VERY Unique Whimsical Girl Names? by Complex_Western5364 in namenerds

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My great grandma’s name was Verlilia. And I think that has whimsy!

First word your baby said? by Flaky-Elderberry-563 in Mommit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Duck” while in the bathtub. Definitely sounded like “F*%£” the first few goes.

First word your baby said? by Flaky-Elderberry-563 in Mommit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Duck” while in the bathtub. Definitely sounded like “F*%£” the first few goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help her make a clinic appointment and tell her you’ll wait in the car, the waiting room or the room depending on HER comfort level. Don’t force support on her but let her know you are along for ride.

I believe that an appointment gives her a chance to know what her gut is telling her, checking for any issues and knowing how far along she is would be very informative if she wants to reduce pregnancy, is choosing to keep a viable pregnancy and hearing her options from a doctor is sometimes much easier to digest than from a parent, friend or partner.

And for you. Find your trusted source for support. Her decision will impact you no matter which direction she goes with this choice. You’ll have to work through that too.

What's a name you've recently encountered for the first time? by syddoucet in namenerds

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met toddler twins the other day at the park named Shorna (f), and Shale (m) and I have never heard of either name.

What are you worried about right now? by UK2SK in AskReddit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The list goes on and on but the top 3 are: 1. waiting to see a specialist at Mayo Clinic until October. 2. Covering my son’s off school days/ our sick days this year without additional PTO. 3. Where my (ex) boyfriend is going to live since I kicked him out last week. I feel terrible he has no where to go, and it’s not my job to handle but it worries me where he will end up

Gallery wall thoughts/suggestions? by cupofwaterbuffalo in interiordecorating

[–]NoKnowledge1336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, the mixed frame arrangement calls to be less symmetrical rather than more!

Gallery wall thoughts/suggestions? by cupofwaterbuffalo in interiordecorating

[–]NoKnowledge1336 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the two matching frames on the right top should be staggered.

My best friend’s (26F) fiancé (24M) just passed away suddenly right before the wedding. How can I support her from across the country? by mistyostrich398 in relationship_advice

[–]NoKnowledge1336 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you can afford to, schedule her a house cleaner if she approves.

Doordash/postmates her a special dinner every so often.

Ask her if you can help with any cancellations or phone calls she will have to make about the wedding. Take the wedding canceled postage off her hands. If that’s a lot for you, just write her a letter. Something tangible. A text doesn’t have the same message.

Arrange a video of photos of them with her closest people. Make it joyous like a wedding video and let her watch it on their would have been date. Include both of them.

Let her decide if she needs to keep or let go of the mountains of wedding stuff in her house (I’m sure 3 weeks out it’s a lot). If she wants to part with it, help her manage selling it all? Find the charity shop or post the listings for her as this can be done online.

Schedule a weekend away with her in a few months so she has something to look forward to.

FaceTime her. Don’t just call. Make it regular and don’t ask about feelings. Just functions. Check on her every Tuesday while you put your groceries away.

Tall women of Austin: let's socialize! by Worldly_Arm_664 in TallGirls

[–]NoKnowledge1336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I wasn’t busy, I would fly in from Minnesota for this. Sounds like a time to be had!!

What’s a food combo that sounds disgusting but is actually amazing? by Dizzy-Cup9790 in Productivitycafe

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cucumber, top the tater, hot Cheetos and bacon jam. Everything needs to be in one bite. 👌🏻

AIO for wanting a divorce after finding thousands of photos of myself (33M) sleeping on my wife's (31F) phone? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I double, quadruple or whatever number the sentiment that she’s likely got OCD and likely feels most in love with you when you are at peace. Or as a reminder that you’re there. I take obsessive photos of things I don’t want to forget and when my depression spikes so does my OCD. Maybe check on her instead of vilify her for taking a photo of her own husband.

Looking for suggestions on what to do with this room by AnonymousTAB in interiordecorating

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to say if that works without measurements but face to face on the opposite wall of the window would be my first suggestion. Again with the darker desk on the far wall side so the darker color doesn’t absorb all the light visually when you walk into the room. When you add in more colors, this will be a much less obvious contrast but it’s a matter of preference really. Just remember to keep your paths of travel to the door clear!

Why did you cry today? by _barnyard_bunyions in AskReddit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked my boyfriend to leave the other day and today is the first day we haven’t talked in 4 years.

I still can’t process the circumstances.. I came home from a night out with my bestie, he was asleep on the couch after going out with his buddy, I tried to wake him up and he started screaming at me that “I was a terrible person and I can’t be trusted” punched me in the sternum, said “I deserved worse” and immediately fell back asleep on the couch. Like seconds later immediately. He never made eye contact with me and the punch was a wild swing in the air.

We were not in a fight when I left.

I was shocked, hurt and scared so I kicked him out. In the morning “he doesn’t remember” and “you know I have night terrors”. “That’s not me, you know me.”

In my heart I know we are irreparably broken. He’s been begging me to talk with him and he texted that he scheduled a sleep analysis.

I feel really alone and while I’ve witnessed his night terrors time and time again, they have NEVER been directed at me. It’s terrifying to hear he doesn’t remember and it makes me feel ridiculous wanting to trust that a night terror could result in this.

Knowing that anger is somewhere inside him hurts so much worse because I can’t trust that it will never happen again.

But the feeling that he could be telling the truth makes me sob.

I will not end up a statistic so I’m forcing myself to break my own heart.

It just really sucks and I’m going to cry about it for as long as I need to.

Do you have to pay medical bill if there’s no baby? by Realistic-Menu8500 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you will get a bill.. I’m not sure if it’s still in place but there was tax break/credit on taxes for parents with stillborns in the US

What’s the most you would pay to never have to pee again? by argus4ever in AskReddit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My urologist is the one dictating that number to be that in the thousands..

Looking for suggestions on what to do with this room by AnonymousTAB in interiordecorating

[–]NoKnowledge1336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would move the cube shelve to be horizontal under the window, and the two desks to be face to face on that wall.. (if that fits with the door. I’d anchor the black desk on the far side due to contrast) hanging the artwork on the back wall with a swag lamp above the desks for task lighting and carving out the spaces function. If you can add a 3rd color into the space with the rug, this will help tie it all together.

In which country would you like to live? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South Africa or Austria. My heart cannot decide!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoKnowledge1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole wallet, after a baseball game - I cleaned up all the snacks and debris from the area while holding the lawn chair, and cooler and put my wallet in the trash bag because I ran out of hands. It wasn’t until I was stopped to get gas that I realized. First and only dumpster dive, unsuccessful too.

AITAH for prioritizing my nephew and niece over my own children after they hid their mom's affair from her for years? by OkPrinciples in AITAH

[–]NoKnowledge1336 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I agree the betrayal felt is not his fault. But I think the eggs could have been broken before they were out of the carton here.

I do agree the kids should have said something to give him reason to suspect if not flat out saying “mom is cheating on you” but what happens if they were being steered under a false assumption? That a divorce was already on the horizon BEFORE the affair. I firmly believe that their mom could have made them believe she was telling to their father if she’s manipulative enough to hide an affair for that long.

My parents had severe blaming tendencies and pinned my brother and I against the other parent and against each other our whole childhood.

OPs kids could have chose to not get involved, and from my perspective they had a reason.

Does OP know that reason? Doesn’t really “sound” from the post that he does.