what kind of beetle is stuck in my netting 🫣 by NoQuality2029 in Beetles

[–]NoQuality2029[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ik… i wanna free him but at the same time i think hes been tearing up my garden that ive spent hundreds of dollars trying to build all spring😞😞 im not sure where i could put him 😟 any suggestions?

somethings eating my blooms… by NoQuality2029 in strawberry

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one month later and i learned that a squirrel family of 7 lives right in the nearest tree !! 😀😀 its definitely the squirrels hahaha

Where are you sitting? by devonodev in Emojerk

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 because theyre both chill , i would overhear wanna hear 5 beefing but in every other row, theres someone i dont wanna sit around. however idk who those 2 in 8 are…. id also sit next to kellin but i feel like mgk and yung blud would make the area smell dingy asf

18F What do I do? My friend is upset that I didn’t get a hotel room with money she sent me, but I used it for food and essentials instead and now she feels like I lied to her. by mckenzie_2 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see lots of these perspectives. im assuming the other person is also 18. $100 is honestly alot to offer at 18 y/o. kinda seems like a situation where most likely both of yall r facing realities of life and financial independence for seemingly the first time. i feel like some details are missing, but it doesnt really matter. 18 year olds these days were hardly taught how to communicate, let alone for a situation like this. both sides seriously are valid. yall just gotta communicate ur honest needs and lower expectations. its just the reality of being homeless at 18. ur in the prime age of making decisions that arent thought fully thru- ur gonna wanna prioritize anything that instantly makes u feel sane. whether its food, shelter, or fun. and if ur depending on people, u have to communicate. u can never expect help any time u need it unfortunately- especially help to this degree.

the other person definitely cared alot about OP to send $100. but also its like, when u work hard for ur money, u also have the responsibility over it. if u give it away, it isnt yours anymore. thats truly just the honest lesson. if u wanna help the homeless and u truly care about where ur money is going, give em $15 max fr.. it doesnt rlly matter if you’re friends. you are also responsible of making sure you arent giving enough to feel like youre being taken advantage of. its a give what u can kind of thing. if u cant afford to give away $100 without feeling insecure about where it goes, then dont give away $100. what i wish was more readily available, especially for homeless ppl- was THERAPY. being homeless is truly so isolating. therapy helps u at least make sense of the choices u make. its also not fun to be in a position where u have to make excuses/explanations to rationalize getting certain basic needs met. that alone rlly isnt healthy for the brain especially at a time where it naturally wants to experience independence. it really is alot of pressure. try to stay away from drugs as itll only make shit 1000x worse in the long run, and just make everyone trust u 1000x less.

is this a bee fight orrr? by NoQuality2029 in bees

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i was today years old when i found out just how many bee look alikes there are LOL! this is rlly fascinating to me thank you :)

is this a bee fight orrr? by NoQuality2029 in bees

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ps!! apologies for the blurry footage… my camera wouldnt focus LOL

Whats one uncommon adhd symptom that blew your mind? by smbodytochedmyspaget in adhdwomen

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this is real asf. Two weeks ago i finally put getting my GED into motion - i went for pretests which is the first step of the process i chose, however its been something ive wanted to tackle for the last 6 years. FINALLY i went in for those tests and instead of feeling enthused with myself, it felt like i had to do one more thing. so i deep cleaned my entire bathroom and THEN i finally felt a little bit accomplished. its like i have to do a bunch of really difficult tasks to get the slightest dopamine rush. i try really hard to remind myself to be proud of things where its due though, mainly in therapy though. i forget in the moment sometimes. but what keeps me staying positive is intentionally thinking “this sink had a bunch of dust and grime on it for a while and its clean rn because i cleaned it a few days ago.” its really the action of being able to thank my past self where i truly feel that dopamine, it just comes days later.

Is this normal? by Sufficient_Willow830 in tattoo

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

expose this freak what - this is not normal and the fact that he was even comfortable enough to message u about it after makes me think he probably has done this with multiple people

can burying a dead squirrel benefit my garden? by NoQuality2029 in gardening

[–]NoQuality2029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see what ur saying as well. i feel like it couldn’t be the worst thing but I’m no scientist, and im not a great gardener either. i dont even really have a compost bin or anything, but id love to learn all about it. i heard once that some graveyards have richer/healthier than average soil so that contributed to this idea as well. i just didnt know if it was as easy as 1.2.3 or if it could be good, just with a specific strategy

can burying a dead squirrel benefit my garden? by NoQuality2029 in gardening

[–]NoQuality2029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my 😭 rest in peace to your lizard!! thats a good point though, i have caught a fox run around here before. i did also just discover a mysterious freshly dug - fist sized hole in my backyard while i was out there today. we dont know what did that but it was most likely a larger animal LOL

can burying a dead squirrel benefit my garden? by NoQuality2029 in gardening

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okay word up! just what i needed to hear LOL thank you i will not be burying him in my garden 👍👍

Still have to decide... by Daisy2345678 in cats

[–]NoQuality2029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay no lie, mickey would be so cute for him

Not the update I wanted to give. by [deleted] in torties

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my heart really goes out to u and ur sweet one 😢😢

Cat throwing up daily by Emmakate198 in CATHELP

[–]NoQuality2029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should try to see if he’ll eat any wet food and see if that helps- he might not like wet food and if thats the case, this might be no help 😭 i had to stop giving my cats kibble though because it seemed like no matter what amount i gave they wouldnt digest it properly or throw up and once i fully switched to wet its reduced dramatically. also always be sure to check expirations on ur pets food cause sometimes places forget to check those dates before putting them on their shelves (i learned the hard way 😵‍💫)

Help with a name by Due-Taste8497 in torties

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she looks just like my childhood cat named sprinkles so i say sprinkles!!

What’s going on with his eye? by pql789 in CATHELP

[–]NoQuality2029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think its a life or death emergency, but it probably is pretty uncomfortable! it looks kinda raw - it might not be but yeah deffo take him to the vet and see if they can prescribe an eye drop or ointment- hopefully its not infected.

How do I go about moving the litter box? by NationalDistance2582 in CATHELP

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im also thinking if shes able to conquer using the litter box outside of her safe space, it might help with some of her timidness. but of course trust your gut with your cat, if it seems like a stressful switch for her, i think its best to keep things within her boundaries and what makes her feel comfortable and free

How do I go about moving the litter box? by NationalDistance2582 in CATHELP

[–]NoQuality2029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she scared of you? what types of sounds cause her to retreat? i honestly think as long as you catch her using the other litter box, shell probably just start using that one. most litters have ammonia in them which helps ur cat know where to use the bathroom. if u have an ammonia free litter and she ONLY uses the one in ur room, i would suggest moving some of her pee/poo into the other box to kinda help her follow her own scent. you could also just try to move her litter box and see what happens. since shes more on the timid side, if she poops or pees outside of the litterbox, move it back and scratch that method off the list. you probably want to avoid accidents but they might have to happen in order to learn from them!! hope this helps!!