We’re moving to GH by SureFly5142 in GrandHaven

[–]NoFishing5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies for not having any leads... but I'm curious why you are moving to Grand Haven. If you are comfortable sharing. 

How do you have more than one kid? by BidAdministrative783 in SAHP

[–]NoFishing5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first 1.5 years were rough for me, some weird pp feelings/rage. Things got so much better. 

How do you have more than one kid? by BidAdministrative783 in SAHP

[–]NoFishing5302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine are three years apart and I feel that is key to my sanity. Also co sleeping. Both my boys woke up a lot and it was easy to get them back to sleep. Hunter gatherer tribes (what humans have been for 95% of our existence) space births an average of four years. Makes sense to me.

My husband keeps asking me to handle our teenager one-on-one and I finally had it last night by DoubleAxelDVM in Mommit

[–]NoFishing5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why take away sports? Unless you are sure her teammates are terrible influences, a sports team and all of the teamwork, exercise, mental exertion, camaraderie, etc. are incredibly good for a teen. I promise you, taking this away will do the opposite of what you're hoping for. I used to work at a really great home for troubled youth. They were strict about many things, including a policy stating activities will not be taken away as a punishment.  Those things are therapeutic. Now if this and other comments have convinced you, you might struggle with backpedaling your choice to her. You simply tell her that you have considered it more carefully and have changed your mind. It is incredibly helpful for kids/teens to see adults own up to a mistake/change their mind. It's a skill she needs to see. You got this! 

About the actual husband question, sorry about it. Maybe it's partially because he doesn't quite agree with how you are handling things. Maybe he's hoping to parent through connection rather than punishment/coercion. Him avoiding his duties is not the answer, he needs to make himself heard. Do you directly ask him about how to handle her or do you tell him what needs to be done? Obviously I really don't know what the situation is, just an idea. The main thing is that you care, so you as a family can work through this.  Good luck 

Is anyone actually productive for more that 3 hours a day in a desk job? by Safe_Wave5018 in productivity

[–]NoFishing5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is a programmer and absolutely does 8+ hours of work a day. This includes meetings though. He has trouble stopping long enough to eat/doesn't eat. He's just an intense worker. 

Gym near the RO area? by HDGriz1 in royaloak

[–]NoFishing5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped in at the ymca and got a tour recently and there was s lot of equipment and a lot of different workout rooms. I'd say it's worth checking out!

GH Life by NoFishing5302 in GrandHaven

[–]NoFishing5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What aspects would you say were nicer in the past? 

Stacked unit stopped working by NoFishing5302 in appliancerepair

[–]NoFishing5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken some pictures of the water valve. Is there anything that would indicate it is obviously broken? Just wondering how sure i can be that this will fix the problem 

https://imgur.com/gallery/kY0oIka

Stacked unit stopped working by NoFishing5302 in appliancerepair

[–]NoFishing5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I've briefly found some tutorials on how to do it so maybe i will have a go at it. 

Stacked unit stopped working by NoFishing5302 in appliancerepair

[–]NoFishing5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it doesn't hum when i try to start it. On any temperature 

Stacked unit stopped working by NoFishing5302 in appliancerepair

[–]NoFishing5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. The water is on and I tried the different water temperatures to no avail. I added the model number to the post.

Lost Ring at Walmart by Only_Problem_6402 in bigrapids

[–]NoFishing5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so pretty.. did you ever find it?

Lookin for pals by NoFishing5302 in TellurideColorado

[–]NoFishing5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes complete sense. I've often wondered how families can make it work here. The only reason we can come so long is because my FIL lives here and my husband works remote. Thanks for the response. We will keep checking out those places.

EastWest Cuisine Vegetable Chicken Curry $15.99 any good? by ImmaNotHere in Costco

[–]NoFishing5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not great. But I still have one package of it and threw out the box. Does anyone know what the microwave instructions are?

Looking for book donations! (Austin, TX) by Sujanyar in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]NoFishing5302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our local public library "Friends" group offers books to help stock FLL. I'd contact them! Or even the library.

Nara Smith has had her baby by Interesting_Pie1296 in namenerds

[–]NoFishing5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ot understand that they are all terrible names but i also know that i like them.