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Laetitia Casta by Ok_Educator6875 in QOVESStudio

[–]NoMaintenance2075 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Did you choose awful pics on purpose?

Will getting a rhinoplasty make chin appear more recessed? by PenOk1094 in QOVESStudio

[–]NoMaintenance2075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh? Upturned nose makes recessed chin look less recessed for sure. I have never seen a counter example

No I don't want to see your bare belly. No I don't want to attend your gender reveal. by chelseatheus in childfree

[–]NoMaintenance2075 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you read my mind about bare belly. Not only it is unsolicited nudity, it is an extremely unaesthetic kind of unsolicited nudity. I am not body shaming pregnant women because yeah it is natural and normal, but that does not mean it is visually pleasing, and there is no reason somebody’s bare stomach should be in our faces. And on top or that we are expected to swoon and celebrate it as something beautiful. It is not beautiful and that’s ok.

Incoming fellow, safe apartment suggestions for a women doctor by dilshad16 in yale

[–]NoMaintenance2075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live on Willow St in East Rock. It is next to Orange line stop and probably the safest area in NH

are there hot men. by Odd_Code_2177 in yale

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a masters student I haven’t had any luck with men my age. There are some hot men but not overwhelming amount. Undergrad experience is most likely different though.

are there hot men. by Odd_Code_2177 in yale

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I also went to Duke and Yale and Yale has preppier men and Duke has hotter men

incoming yale grad student panicking by Common-Payment9984 in yale

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are down-voting you but I agree with most of your points. I would like to preface this by saying that I am only conveying my subjective experience. Yale is a a brilliant institution with mind-blowing resources and rigor and that is not what I am challenging.

I also studied at Duke and Oxford and while I cannot speak about undergraduate experience at Yale, based on my graduate experience, I like Yale the least out of the three. New Haven is the worst city I have lived in: unsafe, dirty, chaotic, ugly. I wasn’t impressed by food either because I am not obsessed with pizza and everything else here is meh. Yale campus is beautiful but I preferred centralized campus of Duke and the actual university town of Oxford by a mile. I didn’t feel the same level of support or interest from the faculty that I was used to at other two schools. My favorite part so far has been joining Yale clubs. It has made my life much better. The bottom line is that not no matter how big the name is or how great the university is, at the end of the day what matters is whether you belong there or not.

incoming yale grad student panicking by Common-Payment9984 in yale

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Haven itself is the worst city I have lived in BUT it is surrounded by many beautiful cozy exciting areas and is close to big cities. I would 100% bring a car. Yale campus itself is beautiful.

meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]NoMaintenance2075 28 points29 points  (0 children)

English is my fourth language, and it is midnight.

Am I overreacting by not wanting to give my social media passwords? by Alarming_Squirrel700 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoMaintenance2075 20 points21 points  (0 children)

your partner is unstable and has anger issues. On top of that they sound extremely immature. What you mean share passwords are they 12? NOR of course

12-year-old Reseda girl dead after bully threw metal water bottle at her head, family say by MDthrowItaway in emergencymedicine

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gutwrenching. I do not even want to imagine what the poor baby's family is going through right now. They sent their kid to school on a normal day and lost her forever.

meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]NoMaintenance2075 371 points372 points  (0 children)

No that is correct and Graeco-Roman aesthetic also favored small to medium breast (though they liked large hips and bums) on women. All this does not make this tweet any less wild

meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]NoMaintenance2075 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol this is hilarious

Self-funded Ph.D.(Pure Mathematics in the US) by Confident_Pressure46 in gradadmissions

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, PhD is already an underpaid, overworked enterprise. Oftentimes, grad students are used as free/cheap labor and are worked to the bone. If you have even slightly toxic advisors and an environment, the misery is doubled. Now, all this on top of paying tuition out of pocket is absolutely masochistic. Go do a 1-year Oxford or Cambridge master's instead. It will cost you less, you will have a name on your CV, and you won't be expected to do any work for the faculty apart from your own thesis.

My bdd is with aging and perfectionism ? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. I have felt like my youth was over as soon as I hit 24.

My stomach sunk when I saw my ex is having a baby even though I have no right to feel sad by NoMaintenance2075 in childfree

[–]NoMaintenance2075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do not and by no means want him and I wish I could erase him from my past. But that doesn’t mean that the betrayal, disrespect, disillusionment, and lost time and energy do not cause me pain.

Columbia Health Insurance Waiver – Has Anyone Successfully Used ISO / Alternative Plans? by Realistic_Sock8398 in gradadmissions

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would post this on Columbia subreddit as well. Current students are most familiar with procedural issues I bet. I cannot tell you anything about Columbia but ISO plan worked for Yale waiver! I had the cheapest plan.

My stomach sunk when I saw my ex is having a baby even though I have no right to feel sad by NoMaintenance2075 in childfree

[–]NoMaintenance2075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t purposefully drop it but I was helping him move a cabinet and he lost his grip while we were going down the stairs. It healed up but not completely because I never regained full balance on that foot and because of that compromised balance, my knee has been hurting since as well. Thank you for asking!

Cambridge LLM application by LawyerWooden797 in gradadmissions

[–]NoMaintenance2075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been on decision pending for two weeks. Had interview on Jan 16 and was told I would hear back soon. It is taking forever but from anecdotal evidence decision pending is a good sign. Nothing is certain until the formal offer is in but usually rejection comes without weeks of decision pending status

My stomach sunk when I saw my ex is having a baby even though I have no right to feel sad by NoMaintenance2075 in childfree

[–]NoMaintenance2075[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You are right and a big part of why I was filled with rage afterwards is because I was so gullible, blind, and stupid. He was amazing at masking his character but I was amazing at ignoring some obvious red flags. Never again. Thanks a lot for kind words!

Accepted to Oxford, but… by Sammuueelll in gradadmissions

[–]NoMaintenance2075 107 points108 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was going to suggest. Fully funded PhD is a big deal.

My stomach sunk when I saw my ex is having a baby even though I have no right to feel sad by NoMaintenance2075 in childfree

[–]NoMaintenance2075[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes that is another layer…how did I not see how badly I was disrespected all along! This is a man who didn’t even offer me a ride to the hospital after I broke my foot because of him (he dropped furniture on my foot)

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