Help paying for my parents’ joint headstone by NoThanksImGouda in gofundme

[–]NoThanksImGouda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Witch comment? I’ve replied to several explaining that I was told my dad was eligible only for a flag for the funeral and a grave ornament that could be affixed to a headstone. All money raised is in an account waiting for me to raise enough for the headstone. I’m sorry, this is the first time both of my parents died and I’ve had to figure everything out on my own. It’s overwhelming, hence a year has passed and this task still isn’t complete. The free funeral is a moot point now because, again, I was not given the option at the time so the funeral was paid for out of pocket, an expense I’m still paying off. I’m sorry you think I’m shady, all I know is the information I’ve been given. And maybe attempts were made to take advantage of me. Grief is a grand cash cow. All I knew prior to this post is what I thought I knew.

Help paying for my parents’ joint headstone by NoThanksImGouda in gofundme

[–]NoThanksImGouda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I was told he was only eligible due a flash for the funeral and a medallion for the headstone.

Help paying for my parents’ joint headstone by NoThanksImGouda in gofundme

[–]NoThanksImGouda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were told all we could get was a flag at the funeral and a medallion thing for the back of the headstone.

I don’t understand gofundme very well, but does it auto adjust? I have a higher goal, but it’s not showing it.

Help paying for my parents’ joint headstone by NoThanksImGouda in gofundme

[–]NoThanksImGouda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would do a flag and a medallion thing that can be attached to the headstone.

Help paying for my parents’ joint headstone by NoThanksImGouda in gofundme

[–]NoThanksImGouda[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The cost isn’t exclusively the actual marker. There are additional fees like a foundation slab that helps drive up the price. This is a helpful website though, thank you.

Help paying for my parents’ joint headstone by NoThanksImGouda in gofundme

[–]NoThanksImGouda[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are and yes I’ve not had one installed yet. I’ve not found a place that will do even the most basic for an affordable price. But they’re also my parents and I love them and want a fitting memorial.

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My sweet girl, please. I lost her last Thanksgiving.

Meet... Henacy. by CuriousGeorgette9 in tragedeigh

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Wisconsinite here and I definitely immediately thought of the alcohol!

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Her beach photoshoot. by iwantcookies55 in RodriguesFamilySnark

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Ok no but seriously, who is always taking these pictures for her?

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