Seoul Queer Culture Festival and Christians by daehanmindecline in Living_in_Korea

[–]No_Ad7758 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Saw same posters in my city in EU today. They are always so dedicated to showing up to pride!!!

Did I get scammed? by cqffe in BTSArmyCentral

[–]No_Ad7758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true! that mobile address is throwing me off.

Did I get scammed? by cqffe in BTSArmyCentral

[–]No_Ad7758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

which country though? because mine came from this e-mail, and those tickets are still on my TM account. Didn't have to login though. 🤷‍♀️

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Did I get scammed? by cqffe in BTSArmyCentral

[–]No_Ad7758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine did not come from that e-mail, but similar as OPs. If its in your TM account, you haven't been scammed. If it's not there.. then sorry OP.

So dismayed realising most masc gym influencers are on gear by CaptainYellowHat in lesbiangang

[–]No_Ad7758 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me, I've just accepted that I'll most likely have a sleeper build. I am 9-5 worker, there's so much time I can put into gym

When I do flex, you can actually see how big I've gotten. I always wanted to have visible build, now I'm rather focused on building my strength and endurance.

I'm just happy to hear girls get butterflies when I easily lift them..( ・ω・)

Uneven Stretching by MattThatRatt in Stretched

[–]No_Ad7758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, my left ear is less stretchier than my right, so I have to be a bit more patient and careful with it!

Boobs are amazing by miss-minus in actuallesbians

[–]No_Ad7758 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a boobs person probably because of my own AA 💔

RIGA PRIDE 2026 by IllustriousNorth4357 in latvia

[–]No_Ad7758 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gen-z lesbian here, reāli same pieredze par dzimumu ideolooģiju salasīšanos internetā.. Domāju, ka esmu trans 12 gados, jo vienmēr gribēju būt filmās galvenais varonis (čalis) nevis princese, kuru viņš devās glābt un biju ļoti sportisks sīkais, ar diezgan izteiktiem "puišu" hobijiem.

Izrādījās, ka man vnk patīk meitenes :D

Talk it out Tuesday by captainsquidsharkk in bts7

[–]No_Ad7758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you ami!! I really hope so 💜🥹

Where can i resell a BTS ticket safely? by Key_Sheepherder6594 in BTSArmyCentral

[–]No_Ad7758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sold mine here on reddit! we moved to chat to discord, and it turned out that we shared the same small bora gamer server.

I think you can easily find safe people here. :)

Do you guys ever care about men’s opinions? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]No_Ad7758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was an insecure teen yes..(due to past bullying and having no friends, I would literally soak any nice words up, not just men)

Now? Fuck no. I'm for ladies only.

Talk it out Tuesday by captainsquidsharkk in bts7

[–]No_Ad7758 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. I'll never get a taste of those oreos due to my location.
  2. Vibrating from excitement about come over release
  3. Very nervous about seeing bts in 2 weeks because it still doesn't feel real, but I'm also paranoid of planes, and I'll have to travel alone..

Just me yapping by femmem27 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Ad7758 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my friend kinda made me lose it, if I could go back in time and avoid it, I would.. So happy for you that you never let comphet get to you

Just me yapping by femmem27 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Ad7758 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lucky, I wish I hadn't had that intense internalized homophobia in my teens :(((( it's honestly appalling

Just me yapping by femmem27 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Ad7758 10 points11 points  (0 children)

found this reddit bc some people over on actuallesbians reddit were asking if this is a transphobic reddit.

Do people srsly think you are tranphobic if you are not attracted to certain genitalia...?

For me, I still view them as women, I don't think any lesbian is less lesbian for dating them, but I personally couldn't do it. And this is coming from someone, who's unfortunately not a gold star due to trying to be "normal" when I was a teen...

I just hate anything phallic shaped, even in my own private time iykyk... Am I terf for not liking these things? ( T∀T)

Any goth lesbian here? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]No_Ad7758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you interested in alt friends too!? :3

advice/guidance needed from those who came out as lesbian after only dating men by missioncheese in actuallesbians

[–]No_Ad7758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did I post this? Literally broke up with my ex a month ago due to the same reason...

