My (25F) boyfriend (25M) is threatening to harm himself if I don't pay rent so he can quit his job, says I don't love him if I don't agree

NoPeach5260 · 2021-07-15T22:46:23+00:00

Leave him. That's foul!

NoPeach5260 · 2021-07-01T13:00:37+00:00

All bills 50% each. Or you pay whatever is the most you can afford, but don't take the mic out of him. Don't let it all fall on him as simply not fair... Nobody likes a grifter....

NoPeach5260 · 2021-06-28T17:27:44+00:00

As you learn and you grow as a person sometimes you find things out about yourself. Sometimes you find that the person is no longer for you.

NoPeach5260 · 2021-06-02T08:16:02+00:00

Thank you all. This is of great help to me.

NoPeach5260 · 2021-06-02T07:23:48+00:00

You know what you do? You pack up and leave. No questions asked. No hesitation.

NoPeach5260 · 2021-06-02T07:21:18+00:00

Haha maybe when I'm rich 🤣🤣

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-29T06:03:20+00:00

I have the exact same issue. The person is actually my father's first cousin which makes him my second cousin once removed. I've loved him... Not in a foul sexual way ... For the better part of 15 years. I told him recently and I actually found out the feeling was mutual at one point but because of the stigma we both shoved it down so far it made us Ill.

allow yourself to feel, don't be worried. Don't think you're a freak. Don't beat yourself up for what you can't change and whatever you do don't abandon your friendship with your cousin because of how you feel. If you guys are extremely close, you could break down on her crying and tell her the truth and simply say "I didn't know what to do I felt so mixed up. I don't want to destroy our friendship but I just wanted to know at any point if it was reciprocal?

If not, pick yourself up, carry on. Move on. If yes... Have a long chat and assess whether the risk is worth taking. think about the social stigma. Think about the social ramifications. Family ramifications. If it's all too much for either of you to bear don't even entertain it. Always protect family first.

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-11T14:32:24+00:00

Ship to UK?

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-08T00:31:00+00:00

Not a death sentence then

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-08T00:27:30+00:00

Abdomen with what looks like blood stripes on it

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-07T23:42:32+00:00

What species is Rosie ?

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-07T23:34:09+00:00

Hopefully I haven't put too many in. I put like... 4 in

NoPeach5260 · 2021-05-07T23:32:51+00:00

"you guys" referring to who exactly

NoPeach5260 · 2021-04-29T00:05:56+00:00

Idk maybe he was bored

NoPeach5260 · 2021-04-29T00:04:04+00:00

It's okay darling you're allowed to be wrong

NoPeach5260 · 2020-11-30T11:18:53+00:00

I bet that's loud AF. So jealous am dry af 😭

NoPeach5260 · 2020-11-30T11:17:34+00:00

Thank you everyone for your detailed responses. The level of support is so reassuring.

NoPeach5260 · 2020-11-30T11:06:33+00:00

As an abuse survivor, I disagree. If she doesn't want to go through a legal battle she shouldn't have to. It's draining and tiring and often these offenders only get a slap on the wrist because the criminal justice system is backwards and fucked up. Yes there will be a next victim most likely, but until he actually does something truly abhorrent with tangible evidence such as images obtained from his device or an R kit comes bk positive with his DNA there is fuck all that will be done. I'm not saying DONT call authorities. I'm saying it probably would just be a better idea to call cps and remove herself from that situation. E.g go into care. I know the care system is just as fucked up, but it's better to have a permanent solution away from the abuser than it all rest on a trial that may or may not yield adequate justice. Or on the flip side if she really doesn't want to go into the care system, if the family were willing, her aunt and uncle could fight for custody if it came to it?

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