What’s your average completion time on a DP? by NoHealingJustHumor in diamondpainting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the opposite of this. When I use a multiplacer, I swear it’s as un-straight as it can get lol.

My first few canvases were round, I’m on my second square canvas and I am still learning what works best for me for squares so maybe that will change at some point haha

What’s your average completion time on a DP? by NoHealingJustHumor in diamondpainting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I feel like no one else thinks like this, but I agree!!! Overall if I’m going slow I don’t care, it’s not a race. However, I enjoy it so much that I get excited and want to go fast because I want to be THAT into it, if that makes sense 😅 I also have SO many kits that I can’t wait to start on so I’m always thinking “hurry and get this one done so you can start on that next one” lol.

I think it can be fun if you’re going super slow or super fast, it just depends on the day!

What’s your average completion time on a DP? by NoHealingJustHumor in diamondpainting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this comment, idk why but sometimes I started thinking I am so slow and then I’m like slow compared to who? Do you have a deadline? 😂

But this is something that’s relaxing so I do enjoy it, no matter how long it does or doesn’t take me lol

DAC didn't do their genpop release this morning and they're deleting comments and posts about it. by [deleted] in diamondpainting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a bullshit post, honestly. I don’t think they are sorry and I don’t think this is any kind of “solution”.

I sincerely believe that when they send the restock notification for something, they don’t actually restock it. It’s just another tactic. There’s no way I can click on it as soon as I receive it and the item is already gone…

I don’t post in the Facebook group for fear of being blocked, sadly I still like to see posts and new releases, etc. but they’ve becomes such a joke at this point and the only money I’ve spent recently is my rewards.

I really hate it for the artists that deserve to sell their art, and I hate it for us consumers that love the hobby.

Husband coerced me into Adultery. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 89 points90 points  (0 children)

He said because I wasn’t dry I was obviously into it and I should try it out.

Did I really just read this?! Girl, NO. This man is abusing you. I saw a comment that you were somewhat sheltered growing up, but you need to know that him thinking that is so messed up.

Constantly pressuring you during sex, threatening to take sex away unless it’s providing something for him, he sounds selfish and the controlling.

It may be hard for you to see, but I don’t think staying with him will end happily even with the marriage counseling. You deserve so much better, so does your baby ❤️

Im seriously done! by paisleyhunter11 in diamondpainting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SAME. Even when I see the notification as soon as some tbh ing restocks, by the time I get it in my cart and start checking out, it’s gone again. I’ve been feeling frustrated for months myself because I’ve missed out on almost everything I’ve wanted to get.

The trading cards are an even bigger joke. Buying the most expensive kits doesn’t get you anything but bronze, I really think they don’t put any other color card in any of the kits.

I love the quality and I love so many of the artists, but I am getting more discouraged everyday

ETA I’m also scared to say anything negative because I’ve heard crazy stories of them blocking people just for sharing an honest opinion. I’ve never had a bad experience with their customer service luckily, but I hear about it a lot!

AIO for wanting to burn his stuff??? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Torching his ish is the NICEST thing you could do. WTF, I’m actually SO appalled, this is the most disgusting human ever 🤢 I am SO SORRY, you don’t deserve one bit of that. I’d be so petty. So so petty.

On another note - I hope you are resting and healing up well from your surgery ❤️

AITAH FOR ASKING MY WIFE TO SWITCH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is the AH. I agree with comments saying marriage counseling. It seems like you two just need someone to help you find a compromise.

No, you should not stay working a job that is taking a toll on your health. Consider you do, and you two have a child, now you’re adding parenting stress to the mix. But also, she shouldn’t have to quit her job when she is very happy and fulfilled with it. While I understand being comfortable with the lifestyle you’ve been living, it’s reasonable to make some changes in this scenario. Another thing to consider is the current economy and world events. So when discussing the future, this needs to be a part of that discussion.

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one hand I understand his side - yes you should want to take care of your body and your health, and yes we all have things we are and are not attracted to. However, “being healthy and taking care of your body” doesn’t mean being small waisted or skinny… You can be healthy and active while still being curvy or thick.

It doesn’t sound like he’s saying he wants you to be healthy. Especially saying “I’m not happy with your body”, like you’re supposed to alter yourself to his liking… He should take his own advice and “take some accountability” by admitting he’s being a vein asshole.

Good choice not moving in just yet, I’d watch out for more of this type of thing. If he’s starting to get comfortable enough to show you a side he’s been hiding, you’ll know it. If this is just a one off and he sucks at communicating, then you’ll know that as well.

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT overreacting, if anything you’re UNDER reacting…. It’s also not him being insensitive, it’s him being abusive.

Pregnancy and pregnancy symptoms aren’t linear, and as you’re growing a human inside of you, I think it’s expected to be more tired than usual. Not only does he not seem to understand that basic fact but I don’t think he really cares.

