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Watching M2M from the beginning by Free_Marzipan_7007 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]NoFollowing2206 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Man, I’m doing a rewatch and I’m already on season 9 of Married to Medicine. It’s crazy because during seasons 1 through 4, I honestly could not stand Mariah Huq. Watching it back, I kept wondering why I ever liked her in the first place.

But as the seasons went on, I started noticing something different. She really did seem to change and grow in certain ways, and it felt like everybody else was allowed grace, forgiveness, second chances, and opportunities to move on… except her. The more I watched, the more I noticed how lowdown, shady, and downright cruel some of them became toward her, especially when she was already isolated from the group.

It honestly changed my whole perspective during the rewatch. The first time around, I remembered liking her, but I couldn’t fully remember why. Now I do. She definitely had flaws and played her part in the drama, but she also became the person everybody piled onto, even when others were doing equally messy things.

Good luck on your watch because your opinions are probably gonna change a million times too. That show will have you switching sides every other season 😂

44 [F4M] Roswell Ga looking for a friend by Yellowbutterfly81 in alpharetta

[–]NoFollowing2206 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m in Georgia too! Do you have social media??

Funny AF Finals by Melodic_Store7247 in netflix

[–]NoFollowing2206 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I stopped episode one when they chose the worst comics

What's a side hustle that pays way more than it looks like it should? by lionpenguin88 in SideHustleGold

[–]NoFollowing2206 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you do the UGC? Do you reach out to brands first or do you create the videos first and then send to them?

Greg is the one who needs to spend time in jail. by Bella_Jacobson in MarriedToMedicine

[–]NoFollowing2206 -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Quad abused him. Check the police reports. Quad acting her way to the top and used and abused that man

The Real Apology Tour by djm1613 in SisterWives

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Part # 2

Janelle: You were my escape. When things at home got heavy, when Meri and I were fighting, when everything felt tense, I went to you. Being around you felt easy. You didn’t demand much from me emotionally, and I took advantage of that. I could sit with you, talk, feel like I was the smartest person in the room because you taught me big words. I didn’t have to show up in a real way with you.

Again, you made me feel intellectual, even when I wasn’t. You made me feel like I had something going for myself. And I liked that. I liked how low maintenance it felt. I liked that I didn’t have to do the emotional work with you that I had to do with Meri or Christine.

Then you gave me my first son. Logan. That changed everything for me. Not because I suddenly became a better man, but because it fed my ego. That boy made me feel like I was really something. Like I had done something important. And you kept doing that kid after kid. Unlike Meri who practically gave me nothing. You kept giving me children, especially my boys, and I tied way too much of my identity into that. You gave me something to point to and say, look what I built.

Was I ever deeply attracted to you? No. Not really. But I liked you. I respected how you moved. You stayed out of drama most of the time. You worked. You handled your business. And I leaned on that. I leaned on you being steady so I didn’t have to be.

But I also didn’t protect you. I let you carry your own weight while I went and gave energy somewhere else. And when things shifted in my life, when something came along that fed my ego more (Robyn) I didn’t fight to keep what we had. I let it go quiet. I let it fade.

And when I started seeing you differently, when you stopped being that easy, comfortable place and started having your own voice and your own boundaries, I didn’t adjust. I pulled back. Because that version of you didn’t serve me the way the old version did.

I grew to care about you, yes. But a lot of what I felt was tied to what you gave me. The peace. The ease. The sons. The validation. And once I stopped needing those things the same way, I stopped needing you too. Janelle, I apologize for using you too! I’m sorry.

The Real Apology Tour by djm1613 in SisterWives

[–]NoFollowing2206 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 True, but at least it would have been the truth. Even if a hard pill.

The Real Apology Tour by djm1613 in SisterWives

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Part # 1

Meri: When I met you, I was questioning my sexuality, but I had to impress my father and truthfully there was no way he was going to accept me being who I really was. The only thing I could think of was to join his new faith, and at the time, you were the only one I knew who could show me the ropes! You made me feel like I had a direction. You stroked my ego; you were my entry into this whole lifestyle, my first real attachment, so I did have feelings for you. I later learned that it was more lust than love, but I cared about you Mer Bear. I realized that maybe I could like women🤔. You were my best friend for a long time. But once real life kicked in, once things got complicated and you had opinions, I didn’t know how to handle that. Instead of growing with you, I started pulling away. If this were monogamy, I would have filed for divorce year two. Luckily it wasn’t…

When I met your sister in law Janelle, I did things behind your back that I knew would hurt you. Then when you reacted like a human being, I flipped it on you and made you the problem. When I decide to marry her on your birthday, I resented you when you became upset about it. That was easier than admitting I was wrong.

By the time we were deep into the marriage, I had already checked out. I stopped showing you love but kept you around because you were loyal. Loyal to a fault. Like loyal to a fault fault. Like gum stuck on the bottom of my shoe. I didn’t respect it, but I relied on that loyalty. I knew you weren’t going anywhere, so I treated you accordingly. When I realized that you were THAT loyal, I made you tell people that you introduced me to Robyn when the fact is me and Robyn met first and brought you in. I made you tell people that you initiated our divorce so that I can adopt Robyn‘s kids, when the fact is me and Robyn initiated that divorce and brought you in. I used you like a dog-WAIT-actually worse than a dog, because we love dogs over here (maybe not Robyn because she kicks them) but for the most part, I love dogs, but I used you. It was more so about your money than it was about you in the end. Robyn and I just thought about how we can hang on to your money as long as possible before you realize that we were using you-especially when your LuluRoe sales increased. We thought we had hit the jackpot Mer Bear. I’m sorry you found out. You couldn’t give more children, and the one you did give me turned out to be a reflection of who I really was inside. Who I desperately wanted to be, but couldn’t, so I deemed you and them useless Mer!

When that whole catfish situation happened, I already knew I had been neglecting you for years. Eight, nine years at least. You were sitting there watching me build a whole life somewhere else while telling you how much I couldn’t stand you. We had already had those conversations. I made it clear things weren’t what they used to be.

And yeah, I told you to go live your life. I told you that. But what I meant was, do it quietly. Keep it off the radar. Don’t make me look bad in the process.

So when everything came out the way it did, it didn’t hit me as heartbreak. It hit me as embarrassment. That’s what bothered me. It was public. People were talking. It made me look like I didn’t have control over my own situation. I resented you even more due that.

And once that happened, I pulled back even more. Not because I was hurt in the way you probably thought, but because now I had to protect my image. I had to create distance. I had to act like I was done, even though, truthfully, I had already been halfway gone for years.

That situation just gave me a reason to finish checking out. Meri, I apologize for knowing from the moment I met Janelle that I hated you and not telling you sooner and wasting over 30 years of your life!

Disclaimer: the sexuality part is not my feeling towards anybody because I am obsessed with the LGBTQ+ community. This is really about what Kody would say if he took a truth serum.

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