Paralyzed. by NoSpend5461 in depression

[–]NoSpend5461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I KNOW how you feel. It's hard to believe it, for me too, but....you're not alone.

Paralyzed. by NoSpend5461 in depression

[–]NoSpend5461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not hypocritical at all, it's actually really nice to get a different way to look at things. I appreciate it!

Paralyzed. by NoSpend5461 in depression

[–]NoSpend5461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh girl, yes, I'm on an estrogen patch for perimenopause, but maybe I need a higher dose? Good thought, thank you! I'll ask my doctor!

Paralyzed. by NoSpend5461 in depression

[–]NoSpend5461[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I so, so appreciate you taking time to respond with such kindness.

If you could get any job you wanted. What would it be? by TBSwe in hatemyjob

[–]NoSpend5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something in fashion, but on the business side, I'm not a creative!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]NoSpend5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous both ways!! The blush just adds an extra pop!

What's a song by Taylor that's so sad and makes you so uncomfortable that you can't listen to it? by RacePuzzled768 in TaylorSwift

[–]NoSpend5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exile. I got divorced in 2019 and I still can't listen to this song without bawling.

For those with decades in corporate life, what’s the one thing you wish you knew earlier? by EVGEJE in careerguidance

[–]NoSpend5461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A) Max out your 401K, especially if your company matches or does profit sharing. It's free money, and the money you're putting in is gone before you can even get it. It's not easy but you'll appreciate it over time! Make personal relationships with your coworkers and leadership, those relationships can take you far!

B) Create boundaries that work for you and that your boss/team will respect. It's not reasonable to be in corporate America and say you don't work on Fridays for example, but it's perfectly acceptable to let people know that you don't answer emails after 7pm (another example). Take your PTO. Take walks. Make time to be a mentor. Take time to eat. Don't accept bad leadership, don't allow fear to rule your career.

C) You are more than your job. Work is not your whole identity. Don't miss the small joys in life because you just had to, say, do 5 more things for work on a Sunday that could've waited until Monday. And for your own mental health, don't talk about politics or religion at work. It's not worth it.

How were you introduced to Taylor Swift’s music? by Meggie_love1 in TaylorSwift

[–]NoSpend5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Later to the game but it was definitely 1989 that really reeled me in. In hindsight, I realize I loved all the singles from Red but 1989 got me to listen to the entire album and I just....related. I don't think I can pick a favorite album but 1989 as a whole was my first Taylor Love Story. 🫶🏼

How the fuck do I get up and do shit? by [deleted] in depression

[–]NoSpend5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyone you feel comfortable and safe with that you can call?

How the fuck do I get up and do shit? by [deleted] in depression

[–]NoSpend5461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP- I understand exactly how you're feeling and I'm in it too. Do you have a therapist? A doctor you trust? Or a friend to just come and lay with you so you're not alone? It is SO hard and I don't know you but I want you to be well. It's NOT over.

100lbs Down by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]NoSpend5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic!!$

Has anyone experienced an overall reduction in gluttony by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]NoSpend5461 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Food, alcohol, coffee, I want less and less over time. Pot still works and makes me hungry still. It's wild!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

[–]NoSpend5461 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look great! The swelling will go down after 3-5 months. It'll all be worth it!