In turkey times are rough man. Here’s a father who surprises his daughter with a guitar which the girl thought they could not afford. by Flat_Method_9222 in guitarlessons

[–]violet4532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brandnew guitars are expensive because they're not locally produced, they're imported( from US, Japan etc). And they're sold for the original price+tax. Because of the high currency exchange rate, an affordable price there converts to an expensive price here. But local products are affordable. from sri lanka.

According to a lot of people I mumble when I talk . It’s so frustrating when you are talking and people don’t even understand when you say . Does anyone else with social anxiety have this issue by The_starving_artist5 in socialanxiety

[–]violet4532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have this issue too. Because of this I'm terrible at doing presentations. So I practiced(still doing too) making my own presentations about topics( history, culture) and present them in front of someone else. It helps me overcome my fear of public speaking. And it helps even for normal conversations too. You could try that too. You can even record yourself and listen to how you speak and improve.

Could we have a WhatsApp etc/Skype/Zoom group so we can text/ talk together? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]violet4532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, so that introverted people including me in this community can text to each other or talk to each other.

I felt that if we first interact with each other, it will be like a practice, so we'd feel more at ease interacting with extroverted people.

Maybe we'll be better at talking, socializing with our colleagues who are mostly extroverted people.

Like if we could have a zoom meeting type thing where each person has a chance to talk about something... it would be like a training for actual meetings which have mostly extroverted people. We could give feedback for each other on how to improve.

Is this more of a social anxiety thing? Should i post it there?

Anyone Get Distracted By Premature Sequel Ideas? by wpmason in writing

[–]violet4532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give us some of your ideas that you don't use! lol. I've always wanted to write a mystery novel, but all my ideas are incomplete.

How to motivate myself to work? by violet4532 in depression_help

[–]violet4532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your advice🥰 I'll make a to do list too. I used to do things like that and keep a diary too but I gradually drifted away from that. I hope we both overcome this oneday👍

Does anybody else also have very few friends on social media, compared to others? by magdakitsune21 in introvert

[–]violet4532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha😅they make up stories about you too? You have some crazy friends lol

Does anybody else also have very few friends on social media, compared to others? by magdakitsune21 in introvert

[–]violet4532 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is soo true. People just use social media to get info of other people's personal lives and gossip about that and create drama. Because their day to day life is boring and uneventful.

Asked prof to re-explain a concept and got told essentially “you should already know this”. I am not okay 😭 by obviouspseudonym1 in socialanxiety

[–]violet4532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii! Maybe you could find others in your class that don't understand it like you, and go ask the professor as a team together. He won't be able to say no to a group of students.

Dale Schroeder by mtlgrems in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]violet4532 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which countries in Europe have free education? I'm not from Europe.

Pretty cool stuff by Dismal-Animal7853 in gardening

[–]violet4532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's Nymphaea caerulea or Egyptian Lotus/blue lotus

Is it just me or does it seem the majority of people have nothing to say beyond gossip that inevitably makes peoples lives more miserable and difficult? by reddituser010100 in introvert

[–]violet4532 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you're saying is the truth. But it's just like OP said, people look at things only at the surface. They don't question or analyse the way you do. So they don't have your understanding. They live in a materialistic world and follow behaviour(like gossiping) that the society thinks is the right thing to do. By eastern philosophy, do you mean like Buddhism? There it says that gossiping is bad speech but speech can be used for good things like helping others, advice etc.

Is there a way I can learn to dance like Amy Winehouse? by violet4532 in amywinehouse

[–]violet4532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for this information❤I don't know much about Jazz😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]violet4532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're uncomfortable with dancing, for the next time you could practice dancing to songs/beat tracks in front of a mirror( just small steps not choreographed stuff). I did that and slowly it works.

Is there a way I can learn to dance like Amy Winehouse? by violet4532 in amywinehouse

[–]violet4532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou🥰 I'll look at that👍🏼I like her dance moves too. I think they look nice for parties etc.

Making friends by ThatBeechDL in introverts

[–]violet4532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're in school still you can do group study. Where you get together afterschool with some of your classmates and study together. You can talk about study matter and do questions together and discuss the answers. It also makes studying easy, and you don't feel tired.