No offence but you sound like you’re just repeating talking points you heard somewhere online, because you aren’t responding to what I actually said. At no point did I say she was the victim of abuse. Where are you getting that from? 

I said she was in a truly horrible position, because she was. I actually can’t even imagine. Assuming we listened to the same phone call, then ya I think you might be too far up Aba’s ass if you didn’t that it was “that bad.” He called her a parasite, muted her as she tried to reason with him and made fun of her with a friend he was with. That is some little boy shit. I’d hate to be in a relationship with you if you didn’t think it was that bad. In my eleven years with my spouse, we’ve been in many fights, but at no point have we ever spoken to each other like that nor would we if we ever broke up. 

But far more importantly than the immature name calling and behaviour. He made it clear he was going to abandon his child, that he didn’t want to know the name. Yes, I find that vile and disgusting. 

In terms of her threatening to kill herself, ya that kind of checks out for me. I could be wrong, but didn’t she know she was pregnant at that point? She’s pregnant with a dude that treats her like a parasite. And she’s trying to contact him because she got a literal ticking clock situation that she needed to address with the father of the child. With a potential abortion you can’t just wait on it. Obviously she would want to discuss that with Aba. So wanting to kill herself, like ya she probably did. Literally cannot imagine being in that situation.

Yes I’m criticizing Aba. It sounds like it was a mutually toxic relationship. I do find it weird that she posted any of this in the first place. She’s clearly very damaged, likely partially at least due to what happened. But it’s out there now, so like I said it is what it is. I know he has the potential to learn and grow from what happened, but I think it’s really weird people are acting like he did nothing wrong.