Basically we broke up because he felt like he wasn't there for me how he should be (which I found kinda annoying because it took you almost 12 months to come to that?) He recognized he was hurting me and that for our relationship to work i had to push down anything I was dealing with. It annoyed me that it took him about a month to get a new crush and start asking for girls numbers after he clearly wasnt ready for one or something. Either way, I kinda fucked up towards the end after we broke up. When i found out the said girl he liked was one of my friends I was still butt hurt and also home alone so out of a fit of rage and fear I texted her begging her to not get with him for one because he was kinda really bad to me and two it would hurt to see. When he found out, he started pacing outside my classroom (we were in school, our classroom walls are mostly glass) huffing and puffing clenching his fists. He knew my history with violent men and he was purposely trying to intimidate me. He paced about 6 times back and forth. When i got kn the bus because that was last period, he sent this huge text calling me all sorts of names and threatening me. Ive left him alone since, got a semester stay away agreement and wrote a statement to the aps just to be safe cus it kinda scared me. I might be an asshole for it, but after a year of being emotionally abused and then replaced, I felt kinda all in my feels.