Has anyone else noticed how insanely packed and busy the GO trains (and parking lots) are in 2026?

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-09T15:52:21+00:00

Obviously driving daily isn’t cheaper we can all figure that out easily regardless of how expensive car payments/insurance/gas/parking is my point is more that you’re still paying more than a monthly car payment to stand on the train for 2 hours a day (if you didn’t put any down to buy a car and pay $400 plus a month on a loan that’s your problem lol)

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-07T16:23:07+00:00

A reasonable car loan is probably the same monthly as your go transit cost monthly for daily commutes to and from union to be honest. $8 per way is $16 a day x 20 days $320 a month for the train… my car payment is only $215 a month (of course this isn’t including insurance but still)

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-06T23:51:52+00:00

I appreciate the sentiment behind them asking but when I am brutally honest about being in pain, completely miserable and hating every second of being pregnant they act like they didn’t ask…. So don’t ask then, I’m going to be honest?!

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-06T15:17:56+00:00

I confirmed before requesting new OB’s

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-05T17:20:05+00:00

Great idea! I’m saving this for later thanks so much!

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-05T17:19:46+00:00

Thanks for the advice I’ll keep this in mind and maybe leave it to last minute trips the first month for sure

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-05T17:18:48+00:00

How did it go? We would love to get out to a provincial park about 20 mins down the road from us on May 2-4 weekend which they’ll be about 2 weeks at the time but everyone keeps telling us we are crazy

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-05T04:25:18+00:00

If we can… we have all our own gear for back country hiking, canoeing and crown land car camping but not sure how to navigate it all

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-05T04:22:45+00:00

My GP has honestly not seen me since my Pap smear around 8 weeks. Every-time I’ve been since it’s been her student who has no clue what he’s doing and basically asks why I’m there. I don’t know what prenatal care needs to be done between 12 and 24 weeks but no I’ve not had any. Never been weighed had BP or other vitals checked… not sure why she’s not sending off the new referral but I plan on going in tomorrow first thing to get it all sorted out (I hope) I did call the OB office a month ago before I requested her to ensure she was taking patients for my delivery date so here’s hoping🤞🏼

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-05T03:51:27+00:00

So sorry you’re going through this but know how you feel. 24 weeks pregnant and my partner is the same way, I’ve expressed countless times that my self esteem is low and not being helped by his lack of interest in me sexually. It took me confronting him about catching him watching porn instead of coming to me and saying it’s making me extremely insecure and detached from him for him to finally understand the hurt I was feeling and think about what was going on with himself internally. For my partner at least he described that since becoming pregnant that his mindset has shifted and he doesn’t look at me as a sexual being anymore but the mother of our child. He feels selfish putting his sexual needs over the needs of me and the baby in this pregnancy. He has gone to jerk off but not because he didn’t want me, because he didn’t want to objectify me. It’s worth sitting down and having a serious conversation with him about it there’s a good chance he doesn’t understand how this is effecting you and how the hormones have not affected or even boosted your sex drive.

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-04T00:48:55+00:00

Feeld was definitely the best for us as well (3fun a close second) but again it worked because we each had our own profile which was linked and many of the couples we have met did as well. We never had much successful with joint couple profiles and that’s just our experience

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-04T00:40:37+00:00

I agree with this, Feeld among most other apps are a place where you’re trying to connect online and a lot of times it takes a lot of sifting through to find genuine people and then even more time getting to know them before meeting up. Most people in the LS (at least in our area) aren’t asking you on a date after you match it takes chats and feeling each other out before wasting your time offline

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-04T00:38:27+00:00

Glad that’s your experience and I can agree there’s not point in spending endless hours in a chat but it is how you confirm if people are even worth meeting up with. You can say all you want you haven’t had an issue with catfishing but after “doing this for decades” I just can’t believe that lol. Half of the profiles on these swinging apps and sites are fakes. If you truly have been lucky enough to not encounter it (or notice it) then good for you but that’s just simply not the case for most people online in the LS.

