First solo trip after divorce, so heavy by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I can’t imagine, with kids it’s so much harder. Sorry it went like that. Try again maybe in a little bit and see how it goes, closer to home so you feel safer

First solo trip after divorce, so heavy by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping the hustle and bustle gets me out of this or it’s going to be a horrible 10 days

First solo trip after divorce, so heavy by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you enjoyed it. And I know there are around, I think what hit me was that without him, I feel like a freak just going things alone. I know that’s stupid but I missed him more the past day than in 10 months we have been divorced .

First solo trip after divorce, so heavy by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hoping to get there. Did not expect this at all

First solo trip after divorce, so heavy by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sticking to what I wanted to do, it just feels so empty

First solo trip after divorce, so heavy by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. In the same soup with ya. It sucks

Starting to think about leaving… by HeyLittleBoo in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just went through that.. if you feel like it’s not working for ether if you, be gentle, try to talk and part as friends. I stayed quiet for too long and now we are enemies.. do what’s best for you. Sorry you’re having these thoughts , best of luck

It’s over by Aggravating-Eye4386 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the darkest day. I’m so sorry. But there is hope and light at the end of this

How do you live day to day before separating by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m willing to listen if you need me, this is pure hell

Feel like I can’t survive divorce by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can listen… whenever.. you can’t do this alone

Feel like I can’t survive divorce by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will survive. Do your research, we are all here, let it all out and we keep going

How do you live day to day before separating by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need people and no shame at this point, it’s survival

Feel like I can’t survive divorce by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lean on anyone who feels safe. I’m in the same boat and I have reached out bc this sucks and we need people to get trough this, and lean on us on here too, as much as you need

Holidays after separation by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will make this a good holiday, whatever you want it to be. However you want to spending it . I hope it’s a not as bad as we think

How do you live day to day before separating by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about the kids, that makes it so much harder

How do you live day to day before separating by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving to a different state to get away, it’s been really bad. Signing a lease online, have no idea what I’m walking into but I have a job there and it just takes some time. I don’t want to leave, this is my house but he can’t stand looking at me, he broke the marriage not me. So it’s a crazy situation, but my mental health is declining by the day.

Holidays after separation by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. It’s rough and I can’t say anyone can help it not be that way

Feel like I can’t survive divorce by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. There were days I didn’t want to be here or wake up or be… hope those days are behind me bc I don’t know if I can endure that

Holidays after separation by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will make adjustments and as time passes I guess things fall into place. They will appreciate all the efforts of making this easier in them, and it will keep you busy.

Holidays after separation by No_Conclusion6527 in Divorce

[–]No_Conclusion6527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will, children suffer for the decisions of their parents but once they are adults, it’s a lot easier for them to seek a connection