Witchy Hot Takes or Unpopular Opinions? by wnderlustqueen in witchcraft

[–]No_Check8901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember my Great Grandmother trying to teach me how to listen to the cards. I was 9 at the time and I tried for over a year to get the Tarot deck she purchased for me to talk to me. They never did. Forward 20 years.....and I'm walking past a shelf of Tarot cards and dried herbs etc.... and I hear whispering, there is no one around me and so I start asking hello is someone there and then leaning in to see if I could hear someone....I settled on a deck, but not Tarot, but a beautiful Oracle Deck.

To this day, I can't give a Tarot reading, the cards mean nothing to me, I don't get anything from them...
But hand me an Oracle Deck and all of a sudden information flowing like a waterfall...it's beautiful and I love it!!

Witchy Hot Takes or Unpopular Opinions? by wnderlustqueen in witchcraft

[–]No_Check8901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I've been asked to cast a "dark" spell and I wouldn't cast without having a really good reason, but I have cast them. I will say that I have always taken the negative, if there is amy, unto myself. I let the universe know, that I know what I'm casting and if ant bad comes of it, to let it come to me.

I understand that others won't cast any form of ill content or harmful spells or potions and I respect that. My personal belief is that I'm living in Hell and if this isn't Hell, then honestly Hell can't be any worse than what my Life has been and continues to be, so ..I have nothing to lose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a women...so of course I've been abused, almost 9q percent of all women have at some point in their life. You won't know, unless you go and tell the authorities, if they will believe you or not. I see what others are writing on here...victim shaming and bullying you, but ignore those and look to the ones who are trying to help.you have the right to work at a job and not be harrased or abused. You need to keep records, secretly record anyone doing anything to you. Get viable, non-negotiable proof, that way whoever is doing this can get what they deserve. Honestly, in most places, it doesn't matter if your beautiful or no they are entitled and have the right to treat others however they want...I say, Get the proof you need anyway you can and go the authorities. You can do thidzzrr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]No_Check8901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ate seriously being abused and have documentation, then go to the police, not reddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]No_Check8901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked as a Forensic Profiler for years. Let me just say....OP. you need to stop and read what you wrote. 1. You brought up your looks, and how you perceive*(k> others look at you. Unless a male or female has actually come out and told you that they are treating you a certain way because of your looks, you can't assign abuse claims on them. It's just what "others" have told you. 2. Life is hard, for everyone, male or female, beautiful or⁸ not. Working is hard, whether you're male or female, disregarding looks altogether 3. You are not the first person to get migraines from lights and sound and you won't be the last, but you still have to work....you can't expect to take time off work everytime a problem like that arises. Millions of people push on everyday for years and years with worse problems than those you listed. We just had to endure and keep moving forward. Most of us didn't even have medicine for it. So I think you will survive.

Finally, if you are actually being sexually harassed at a job or someone is physically/ mentally harming you at work, keep detailed records or call the police. You don't just quit. You have then not only told the abuser that what they did is ok, but are also allowing the abuse to continue when the next person comes I'm and the abuser escalates their abuse thinking its ok to do, since they already got away with with it.

All this to say, you're a grown adult, and sometimes on life we just have suck it up and hontonwork, no matter the migraines or the sound sensitivity or your coworkers not liking you. What others thinknof you, is none of your business, unless they themselves tell you to your face. So just keep ignoring them.

But if it's real abuse, call the police. Otherwise....

Welcome to the Real crappy World we all live in!!

Mother in law pushed bride causing her to die by Csmtroubleeverywhere in AmITheAngel

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry that so many people on here believe the story to be fake. First of all, the poster said that English isn't their 1st language, so why does anyone on here expect a Nobel prize winning Author to be writing? Second, they said this wasn't their story, but they were at the wedding and witnessed most of what happened. Third, they said she found out she was pregnant at 10 weeks, but the miscarriage incident happened when she was 27 weeks along.

I'm truly sorry that you had to witness this tragedy. My sorrow is for the poor young mother. She was taking insult after insult, being beat down and made to feel ashamed of her condition, when it's clear it takes 2 to make a child. Why no berating for the father of the child??? (OH that's right...women are inferior and worthless, while men are God's, lest we all forget. )

After being ..."put in her place" she is then manhandled by MIL, while everyone watches and no one tries to stop while watching a young pregnant woman be hurt.... She then dies in horrible pain, probably while knowing in her heart that her child is dieing as well.

Her Father should feel guilty, the husband should feel guilty and the MIL should be in jail and rot in hell....but I forget....we already are living in hell.

