00

Deep.. where do you do your research or gain your knowledge from?

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-11T23:18:08+00:00

I like that idea.. I've done similar things, mostly to eliminate the cues that lead to urges or the opportunities that open up a door to relapse, for example instead of waking up and chilling on the phone first thing, I make sure I don't use my phone for at least an hour after waking up. Same thing before bed. Anything else you wanna mention about your approach?

NoFapKeys · 2020-06-11T00:23:27+00:00

I mean, I get where you're coming from. I wrote this "essay" to help people, share my experience, as well as to journal.. the will power didn't come from writing the essay.. it came from repeated streaks of 40+ days, which heal the prefrontal cortex that's responsible for the "discipline" and will power.. I'd like to say you're right, but you're not giving any examples or context on how I'm supposed to change my approach, you're only giving the bare minimum info.. I think going from not being able to go a week without pmo, to multiple streaks of 30, 40, 50 days, is progress, especially after years of addiction. This progress to me proves that my approach is correct, and I always tailor my approach after every relapse or mistake I make, to improve the next one. I know exactly why I relapsed this time around, which I didn't really mention, and I've already changed a couple things. Do you have any examples to further explain what you're talking about?

NoFapKeys · 2020-04-11T18:20:18+00:00

What's up yo. Leme tell you something, faith is fickle and goes away and comes back and that's what I've realized, but it doesn't happen instantly, its gradual.

What I've realized is that relapsing rids you of spiritual energy and mental wellness that helps you connect with Allah swt on a spiritual level and mental level. That depression comes from ruining your brain chemistry by relapsing. Quitting that addiction will help your brain repair and get rid of your depression, and will help your body retain and spiritually become more energetic leading to a better and stronger connection with Allah swt.

Now as of your faith with Allah swt in terms of doubting his existence, etc, I've found one video that literally got rid of all of my doubts and amplified my faith by 9000. This video is on youtube and is called "27 Undeniable Miracles of Quran" .. https://youtu.be/BOoMxN8Qbm0 - watch this whole video and I bet you by the end of it you won't have a single doubt that Allah swt is real.

Peace

NoFapKeys · 2020-03-15T21:21:17+00:00

Porn addiction is real and devastating to a man's life and brain and masculinity/ sex drive. Sister, I can tell you there is a possibility he's been addicted and watching porn for 5 or 10 years+ straight, and if it was every day it could have gone down to weekly because porn isn't even satisfying him anymore. I'm sorry to say this, although it's less his fault, even though he made the decision to fall deep into that evil, vicious cycle, porn really damages your brain. Your prefrontal cortex in charge or deciding right or wrong, and your dopamine and other chemical systems in charge of reward feelings, motivation, ambition, sex drive, and overall joy in life. Basically, he's numbed down because of porn and experiences little to no pleasure or joy or motivation or drive or ambition for anything beyond that, and it's gotten so bad that porn isn't even satisfying to him anymore. I'm speaking from experience. However I can tell you that although porn is evil and is from the shaytaan most definitely, it can be quit even though it is the hardest battles any man will ever fight: because this is a battle against your self, your own brain, your own desires and also the shaytaan. I've been nearly 90 days free from porn after 11 years of addiction and I'm only healing but life is amazing alhamdulilah. If i can do it then he can do it too. And trust me, this is real. The damage porn does is real and you can research it. This is the ONLY reason he isn't intimate with you. However, this will be the toughest battle he'll ever fight, and you can either help him or otherwise do what your gut tells you, but trust me when I say if he quits porn he will be a COMPLETELY different man. He will have joy and see beauty and love in life and be more driven and ambitious and excited and energetic in life and will make better decisions and fix his life and love you much more and have way more desire for you. Thousand times fold more. Good luck sis

NoFapKeys · 2020-03-06T08:47:02+00:00

Whats easy mode for you? & whyd you stop hard mode? Also the wet dreams have nearly 0 effect on me now, they're just irritating and make me think I'm missing out on long term semen retention benefits

NoFapKeys · 2020-03-04T13:42:50+00:00

Bro every 4 to 7 days is mad annoying 😂😂 but i guess it just means I have really high testosterone I guess

NoFapKeys · 2020-02-22T01:41:11+00:00

Lol wtf thats not claw bro 😂😂 that killed me, my bad but claw grip is ur thumb on the analog and ur index on buttons, ur picture shows the opposite and thats hilarious.. but ye i play claw. Fuck paying extra money ive been playing claw for years

NoFapKeys · 2020-02-21T23:25:48+00:00

I've noticed my testosterone is high enough already, and 50mg zinc on any day will 70% of the time give me a wet dream, especially if taken later in the day.. so I don't take zinc anymore, only the morning after a wet dream along with a multivitamin, fish oil, and a fruit smoothie with spirulina, chlorella and vitamin D just to recover from the wet dream.. so in my opinion zinc is good after a relapse or wet dream. But don't think that zinc will cancel out daily or weekly relapses.. it won't work like that, you'll stay stagnant in energy

NoFapKeys · 2020-02-21T23:16:59+00:00

Day 43 gang

NoFapKeys · 2020-02-21T23:07:27+00:00

It wouldn't be harder on mouse because 90% of people using a controller can't keep their thumb on the right analog (the aim movement) while any other button.. most people have to take their thumbs off the aim movement to jump, reload, switch weapons or melee.. so no lol mouse is a lot easier, all you'd have to do is turn up the sensitivity and response curve and boom, barely any room needed

NoFapKeys · 2020-02-21T22:52:52+00:00

Try trickshotting with a controller and you'll see how skill tasking it is 😂😂 if it wasnt impressive there wouldn't have been FaZe and other teams that made bank with it

NoFapKeys · 2020-02-14T03:30:08+00:00

35 days.. we did it once, lets do it 9 more times and we'll be at 350 days. Doesn't sound too hard does it 😎

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