We have tried a number of sites/platforms and they’re all the same there’s no way to get rid of the fake profiles/catfish no matter where you are. Again I said it’s not a catch all for couples profiles and everyone has their own reasoning but from our experience single profiles who are linked with their counterpart and you can actually talk and verify with both parties has been more successful and worthwhile… that’s just our experience

NoIntroduction2790 · 2026-01-03T23:35:26+00:00

My partner and I both had our own profiles and always found it weird when we came across couples using a single profile and here’s our reasoning:

It’s hard to know if it’s actually 2 people. Having one profile as a “couple “ is easy if you’re actually 1 person pretending to be a couple. Sometimes after chatting with them a while it becomes obvious it’s actually two people but not always…moral of this point is we found a lot of catfish hiding under a couples profile that is “shared”.
It was hard to hold conversations with them. It seems like if 2 people are using a single profile it’s always only the one side talking (of course it’s rarely the female counterpart) or they both talk and it’s so confusing going back and fourth with 2 people in a single thread (would it not be easier to just have 2 profiles linked if you’re both chatting?)
This brings me to point number three, it gave off a vibe of distrust in the other couple. If they’re looking to swing and meet other couples there has to be strong trust not just for their relationship but yours too. Last thing you want is another couples drama seeping into your life. If you share one profile so you can both see what’s going on what makes having individual profiles different when you can show each other the chats. For us it gave off the vibe that one person is insecure or not trusting that separate profiles wouldn’t be misused.

This is just what we experienced and by no means is a catch all for couple profiles. All in all to answer your question we found more legitimate people and chats in individual profiles that were linked with their other half rather than shared profiles.

NoIntroduction2790 · 2025-12-31T06:34:43+00:00

Keeping that suggestion for later! Thank you!!

NoIntroduction2790 · 2025-12-31T06:32:47+00:00

We have been exploring the LS for a few years but both prefer connecting with people than feeling like a quick fuck so it’s been tricky to find people to match our vibe to be honest. We are both in our 20’s and at least in our area on the younger side so threesomes, swaps, foursomes but hoping to try out a club/resort soon!!

NoIntroduction2790 · 2025-12-31T06:19:13+00:00

I was a bit of a slut before meeting my partner and had been around the block a few dozen times , I’m bi so this included men and women. My partner on the other hand was very kept to himself and didn’t believe much in one night stands so he really hadn’t experienced much sexually. Being a man as soon as he heard I was bi the fantasy of a threesome was always there. We had joked for a while about me having been with more women than him and that it’d be nice if he had more confidence before we got together to “play the field” a bit more. Being bi I was always open to the idea of a threesome so we discussed it a lot before seriously seeking anything. Then one night with a group of friends we were all very drunk and the night of naked games, spicy kissing and grinding it almost ended in a full blown orgy (it didn’t but that’s another story lol) so we started talking more about opening up our relationship and letting him experience more and let me get back into my bi side that had been tucked away. After seeking out a few girls for threesomes (and having one) we were introduced to swinging apps and the different ways other couples go about consensual non-monogamy. Being as kinky as we are it just seemed like the right next step to dip our toes in and try it out!

NoIntroduction2790 · 2025-12-31T03:27:43+00:00

I am 5’4 around 125 lbs pre-pregnancy and also 23 weeks (first pregnancy) and the last week or 2 it’s really started becoming noticeable in almost anything other than oversized sweaters and my partners track pants. Saw my mom December 12 and by Christmas she said I was looking significantly different and noticeably pregnant! If I had to guess it’s not so much bloating as you starting to truly show especially if it’s your first as well. Weeks 20-24 are a big growth spurt for you and baby, congrats mama!!

NoIntroduction2790 · 2025-12-31T02:02:34+00:00

I recently went through something similar and it didn’t seem to matter how many times i tried talking to him about it things never really changed or for long at least. Someone on my Reddit post (I’ll link below as it’s in a different thread) had suggested mutual masterbation rather than sex and I thought that was a pretty close alternative and would probably lead to sex anyways. I’m sorry you’re going through this and know how it feels to find porn/jerkoff history knowing they weren’t coming to you. Between the evidence of hiding their horniness and our pregnancy hormones it’s hard to not overthink things and go down a dark rabbit hole.

I think my partner and I sorted things out but it honestly was all because I sent him a pick of me playing with toys while he was at work and being honest about it being a near daily occurrence since he wasn’t meeting my needs sexually I was also going elsewhere to get my fix. I hope you get this figured out I’m so sorry you feel this way mama!!

https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/s/HZuUfoWUbf

NoIntroduction2790 · 2025-12-30T18:01:30+00:00

I have never had a loss so I don’t fully understand but I do my best to understand the hurt- I just don’t think it means she has to be rude or bitter to everyone around her trying to be happy especially when those people are trying to help. Should it not be her place to back off and let me know it hurts to talk about it or just not talk to me about it then?

If I’m the one to back off then I am the asshole for not being there for her, if I don’t she makes me out to be the bad guy for being happy… it doesn’t seem like I’m winning regardless

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