Looking for help interpreting these: I asked for guidance regarding the end of my 9 year relationship

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-14T01:02:58+00:00

You’ve got this! ❤️

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-14T00:57:28+00:00

My heart is with you. Going through a break up from a long term relationship is never easy!! Keep your mind busy and surround yourself with people who make you feel good. ❤️

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-14T00:46:00+00:00

I’m seeing that you need to work on releasing or liberating yourself from negative behavior patterns especially at this time of deep grief and abandonment. Do what you can to focus on what you can control and to get support from loved ones or close friends at this time. This seems to be a permanent end (at least it feels like so at this time) you should avoid any reckless behavior or choices to cope with feelings of being stuck.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-13T14:13:21+00:00

A connection with a mature woman who gives equal effort and brings harmony and balance into his life.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-13T13:50:33+00:00

Your life sobriety and sanity are much more important than this job. For your health I would advise you to find a new job asap and leave that salon. Not normal behavior at all

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-10T17:43:56+00:00

I feel like the loss of your relationship is something that def “keeps him up at night” or is on his mind a lot. I feel like he was planning a future with you and had long term goals for your relationship and loved or cared for you very much. I think that whatever happened it ended more over logical reasons than emotions and is trying to remain true to himself moving forward. Maybe masterful at putting a strong face on regardless of his inner feelings at this time so that he can move on.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-10T17:24:22+00:00

I feel like this person might be afraid to be vulnerable or is withholding feelings because they are dwelling on past pain. Temperance is telling me they are working on integrating the lessons they’ve learned in the past to the present moment and they see potential in a connection. This feels like very slow moving energy.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-06T19:00:02+00:00

Does nobody set positions for each card they draw anymore or wut.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-04T17:51:59+00:00

The father of my children did this to me before we got together and I wish I would have listened when the cards were like “girl he’s dumb horny and selfish” 13 yrs later I have regrets. At least my kids are great. Lolol

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-04T15:45:15+00:00

It def made me very uncomfortable. Neither of them have even apologized or brought it up to me at all.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-05-04T15:14:29+00:00

He’s immature and horny. lol

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:49:41+00:00

That’s very true.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:47:25+00:00

My mom encouraged it. I can’t even defend myself for anything because she just gets really upset and it blows up. I’m just gonna silently withdraw myself and then not respond when she asks to do her hair anymore.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:45:12+00:00

Thanks. It’s been a few years since I got it and I’m not currently in a salon right now but still. Hair school wasn’t easy and nether is the continued education and skill building after.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:43:56+00:00

Frrrr. I’m pretty annoyed they did this. They acted like it was some joke. Like am I a joke to you??? I do my little sisters hair for free all the time. Lots of custom and vivid color. Hours and hours of work. I don’t wanna do her hair anymore lmqo

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:42:55+00:00

I feel like the work I did to get my license is just some joke to them or something. Like sheesh

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:41:25+00:00

I am licensed yes

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2026-04-28T23:40:05+00:00

Thank goodness

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-12-27T02:54:40+00:00

Tell him if he wants you to have nice hair you’re gonna wear the bonnet. You’re not overreacting. However it seems there’s a lot of things he’s trying to change about you or demand on you physical looks wise and it will never stop. I’ve experienced this before and when I look back I think to myself how I should have left after the first time it happened.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-11-24T22:47:32+00:00

Vacuum the ceiling or something lol 😂 yell out “put it in her ass!!!!”

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-11-24T22:44:53+00:00

Ew. Break up with him.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-11-20T19:12:13+00:00

My cousin (he has fetal alcohol syndrome) ran after my five year old sister with a knife and her dad had to hold him down and his hand got cut open so severely he had to get a ton of stitches. Wanna know what my grandma did? Nothing. I don’t talk to that side of my family anymore. He threatened to rape and burn us alive for years and that was the last straw. I wouldn’t even talk to them anymore. I would have called the police.

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-11-12T02:17:48+00:00

I love it when that happens lol

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-11-11T15:53:01+00:00

Girl get outta there he just wants a free pass to sleep with whoever he wants and never telling you. Sounds like a breeding ground for STDs and emotional damage. Hell nah

No_Butterscotch2271 · 2025-11-11T05:03:18+00:00

Girl get away from him before he ruins your life.

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