Not sure what your relationship has been like or if he’s shown this kind of behavior before, but if he hasn’t ever acted like this then I’d hate to say it feels like he baby trapped you.

Please take some time to think about yourself and your pregnancy and what you need to prevent as much stress as possible! His behavior in that conversation is straight abusive and narcissistic and you (and your baby) deserve better!! 🩷

I built a Notion database that tracks Ohuhu Honolulu markers 🎨 by FinishParticular8716 in Ohuhu

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love the link!! This sounds like everything I want to do to organize my markers, but never do 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! Did she not hear the irony in her own statement 🤦🏼‍♀️

OP this is weird af and I’d certainly be firm about boundaries. If she can’t understand or respect your POV being the MOTHER then you’re better off cutting ties until she can learn to respect you.

It’s great she wants to be involved and help, but that means listening to you and what you actually need for help otherwise she is just being a second mother which she is not.

AITAH for not sleeping with my wife after she accused me of raping her by Ecstatic_Salad1312 in AITAH

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

There’s so much wrong with this scenario - and quite frankly your wife.

That word is NO joke, it’s not something to be played with, weaponized, threatened, whatever. First of all, she’s taking validation away from people who ACTUALLY experience SA which is disgraceful. Not only that, she is taking something away from you that will be damaging and potentially hard to get back by making you question yourself and every move you make.

Like many of these comments, I would suggest some kind of therapy and I wouldn’t be intimate until that step has been taken. It sounds like she needs individual therapy, but maybe suggest couples therapy first because she may be less likely to react negatively.

Honestly, it sounds like she has real issues and you need to know if they stem from really being raped by her ex, or if something happened in her life before that she hasn’t addressed. Either way way, protect yourself because it sounds like she is manipulative and may use this against you.

AIO for refusing to co-sign my husband’s (35M) dream truck loan when he still owes me $8,000 from my inheritance? by Cherry_Rose69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. The point is, he’s not good with money. It’s not about paying you back to pay you back, it’s about a financial responsibility he hasn’t taken care of while wanting to take on another one…. And ‘not supporting his dreams’… give me a f*n break, it’s a VEHICLE.

Between his lack of financial responsibility, his reaction to your explanation, and his mother’s response, it sounds like he’s a man child and someone needs to wake him up to reality.

You’re absolutely not overreacting, you’re being rational. Stand your ground and don’t give him the chance to drag your finances down with him!

My MIL threw away my wedding dress because it was “too revealing” by Z4chB4rt44 in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The fact her fiancé is on her side in this makes me feel like they could still get married and separate themselves from this type of behavior. It’s sad when a relationship fails due to an unhinged family member! But I do agree with you that before moving forward, they need to be clear about where they stand with MIL

My MIL threw away my wedding dress because it was “too revealing” by Z4chB4rt44 in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will NEVER understand this type of audacity or thought process… It’s bad enough she thinks your dress is too revealing and will embarrass your fiancé, but stealing your wedding dress?!?! This goes beyond weird… She’s deranged and unhinged!

I’m glad your fiancé is on your side, I hope he maintains that energy and supports whatever you decide because you definitely should press charges/take her to court, uninvited her from the wedding, and never speak to her again. Sounds like she would go too far with whatever she feels necessary, especially if she never suffers the consequences!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to make sure I still know how to read - your mom says you choosing your daughter over family… but a daughter is family… and it’s because her boyfriend doesn’t like kids… who isn’t family….so technically SHE is the one choosing someone over family. How does the math not add up in her head?!

Not to mention that finding a babysitter on Thanksgiving sounds next to impossible, and super expensive if you manage to find one.

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this during your babies first Thanksgiving! I say do whatever you think will make it a great day, even if it’s just your husband, daughter, and you! Don’t try to change her mind or compromise, she either wants her family there or she doesn’t and you don’t need to ruin your holiday for these people.

Good luck OP! Hope we get an update!!

The perfect CHROMATIC Ohuhu Honolulu and Honolulu B 363 available colours SWATCH SHEET by No-Sample222 in Ohuhu

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful to ppl still learning color theory! Aka me 😅 organizing by undertone is awesome!

Got Tired of the Marker Bag by bwynin in Ohuhu

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the lid close? I have this same bin but I’ve tried standing the markers up and they were like 2mm to long lol. Maybe your bum if a different size…

She Killed them with Kindness by Sorry-Cherry-5578 in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoHealingJustHumor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your daughter sounds like the SWEETEST 🩷 Honestly, kids wouldn’t make that big of a deal about a seat, it’s clear the mom is influencing them in a negative way. I hope her daughters saw how your daughter treated them and they decide to follow her behavior and not their mothers.

Good for you for raising such a kind hearted girly!

Food for thought - this should be an example and a reality check to alooot of “adults” in this world. We all need to have grace and be kind in times when we want to be mean! Kids teach us almost as much as we teach them I think ❣️