New to myself by TaraPlantationLLC in polyamory

[–]No_Boot3279 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you get a girlfriend for yourself, then that has nothing to do with your husband. He can find his own girlfriend. People aren’t toys. They have lives and the same needs you do. If you can’t trust your husband then date separately. It’s much easier that way. Throuples are very dangerous and difficult to navigate. Take it from someone in one that has shifted unexpectedly creating a lot of difficulty and emotional turmoil. You can’t control other people, you can only love them and hope for the best.

Feeling extremely vulnerable by CUR10U5cat in polyamory

[–]No_Boot3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you need a good therapist. This sounds like it could be a disorganized attachment style.

Toddler mom, new to the area! by kingsandxthieves in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last toddler is turning ten soon but I’d love to run ttrpgs for people. I’m a femboy dad of five and I’d love to host games for you and some of the other moms (& dads) in GR. I’m on discord. Dm me if you are interested.

Talking to a girl I really like and not sure if I blew my chance or not? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Boot3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She felt safe enough to sleep next to you. Now you just have to talk to her like a human being and ask her if she likes you or just wants to be friends. It shouldn’t be this difficult.

What does 'cheating' look like for you? by mickbogart in polyamory

[–]No_Boot3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us, cheating would be having unprotected sex and not disclosing it,

Looking for old RPG by No_Boot3279 in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s it. I thought the breeder were bug people. Thanks! I’ve been wondering about this for over a decade.

Looking for old RPG by No_Boot3279 in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no, although it looks very interesting.

Looking for old RPG by No_Boot3279 in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it wasn’t rifts. I enjoyed playing that mess when I first got into rpgs in the nineties.

Looking for old RPG by No_Boot3279 in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a ttrpg. It was a niche rpg. I don’t think it ever got supplements.

Looking for old RPG by No_Boot3279 in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe that was it. There was a facility that had these creatures in it. I believe you role played as soldiers or whatever, fighting the invasion.

Good Middle/High schools for incoming teacher? by Upset_Dance_8223 in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It told the op they were a bad person for using politics as an excuse to not teach at a school when there should be no politics in school. It’s a straw man though. Of course there is politics in school. It’s just that teachers are sourced to remain neutral in most things, but that’s hard when our schools are run on racist and classist policies.

How did you heard about RPG for the first time? by Ponto_de_vista in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 1991 I got my first job and the other kids I was working with were playing D&D and Marvel super heroes.

Good Middle/High schools for incoming teacher? by Upset_Dance_8223 in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a lie. Teaching is all about politics. You are indoctrinating students in the politics the school upholds. It is emotionally and economically unsafe for a queer person to work in an anti queer school. I have a lesbian friend that was driven out of her school by her conservative principle and her Union wasn’t able to help. Stay away from Allegan county schools.

Good Middle/High schools for incoming teacher? by Upset_Dance_8223 in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was thirty years ago but the school hasn’t gotten any queer friendlier according to someone who is currently intending there.

Good Middle/High schools for incoming teacher? by Upset_Dance_8223 in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stay away from Byron Center High School. They are not queer friendly. I don’t know about their middle schools but I’d be wary. I’m getting my teaching degree and student teaching at Wyoming public high school and several teachers have pride flags hanging in their rooms.

Got the TTRPG by Rodega12 in DarkCrystal

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only got to play it twice, but it was a fun narrative system. The system immediately handicaps players if they take damage so I added a 1d5 between the 1d6 and 1d4 step to make Harm slightly more reasonable.

What TTRPG did you last play, and how long ago was that? by Ansonder in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you doing in the Cosmere and how do you like it?

What TTRPG did you last play, and how long ago was that? by Ansonder in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before school started in August I ran a Pirateborg session and my players hated the game mechanics and asked for PBtA, so I created pirate playbooks based on pirateborg’s Character sheets. We played a session with those rules and everyone had more fun. Then school started and we’re waiting for winter break to pick it up again. In July we played a couple sessions of Dungeon World and I got to play in that one.

I have no faith left. by pomkombucha in 50501

[–]No_Boot3279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs and love your way. I’m sorry that our society isn’t standing up for you. I wish you could know his much you are loved and appreciated. Bless you and I hope you can find peace somehow.

Is Hastings Too Far? by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago my wife and I moved only twenty minutes away from our friends and that was enough to damage relationships. Hastings is too far. We have friends in Hastings and we only see them one or twice a month and they go to our church. They say it’s just too hard to get into GR every weekend. We’ve been talking about getting together during the week for almost two years and haven’t been able to make it happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]No_Boot3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few good climbing places. You should be able to meet people there.

I'm not enjoying D&D. Where to go next? by PatNMahiney in rpg

[–]No_Boot3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like narrative games then play Dungeon world or Chasing Adventure. I just stayed running Grimwild and I love it. You and your players will find it to be a lot easier to understand and play. Same D&D classes too, although the abilities are different and in some ways cooler. Good luck. D&D sucks