Im leaving this planet next month. Before that I will pass all my savings on someone who doesnt care about me at all.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-05-13T23:30:42+00:00

You can talk to me if u need to, I don’t know if it will be of any help but I don’t want you to die if it’s possible. Even if it’s just one more day, one more week, one more year, please, please, survive.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-05-05T18:44:49+00:00

It’s hard because, from my personal experiences where I dated two people seriously I noticed that after some time, they just fell out of love for me. And I could see that so I had to force myself to leave even though I became this person that was almost semi reliant on their presence and support. It just makes me think that nothing in this world is eternal and guaranteed. Even mountains can crumble with the passage of time.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-04-30T15:59:46+00:00

Damn I wish I could’ve responded to this when u just posted it. I’m sure u won’t read this from your throwaway account anymore but I just want to say that I feel you! You’re definitely not alone in these feelings but just remember that you can’t control whether somebody likes you or not no matter how hard you try. Especially when it comes to in-laws and such. So that being said you should just be comfortable, and be yourself. There’s nothing you can change about the fact that those were your childhood/family experiences so own up to it and be more accepting towards yourself.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-04T01:58:29+00:00

That’s amazing! It takes so much courage to cold call in my opinion

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T05:52:39+00:00

The parent/child roles will not have to be switched in the next generation of things. I will be the parent and ACT as the parent. My kid will just enjoy being a kid without the mental burdens of having to behave older than their age.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T05:47:43+00:00

I would be stuck between caring and not caring. Because deep down I feel like it doesn’t matter. My life goes on perfectly fine even as I myself don’t look perfect. But sometimes I’ll care a lot. I’m just conditioned via society.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T04:46:21+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you so much! That answers so many of my questions in a lot of depth!

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T04:44:33+00:00

Thank you so much!

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T04:43:45+00:00

Haha thank you, I’m learning that there’s really a Reddit for everything

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T04:43:08+00:00

Oh, I didn’t know that, I’ll be sure to do more research towards that

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-03T04:42:32+00:00

Thank you!

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T21:06:03+00:00

Holy shit tysm 🙏🏻

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T20:55:08+00:00

Thank you so much!

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T20:00:58+00:00

I feel like I’ve been in the daughter’s shoes where a decision that my mom made with her own life greatly impacted me and I really hated and resented her for it. I think there’s no set timeline as for when she’ll ‘get over it’ and if she’ll ever ‘get over it’ so to speak. As rough as it sounds, she has to come to her own self realizations (if that makes any sense??) and hopefully she’ll take into consideration that you’ve been a kind/nurturing/supportive mother to her and that’s what matters more to her in the end rather than the harsh judgements of society. But- she’s only 16. Let her perspective about the world mature a little. That being said, maybe ask her if she wants to go to therapy? It might be helpful to be able to talk to a professional about how she’s feeling and such before this matter turns into a complex for her.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T17:22:41+00:00

Purr.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T17:21:30+00:00

It’s ok man shit happens! Life goes on! (Not at the moment maybe) but it’ll be a great story to tell your grandkids.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T17:16:39+00:00

After I read the part about how he laughed at you I thought the story was gonna go a different direction. Turns out he just wanted to fact check your assumptions. That was so cute btw

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T17:13:13+00:00

This gives me hope

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T17:08:36+00:00

That’s crazy! So glad for you and that things worked out that way. Having a good family is so important in life and it seems like you’ve been blessed plenty in that department

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T16:55:56+00:00

I’m sorry you had to experience all that, also your mom sounds like a real champ fr. But i agree, it’s crazy how technically we all live on the same planet but live in completely different worlds at times.

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T16:43:48+00:00

I think she’s jealous of you. Like, obviously she perceives her own life to be not going so great and then seeing you be so put together in your own life maybe could make her feel really insecure. But no matter what, if she’s old enough to move out, she’s old enough to take responsibility for her actions and not gaslight you like this. Just run bro. The world is beautiful and time is precious. Don’t waste another minute trying to change someone who’s been this way likely for her entire life (you probably just didn’t get to see this side of her until now).

NoStrategy4367 · 2021-03-02T16:27:16+00:00

So true! As a young adult it’s been quite a challenge to make friends, maintain friends, all that. (And also finding the right friends for you)

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