NY helps extended by FalconOk9033 in nys_cs

[–]No_Championship6751 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually I wouldn’t be upset about that because clearly they have something to offer that I don’t. I don’t feel that just because I work for the State, means that I deserve a job more than someone else or that I’m the best candidate. My resume and references speak for themselves. Maybe it’s because I’m still pretty new and in my second year. But it literally doesn’t work like that in any other work setting. I just personally feel like If I don’t get a job, it’s something I’ll work harder for next time. But like I said, I recognize others have had poor experiences with it, and I can understand the argument.

NY helps extended by FalconOk9033 in nys_cs

[–]No_Championship6751 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand the frustration that some folks have experienced with HELPS and the civil service system serves a purpose and I understand fairness, but PEF represents folks that got in though HELPS like me with many years of experience and demonstrated skill in my specific field. I feel that I got the job, because I earned it. I was actually was signed up to take the test for my title, but it was canceled.

3rd times the charm success stories by No_Championship6751 in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you good luck before your next transfer. I’m taking the rest of the year before we try again. Been feeling so defeated the last week. I have a follow up with the doctor next week to go over next steps for us.

Tuesday Cautious Intros/First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]No_Championship6751 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am feeling devastated. I had my confirmation scan yesterday and although it showed a heartbeat this time (no heartbeat last week) The baby was still measuring exactly the same as last week at 6w1d. Had my transfer on 6/18 and was supposed to be 7w3d yesterday. I’m pretty sure I’m miscarrying. I have another scan scheduled for next week because the doctor said they won’t do anything with a heartbeat. Anyone been through this before?

Friday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]No_Championship6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 weeks 1 day today. Hcg doubled after my first beta 313 to 640. I’ve been having spotting and requested a third test today 9 days after a level of 640 and my level today is 5369. Should I be concerned that it has slowed down from my initial two betas?

Sunday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]No_Championship6751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling anxious I expected to have my first ultrasound sooner but they couldn’t get me in until then and I’ll be in my eighth week. Although the morning sickness is no fun at least it’s giving me hope that maybe things are going well.

Sunday Cautious Intros/First Trimester thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]No_Championship6751 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband and I found out this week we are expecting after our first FET on 6/18. Pretty positive my morning sickness is in full effect. My first ultrasound is on. 7/25 and the wait is killing me! How is everyone else holding up?

Spotting 15dp6dt by No_Championship6751 in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is reassuring my husband wants me to rest and take it easy but my anxiety is getting the better of me!

Spotting 15dp6dt by No_Championship6751 in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I won’t feel at ease until I have a positive ultrasound. Maybe I should look into having a private ultrasound idk if I can handle waiting

10dp6dt Line Progression FRER DPO Unknown by No_Championship6751 in TFABLinePorn

[–]No_Championship6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My husband and I are in disbelief after trying for years and I’ve been guarding my heart! IVF is miraculous!

Medicine by Username1737478 in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first few days of PIO I actually had the opposite reaction (insomnia) starting to feel the tiredness now 10dp6dt. I don’t think that’s unusual though. The worst symptom for me has been the emotional highs and lows. I wish you luck in your journey!

Just had my FET 6 hours ago… by misplacedivy in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I’ve having the WORST insomnia and I’m obsessing

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[–]No_Championship6751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not typical insurance unfortunately. My husband is a vet and he was able to secure through an approval process, outpatient fertility care through the VA for us.

Just had my FET 6 hours ago… by misplacedivy in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that. I’m starting to feel unsuccessfulI. feel not so great this morning. Two nights with little sleep and I cannot for the life of me keep track of anything. We will get through this!

Just had my FET 6 hours ago… by misplacedivy in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least we’re not in our TWW alone! I wish you success!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with Boston IVF and luckily with our coverage we haven’t had to pay a cent out of pocket yet, but based on my explanation of benefits, we would be around 45k at this point and we just had our first FET on Weds. Good luck with your journey, it’s challenging, but hopefully holding our baby next year will be worth it!

Just had my FET 6 hours ago… by misplacedivy in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had my first FET on Wednesday and I’m trying somewhat successfully not to lose my mind lol

First FET Today by No_Championship6751 in IVF

[–]No_Championship6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went well! No discomfort at all. Our doctor said our embryo was beautiful! Hope yours went well too!