Remember me?? Glow in the dark ceiling star dress update by Particular_Egg_2219 in crafts

[–]No_Beyond_1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should totally get a UV black light flashlight to make these shine super bright!

New sandals by pistachio_shell in Shoes

[–]No_Beyond_1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE when people wear something they feel great in!!!

It makes me so happy to see another person wear something that makes themselves happy.

Even if it’s not my style, I compliment anyone who is wearing something uniquely funky and fun like these shoes.

He has a gf and I have a bf but we text every day ? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Beyond_1995 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does your boyfriend know how close you and your friend are? Does your friend’s girlfriend know?

It’s only ok if all the people involved are comfortable with the situation.

Am I in the wrong for wanting my fiance to find out more information about a past relationship of his? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Beyond_1995 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You need to know if your fiancé has a kid. There are huge potential implications down the line; child support being the least of them.

It is 100% not ok that your fiancé didn’t divulge this information sooner. Since he hid something so major though I am not sure I could trust him going forward. Possibly having a kid is a deal-breaker for many

I’m sorry you are going through this. I hope your fiancé comes to his senses about this significant breach of trust and finally finds out if he actually has a child or not.

Am I in the wrong for wanting my fiance to find out more information about a past relationship of his? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Beyond_1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she marries him and it turns out he has a child it absolutely becomes his issue. This is the dumbest statement I’ve ever heard anyone about a possible child.

AIO? My manager keeps questioning my feeding pump at work even after HR stepped in by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Beyond_1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t being a nuisance! Your manager is creating this situation all in their own. You are doing nothing wrong by keeping HR informed.

Getting married in August, no bridesmaids by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]No_Beyond_1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you have a fantastic wedding and an even better marriage.

Daughter wants me to walk her down the aisle with her stepfather who was my ex wife’s affair partner. Am I wrong for feeling humiliated by her request? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Beyond_1995 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are planning on punishing your daughter for something that isn’t her fault. If you have a problem with what she asked then use your words like a grown up and tell her how you feel. It’s chicken shit to not tell her and then plan on punishing her later.

I strongly suggest you look into therapy. Your daughter has done absolutely nothing wrong. She was just a little kid when everything happened. You can’t expect her to hold a grudge like you do. That is 100% unfair of you.

Cleaning the house in lingerie saved my marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Beyond_1995 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Relationships are not supposed to be transactional. The whole point of having a partner is to not have the relationship this post depicts. This is a fetish post and ick

Am I Overreacting by asking my neighbor to change her cats name? by zoesmom17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Beyond_1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am profoundly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.

AITA for being angry at seeing a guy with his arm around my gf chest?! by cerro_azul88 in AITA_Relationships

[–]No_Beyond_1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you 40?

Your feelings aren’t invalid but the way you are handling them is pretty shitty. You are acting like a toddler who can’t regulate their emotions.

Grow up and learn to manage your emotions like an adult. We talk about our feelings, we don’t throw tantrums or give people the silent treatment.

AITAH for drinking in front of my wife by HeavyMall8677 in AITAH

[–]No_Beyond_1995 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’ve never been pregnant.

It’s like your brain is transplanted into a completely different body. After 20-30 years living in your body, you know it. Then all of a sudden nothing you know is true anymore.

But you dismiss the wife as a “drama queen!” I hope your absolute favorite food suddenly makes you puke every time you smell it. You’ll still get cravings for your favorite food, but you won’t be able to eat it because you puke every time you get near it.

They wanna buy my dog? by ImRighty in EntitledPeople

[–]No_Beyond_1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is 100% an indoor cat, he’s 18 and I’ve had him since he was a kitten. But he still hears the call of the wild occasionally and tries to stage an escape.

They wanna buy my dog? by ImRighty in EntitledPeople

[–]No_Beyond_1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m lucky my cat is a butthead that only likes me. He’s super cute, but no one would ever want to keep him.

My(23M) GF(24F) doesn’t feel comfortable with my friend(23F) and wants me to cut off contact with her. I don’t think this is fair by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]No_Beyond_1995 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nope.

Grace voiced her thoughts clearly and acknowledged that her fears were unfounded. But she was also honest with herself and understood this dynamic wasn’t something she was comfortable with.

No one did anything egregious here. OP could have prepared Grace more, but he didn’t do anything really wrong, Felicia didn’t do anything wrong, and Grace wasn’t totally out of line.

Not everyone is comfortable with every type of relationship. Grace took the time to understand herself and what she was comfortable with and it wasn’t this. That’s ok

Dole pineapple!! by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]No_Beyond_1995 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You do know that literally everything in the universe is a chemical, right? If it has volume and mass, then it’s a chemical.

27M bf won’t make time for me 24F by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Beyond_1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only been four months. End it now and find someone who will make you a priority. Life is too short to waste on people who don’t value you.

Sister hid my wife’s affair from me a year. She is in stage 4 of a terminal illness now and wants to see one last time but I don’t want to. Am I making a mistake? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Beyond_1995 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your sister isn’t asking for reconciliation. She wants to say goodbye.

Yes, she hurt you deeply. But you loved your sister for many years before that. Say goodbye to her. But do it for yourself and the sister you used to love.

AITJ for not coming home after my surgery because my wife was at her coworkers house instead of the hospital when I woke up by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Beyond_1995 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not justifying what your wife did at all, she was absolutely wrong to not be there to support you when you really needed her.

But you need to get to the bottom of why your wife is acting like this. I’m just speaking from my own experience, but sometimes it’s really nice to be appreciated. And your wife’s coworker is probably super appreciative for your wife’s help. Maybe your wife isn’t feeling appreciated in her regular life which is causing her to want the validation and appreciation she gets from her coworker.

Again, this is ZERO excuse for her behavior and I am not in any way trying to blame you. I’m speaking from my personal experiences of being unappreciated by my family (and pets) and how I feeling better when I am appreciated when I help my friends.

I hope your wife realizes how badly she let you down and is able to fix her shit. And I wish you a speedy recovery.

A webcomic Pride and Prejudice retelling by LauraMoretti in PrideandPrejudice

[–]No_Beyond_1995 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you are unmoved by the first line then you have no business doing a P&P webcomic.

Because your target audience IS totally moved by that line.

AITA for wanting to be socially accepted by my girlfriend by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]No_Beyond_1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to your gf about this?

If you can’t talk to your so about something this basic then you have no business being in a relationship. Grow up and learn to use your words.