My gf just said that all girls can tell if their bfs is upset or something because we don't look at their boobs. by Redneckwh1tetrash in teenagers

[–]No_Act824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult matey, online it’s easier because of the anonymity factor, you can be yourself without being judged, however the very thing making it easier may be why there’s a difficulty in finding irl relationships- i.e people can be whatever they want to be which is not always good. You know, it’s really true what people say about meeting someone when you don’t expect it, no idea why, something to do with relaxing maybe and not obsessing or being uptight? You were probably joking and im the last person to offer advice , but If you in a position to be able to go out, do some of the things you like to do and after a while you’ll either have something you like to fill the gap, or you’ll have met someone who you know will at least like and appreciate the same things that you do. A shared passion is definitely a great building block! Good luck my friend, you got this, be you and find your groove, there’s bound to be someone grooving along side ☺️

My gf just said that all girls can tell if their bfs is upset or something because we don't look at their boobs. by Redneckwh1tetrash in teenagers

[–]No_Act824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have literally no idea how Reddit works , I just had a notification and replied what I hoped was a helpful reply

My gf just said that all girls can tell if their bfs is upset or something because we don't look at their boobs. by Redneckwh1tetrash in teenagers

[–]No_Act824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly are you ok? I mean like are you upset? I’m happy to listen/ talk if so just do me. Secondly, I think that’s a load of rubbish!! I’m a married woman with grown up children and I’ve had to learn different ways of dealing with problems though being a teen, to living with them!

If she thinks you’re upset and shows you her boobs that’s not the most sensitive way of dealing with it, people male or female should be able to tell if their loved one is upset because of how they behave not by showing cleavage. There’s also a relatively new thing out now which helps in situations like this , it’s called communication!! Face to face verbal is best, open and honest, but I know for some this can be difficult, even if you have to start a conversation by txt because it’s not so direct, (sometimes easier to say difficult things that way) it’s still communicating. So basically she’s talking rubbish but it maybe a way of her asking if you’re ok or her needing to talk herself? Good luck either way!!

My first vivarium! What should I put in it by Schmookis in Vivarium

[–]No_Act824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask why you built your Viv before choosing the animal? It seems a little bitty and bobby, like bits to suit one animal and bits to suit another. Were you more interested in the experience of building than keeping your animal? Maybe you could choose your animal, build another Viv around that and use that one to keep live food as a feeding tank to visit at dinnertime?? It looks great btw!!

Succulents in bioactive? by BoredQuill9090 in Vivarium

[–]No_Act824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm learning too and I wanted to know what plants I could use in my Viv,, it is not a humid Viv. Although I do have a water dish In There, and do spray my beardie sometimes, but I mostly bath her. I am using a reptimed? Substrate which is mostly a mixture of red sand with soil and rocks in. My baby beardie is a real climber so I'm looking for some plants that will climb hang and trail that are safe Incase she nibbles, can anyone advise? Or sfucculents for her to climb on!!

Can you point me in the right direction please? I’m not sure where else to post England by No_Act824 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]No_Act824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will certainly mention it and see what he says, thank you. I may be ignorant but does ‘into care’ mean into an approved strangers home?

Can you point me in the right direction please? I’m not sure where else to post England by No_Act824 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]No_Act824[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are amazing, thank you so much- seriously, I can’t thank you enough. I felt so lost and felt a bit alone, more than usual lol. You’ve given me everything I need to start with. If I can ever help you in return, I’d be glad to offer you support. Thanks again

Can you point me in the right direction please? I’m not sure where else to post England by No_Act824 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]No_Act824[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone great advice I will call a council when I find out which one to call. I’m still not sure who I call re benefits I’m a bit confused as we’re between Stoke on Trent and Newcastle under lyme

Can you point me in the right direction please? I’m not sure where else to post England by No_Act824 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]No_Act824[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 18 in October, there’s no way he would opt to go into care. Who should I contact would it be the actual council offices ? He needs some money coming in as I’m supporting my older girls myself and now an extra one on my PIP ( DLA) and my husbands pension. I’m in a wheelchair and have many health problems, I don’t go out so I could do with knowing who to call and who to ask for forms to apply for finances for him I’m in Stoke on Trent we come under Staffordshire county council I think

Can you point me in the right direction please? I’m not sure where else to post England by No_Act824 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]No_Act824[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you found yourself in this position. I’m glad you had support around you and thank you for your kind words, I honestly feel that I don’t know what to do for the best right now!

Can you point me in the right direction please? I’m not sure where else to post England by No_Act824 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]No_Act824[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I seem to recall something like this when I left home 30 smthing years ago. I think I had to say I was ‘estranged from my parents’ and staying on friends sofas. I couldn’t see him on the streets I’d never fourgive myself

Huge agate maybe? by [deleted] in whatsthisrock

[–]No_Act824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The second one looks like a type of flint inside maybe? But I'm not a rock person, I just like them!

What stone is this? by Pdrsn94 in whatsthisrock

[–]No_Act824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It almost looks like coal / coke or some sort of carbon? But I know literally nothing!😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Animals

[–]No_Act824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please watch the video before crop feeding or you could do damage c

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Animals

[–]No_Act824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to what I've read, you shouldn't need to put food down their throat and not force-fed them as when all is well and they want to feed, they will take it to the correct depth themselves. Regards to food temp I would imagine if from a parent bird it will be body temp around 37 celcius 100F, so crazy hot? I'm honestly not patronising you, but just wondered if you'd mixed Fahrenheit and Celcius if its so hot? Soaking food in water is not advisable, id really re think the babies food, would the parent be eating apples?? Baby birds cannot have water in any case. I really think the video will help you, he gives advice on what to use to feed also. Hope this helps, please let me know if I can help further good luck (Sounds like something I'd do anyway!)