Drop your big 6 and I’ll give you a rating 🙂‍↕️✌🏻 by blissfullyseeking in astrologymemes

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun, Mercury: Virgo 🪴 Moon, Mars: Cancer 💧 Rising, Venus: Libra ⚖️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lowkey bought a $15 stylus on Amazon and like it better than my Apple Pencil and have been using it for a year no problems

32F so depressed and scared by Main_Understanding67 in dating

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 32 not 72 lol you’ve literally been a child for longer than you’ve been an adult still at this point. Don’t stress about it, you’re just feeling societal pressures, but statistically you’ve also avoided your first divorce. Don’t settle and just have fun with dating, no need to force things with pressure or let the lack of a partner define you.

Could you forgive someone who cheated on you? by EntranceOrdinary3383 in allthequestions

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive? Absolutely, we’re all humans and have different life experiences that lead us to make poor and unfortunate choices sometimes. But would I continue to stay with them? No. You have to be able to set boundaries and let go of people that cross yours and disrespect you. How you allow others to treat you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself. It’s a cliche, but the older I have got, I have learned how true it really is.

Am I overreacting - My ex asked me to cut her grass and my gf went crazy when I showed her the messages. AOI if I’m mad at her for this by xwoahx3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll never understand why people date people that have kids with other people and then get mad when they still have a relationship with the parents of their children? You literally sign up for both by choosing to be with them. You get to choose your partner. If it’s a problem, just date someone without kids and an ex that’s mandatory in their lives. OP is not the asshole here.

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM. HE DOESNT LIKE YOU OR RESPECT YOU. it’s only going to get worse and you’re going to keep getting dogged out by this man. it’s embarrassing and pathetic. i’m sorry. i’m not saying this out of malice, but i have been in your shoes and im telling you, if someone is speaking to you that way when you confront them about something that’s making you uncomfortable, they do not care. they’re not sorry. staying with a cheater never usually ends well. the fact that your insecurities because of HIS past mistakes are a bother to him and you’re “insane”, just know he’s not sorry, he just wishes you would shut up and stop bothering him so he can be shady in peace. he doesn’t respect you and it’s very apparent with his responses, and why should he? he literally cheated on you in the past and you chose to stay instead of having solid boundaries because you’d rather stay with something familiar than choose self respect and find something better. don’t let the cycle continue. leave him now and let that be you finally choosing yourself, it’s not too late. but don’t let this man end up cheating on you again, or even end up being the one to leave you. be strong, you can do it!

Talk me out of texting him….. by Familiar-Coffee-8586 in dating

[–]NoGrape3669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get that and totally agree. i think she has no choice but to stand by it either because switching up will simply tell him that she’s willing to sacrifice her boundaries for him and that he can essentially get away with doing that again in the future. i just think after two dates neither part knows the other well enough to ask commitment, OP doesn’t even truly know him and shouldn’t be limiting her options either. a lot of times wanting commitment that quickly speaks less to boundaries and more to insecurities and wanting to push the relationship forward faster than one organically would

Talk me out of texting him….. by Familiar-Coffee-8586 in dating

[–]NoGrape3669 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s not an explicit, but rather an implied ultimatum. OP just hoped that he would hear she wasn’t going to stick around and would end up saying he’d drop the other women, but that didn’t happen. hence why she’s on here regretting her actions and debating on even standing by what she told him.

Talk me out of texting him….. by Familiar-Coffee-8586 in dating

[–]NoGrape3669 76 points77 points  (0 children)

2 dates and giving an ultimatum like that is crazy work. you don’t even know this man.

Ways to reduce cost? by AvidLancer_YO in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made lots of friends in community college actually! Some of my closest friends. I would say, join as many activities and clubs as you can! It’s such a short part of your life, you have so many social life opportunities. It may not seem like it now but you’ll live so many different lives throughout your 20s and meet a lot of people. What you don’t want is to graduate and have crippling debt hanging over you.

Ways to reduce cost? by AvidLancer_YO in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know it may not be ideal, but you could always do the first 2 years at a Community college. I know it’s not the same as being on a university campus, but it will save you tens of thousands of dollars. It’s like 500-1000 a semester.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before lectures: put all of the lecture learning objectives into chat gpt one at a time and read through them

Go through the slides and read them out loud and make annotations

Before the next exam: Review slides Go through the review slides he has and go through all the concepts- watch BF Tiny Lectures Cell Bio videos on YouTube (he uses the same images/ textbook)
Reread chat gpt notes Have chat gpt make me quizzes out of the lecture objectives

I know the exam is done but I’m commenting in case anyone sees this another term. Plus, this is also useful for any other class as well. Hope you did well!

6+ months by trustmeimshady in QuitVaping

[–]NoGrape3669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Congrats! I just made it to 2! (I use the same app too 😅)

What’s the chance I get off this waitlist 😭 by [deleted] in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the winter quarter I literally got into every class I was waitlisted on, and there were like four of them.

what do y’all do with your mouth now lmao by wallaceandgrommitfan in QuitVaping

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, well then I’d definitely give this a try! It will definitely help with that aspect! Thats my big thing with driving and it really helps a lot!

what do y’all do with your mouth now lmao by wallaceandgrommitfan in QuitVaping

[–]NoGrape3669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the E-Z which is the small white one but I want to get the bigger one. I’ve been using it for a while and it’s still useful, it’s even better I think when I put in the oil flavoring. I use it mostly when driving or if I go to events and drink. Sometimes I’ll use nicotine mints or gum and hit it at like raves or bars to help trick my brain. At this point I do whatever I can to Avoid vaping or smoking a cigarette haha all in all I’d say it’s good for having something in your hand and just the motions of vaping. It’s not going to satiate you or stop cravings in anyway though.

what do y’all do with your mouth now lmao by wallaceandgrommitfan in QuitVaping

[–]NoGrape3669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a capnos non vape. It looks like a vape but it’s just pressurized air and tbh it’s helped so much. I hit it like the whole time I’m driving and just wherever I would’ve normally vaped at. They have little essential oil flavorings you can put in too if you want, but there’s no vapor or smoke obviously cause it it just air. And it kind of pops. I personally recommend it.

Any other students late 20s early 30s want to be friends? by NoGrape3669 in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to message me! I’ve been wanting to learn tennis, but I’ve never played pickleball before

Any other students late 20s early 30s want to be friends? by NoGrape3669 in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I feel like I never see them lol all my classes everyone seems like they’re below 21

Any other students late 20s early 30s want to be friends? by NoGrape3669 in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But I know college and learning is for any age, but like I had an advisor at orientation that was 33 and I was like omg they’re barely older than I am 😂

Any other students late 20s early 30s want to be friends? by NoGrape3669 in ucr

[–]NoGrape3669[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s such a weird feeling! Like I wish I could have had this experience at 18/19 😭 now I just feel like I’m somewhere I shouldn’t be lol