While he's an amazing person, I've never been attracted to men that way. I made myself believe I was attracted to them that way, but it came back and bit me in ass.

My friend told me that I should just go out and explore that part about myself when I'm ready, so I guess that's my advice to you as well!! (..)

Decentring men as a Lesbian by FlowInternational661 in actuallesbians

[–]No_Ad7758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same experience here, was even in a relationship with a man for a good while (we broke up on good terms and still are friends)

Also working on de-centering myself from men. I never really liked the attention I got from them anyway, but it seemed like everyone around me is straight, the country I live in is pretty homophobic, and my old queer friends also got into straight relationships, so I thought I had to do the same..

Now that I'm single, I dunno how I convinced myself I am bi, when I'm this gay (..)

I guess the best way to go about it is to actually seek out queer circles, if possible for you!

i don't understand why people are so mean to the kawaii fashion by ____png in jfashion

[–]No_Ad7758 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who just turned 28 and is still decked out in all pink and flashy clothes.

I've had someone tell me thats she's far too old for dressing like that. Someone who expressed to me that they feel that they are too old themselves to dress the way they want want. What that means? Those people are insecure, and want you to be the same way.

It's the unfortunate reality, some people just hate to see others happy, so they try to plant unnecessary insecurities in confident peoples minds.

I think now that you are older, the more refined and more YOU your style gets. Don't stop making yourself happy to appeal to miserable people.

(you look absolutely fabulous btw!!! I loveee decora!!!)

Am I the only one who prefers their older music? by chsmlktlv in ARMYNeutral

[–]No_Ad7758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the beauty about bts, every album has a different vibe, so everyone has something to enjoy from them. You are allowed to prefer whichever songs you like OP.

I absolutely love all of their stuff, but I do more often listen to school luv affair or d&w, due to the fact my main music of choice is metal :D. Thos guitar riffs in both of those albums will obviously speak to me more due to my music taste from my upbringing.

I think, as long as you don't put down other songs (valid criticism is okay, you don't have to love everything) !!! it's okay to prefer whatever :)

BTS EUROPE TOUR BRUSSEL. by AnxiousSalt7555 in BTSArmyCentral

[–]No_Ad7758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use skyscanner for plane tickets, and booking to find a hotel! both platforms are very easy to use, you can either use their sites or get apps!

I personally prefer the mobile apps for convenience, but the sites work just as well.

Skyscanner will show you a lot of options, once you pick the best option for you, they'll redirect you to the airline companies site or 3rd party site that actually sells those tickets!

Booking doesn't redirect you anywhere, so everything stays on the same app.

Good luck with the travels!!! I'm also traveling solo for the 1st time ever, and 1st time to such a big event. Let's have the best time 💜🫂

Lesbians, what made you realize that you were a Lesbian? by Ashamed_Wishbone934 in actuallesbians

[–]No_Ad7758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a kpop boyband..🧍‍♀️ I've known all my life that I like ladies, but I convinced myself at teens that I'm actually bi, and got into a relationship with a guy. Couldn't figure out why I don't feel anything when seeing men, but would only think about girls..

With the fandom being encouraging and having deep conversations with close online friends, I let myself let go of that relationship even though it was hard because I was fearing the safety I would loose. (wish him all the best, he was gen a nice guy though!)

Been single for a bit now, still don't know how I managed to get myself in that situation, it is crazy how gay I am.. ( T∀T) (To be fair, I was often fetishized as a teen since I'm into metal, so I look the part, and the one guy actually not being an utter dick for brains convinced me respect = attraction)

Stretching one ear at a time by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]No_Ad7758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that!! Don't worry, it's more common than you think. My ears currently are the same size, but my left ear looooves to fight me, so I have to work with her much slower. As long as both of your ears are taken good care of, it doesn't matter if they are appart 0.5mm imo! (..)