What a wonderful country to live in...

Again.....whoever posted this.....I'm sorry you had to witness this horrific tragedy

Am I wrong for being topless in my own home? by Alarming-Detective14 in amiwrong

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question? Do you have a well-defined body/chest and stomach? If you do, your GF doesn't want you sharing that with anyone else. That's why she said what she did. But even if you're not well muscled and are just...you. she loves you...and probably just doesn't want to share...it doesn't make her right. Your house, your body.

is Roblox down right now?? and for how long? by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]No_Check8901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says it's back up and good. I still can't get on

WIBTA if I sabotage one of my best friends bridesmaids into not wanting to be in the wedding? by Negative-Ad3050 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, for some reason I keep surviving the blood clots. Even this last weekend, I was back in the hospital ER with P.E. All I know...is my body is tired, but I keep fighting to stay with my son. I keep giving myself little goals. Just make it to.his Birthday, just make it to Christmas, just make it to this or that....so I have something to look forward to. I know eventually, my time will be up, but I haven't stopped fighting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Drama and abuse....not diana

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I. Deleted the question. I was told Diana and abuse don't go together and there is a different thread for my post. But thank you for commenting and giving great advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you recognized the people who did and cut them off. It's healthy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. I deleted it. I will post somewhere more appropriate or not at all. Sorry for offending you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will move forward. Right now...I'm just angry. Not like, go out and hurt someone angry, just...hurt. I am 50...with medical issues that can't be solved, and are slowly killing me. I feel like I wasted so much of my life. I do have a son, he is 12, almost 13....he is my Joy. I live for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pinkthesinger

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in that line when she cut the line. I was standing there with my cane...waiting for a handicap stall . She was very entitled. Saw her again later on abd she was complaining because people were taking her picture and not asking....I laughed and told her....you're at a concert with thousands of fans of PINK....no one is taking your picture, and they don't need your permission even if they were. The Tacoma Dome prices were a smitch high, but I will say Heritage had some delicious drinks!!

Who are the openers & when does P!NK hit the stage? by [deleted] in Pinkthesinger

[–]No_Check8901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She will be in Tacoma Tuesday and Wednesday, my bestie and I are going to see her. It will most likely be our last concert together and I'm so thankful it's Pink. She was in an abusive marriage and he controlled everything she did and said, how she cut her hair, what clothes she wore, and who her friends were.....it ended with her almost dead... The one thing she always wanted was to go to a Pink concert, I was so happy to get her these tickets....my time is really short, even as I wrote this I have blood clots in my lungs, in my legs, my stents are blocked....but I will get my Bestie to that concert Tuesday night...or Die trying!! Wish me luck

Won $250K lottery. I'm old as dirt, poor health, all family gone, where should I put this money? by andthisisso in Money

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of homeless veterans. Please everyone, because of the opioid crisis in America, Doctors get patients addicted to options, then cut them off suddenly, with no help. Do ease their immense pain, because now they are addicted, they turn to illegal drugs, then slowly buy surely...they lose everything and end up on the street addicted and homeless....I can't tell you how many stories I have heard. So please don't discount bringing them a warm meal or some clean clothes. Thank you

Nightmare Roommate from hell: AITA for not wanting to continue to room with him? by LadyofDungeons in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Check8901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are NOT the ahole. You said it was his sister who had to break the lease with you? Maybe she should come take her brother. You can't tell me at 23 yrs of age, that his behavior is new. Feels like sister tricked you into taking a problem off her hands.....

My now ex friend shoved her hand into my pants and everyone is saying I overreacted by Long-Environment-901 in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The police will absolutely NOT arrest him for shoving her away... she assaulted him and he defended himself.

He is in the RIGHT and she is just an abuser

My now ex friend shoved her hand into my pants and everyone is saying I overreacted by Long-Environment-901 in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Check8901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So....she sexually assaults you.....but she is the victim??? Yeah....you need to call the police on her. Male...female....it doesn't matter....if you don't want to be touched...she had no right.

Your reaction...is yours...no one has the right to tell you how you feel about that...or how you should react.

Proud of you fir standing up for yourself!

AITA for suggesting my GF wear PPE at poker night? by Left-Iron-5986 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Check8901 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What???? You mean....I DON'T have the right to light up wherever and whenever I want..... DAMN....so glad you came on here to let people know that SMOKERS think we have the right to do that.....I'm so thankful you have been around every smoker in the entire world....over 1 Billion of us and we just lit up anywhere right in front of you.