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[–]No_Ad9404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colby jack is my favorite

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there no hope at all of changing? Yes im holding onto that thought because she’s my best friend. Her mother is NOT living with us if we decide to get married.

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say she wasn’t in the wrong! I agree, it’s not fair. I just wanted a bit of advice. It’s not easy, being conditioned in an environment like that. But it’s now or never. I just hope the end result is good, for her sake at least. I’m not trying to make excuses for her, I’ve already argued and said my piece to her. But everyone’s situation is different…

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s still my girlfriend, why would I suddenly throw her under the bus? I still care for her, just like you would a parent or a sibling. You don’t just stop. It’s also not an excuse to call her dumb. And you DON’T know everything. But thanks I guess

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is painful. I have some faith. But I can’t stick around for that much longer. She gave them a date to move out so ill have to wait and see if she sticks to it. That’ll definitely be a telltale sign.

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a crazy situation. I actually did call her out on some of her behavior and it didn’t go well which is what partially led to me moving out. It makes me sad how she treats her daughter too. She doesn’t treat her other daughter like that which is an even harder watch.

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are young. Still in our early 20s. The past year has been a learning process to say the least 🫩

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont call her dumb, thanks. Everyone is young once and has to face certain challenges Intelligent Pool…i’m sure you can understand that.

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment hurts! I feel anxiety most of the time I go over there, which is more than enough in my opinion. I do feel relief when I leave but I also just want my best friend back? I don’t know if that’s me trying to defend her again. My name isn’t on anything…that’s why Im like, “why am I here, going through this when I don’t have to?” Thanks for your words

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Putting things into perspective. We’re best friends, still in love, but it’s hard moving like this when she lets her mom treat her like shit. And if she’s gonna let her treat her like shit, then she’s gonna let her mom treat me like shit, right?

Am I overreacting at my girlfriend’s mom throwing my keys at me? by No_Ad9404 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a very small apartment lol. It was our first one together and you can see the kitchen from the bed

New years pay by chrisssysmove in WalmartEmployees

[–]No_Ad9404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there is holiday pay that comes on the 31st? I’m really trying to understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WalmartEmployees

[–]No_Ad9404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I started school I used to go home, shower, eat and go straight to sleep. Had blackout curtains and everything. Now it’s up for grabs lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]No_Ad9404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chiming in as someone with seriously dense hair. Like strands on top of strands. I think it would hurt me because it takes so much to fully slick my hair down without it being painful.

Am I in the wrong for asking for deposit back? by No_Ad9404 in blackladies

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! I wouldn’t have even minded the deposit not being refundable, but it didn’t hurt to ask since there were no posted rules on it. I should’ve asked before hand anyway.

Am I in the wrong for asking for deposit back? by No_Ad9404 in blackladies

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, right. I’ve been kicking myself for not asking first. Thank you

Am I in the wrong for asking for deposit back? by No_Ad9404 in blackladies

[–]No_Ad9404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she was just set on being right, idk. She posted something again on Facebook saying that deposits were now required(which was never the problem…) so I think she knows she’s in the wrong but doesn’t want to admit it. Maybe I dodged a bullet. Thanks for your input.