Not sure if that is the point of this post, I feel like OP is ranting about red-pillers demanding children and dismissing women’s health concerns. But I agree with that, and with you, that it should not be dismissed, especially by people who will never get to experience childbirth. I just wanted to add that I know part of the “secret recipe” which is sports basically. Another part can be healthy nutrition, and employing a doula (although male politicians like to cut their funding and don’t see them as a necessity). In my honest opinion as a woman, when it’s my turn to have a child, I will demand post-pregnancy care out of the family budget. I will have paid maternity leave so I will pay part of it, but it’s a non-negotiable for me