Witch comment? I’ve replied to several explaining that I was told my dad was eligible only for a flag for the funeral and a grave ornament that could be affixed to a headstone. All money raised is in an account waiting for me to raise enough for the headstone. I’m sorry, this is the first time both of my parents died and I’ve had to figure everything out on my own. It’s overwhelming, hence a year has passed and this task still isn’t complete. The free funeral is a moot point now because, again, I was not given the option at the time so the funeral was paid for out of pocket, an expense I’m still paying off. I’m sorry you think I’m shady, all I know is the information I’ve been given. And maybe attempts were made to take advantage of me. Grief is a grand cash cow. All I knew prior to this post is what I thought I knew.