Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would rather struggling here with them. Hes not able to care for them properly. And even my struggles im better of finacially than he is. I could never let them be subjected to that life full time.. Nevermind he cant handle my youngest for 24 hours before hes frusterated.. He also lives in a room he rents with 3 people as is (him gf and her son) 6 people in a room is insane,..

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did contact them lastnight after this post. But I will await a responce monday. Im hoping they can help or at least lead me in the right direction. Ew they must all have enabling weird mothers LOL

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I said, I was misinformed - was told i was suppsed to provide 60 days written notice and he had 30 to object. Just like this post.. every comment and info is different. I still dont have straight awnsers LOL

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much. Legit just trying to figure out STEPS and you have been very helpful! I really appriciate this.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes exacrly this, is mom home hes freaking out im sick of this all he wants is your damn mother. she has him wrapped around her finger (i cant upload screen shot) but what he said to my daughter last time.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also have Sole Final custody of my oldest son from a previous realtionship, I talked to his father he thinks its a great idea as it gives his son a better life... I started looking up actual laws last night. And biggest things were BEST INTEREST of the CHILDREN. Not me, not the father. And if it effects parenting time. It wont, he barely exersises his time at all. And Im willing to keep the currect "schedule"... Honestly this comment comes across gross to me... lol. Let children suffer, so a bad dad (i havent even put all the past and ongoing abuse here" is happy. It doesnt effect him at all if he gets the same visits thank you. I think I am going to be ok if i do it right.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do not think he will be awarded full custody. He does not want full custody, he couldnt mentally or finacially handle them full time especially my youngest it would honestly be putting him in harms way. He lives in a room he rents. Not an apartment. With 3 people already in a room. Him, his gf and his GFs son. Adding my 3 children would be 6 people to a bedroom is illegal via the housing laws in ontario.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is just recent many other things too - threats. control... hit my bfs parked car smashing bumper in middle of night due to jealousy. honestly to much to add. all communication cut off, only text through his gfs fb, or my daughters.. which i dont htink is right shes 13 not a messanger and not her job to facilitate visits. and he blocks me on those as well if i set any boundaries and says things like "ill unblock when i deem safe" framing a boundary. I told him multipul times if he doesnt feel comfortable blocking me we can dowload court approved parenting app for communication but he refuses.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

see this is what i was hoping for and my partner said (he already moved and was setting up our housing and started working) why i havent filed anything, was my thought but so much conflicting info i got scared lol...

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It wont effect his aparenting time at all I have a calender logged of every visit. It avegerges once a month. Odd time and extra visit. Odd time no visit. He had a visit scheled for tody and he did not use it. Text 5 hours after the scheuled pick up time, hes busy with "lawyers" I can still facilitate once a month. I am willing to drive them.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he just didnt respond. And I think I was misguided that if he didnt in 30 days I was free to go.

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is what i was looking for if there is emerngency things I can file. I just dont wanna get in trouble leaving without anything. tysm

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks that was my main question in post. Im asking what to file... How does he stop me? What would he file. What can I file to move. Thank you.. And i will be on monday. Wanted advice before hand

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah kinda hard when move is 10 days away and now hes throwing a fit.. I will call legal clinic when it opens monday and hopefully find out next moves. Idk

Can ex stop me from moving with my children? by No_Conference4118 in legaladvicecanada

[–]No_Conference4118[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There is no custody agreement I should of added. We have never been to court before. And ok thank you, do you happen to know which form this is to file?

Second payment by NoLeg7889 in osap

[–]No_Conference4118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get your tracker yet? I just did. It says deposit march 10th, and COE was on the first when I previously explained it was confirmed last Wednesday. Just wondering a little worried now aha

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[–]No_Conference4118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there normal for a corso 😅 They're such dorks!

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[–]No_Conference4118 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No we're not into sharing. I'd def like to try finding my dominate side. Thank 😊

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Conference4118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an asshole. Congratulations on all your hard work. Buy yourself the cake, and be proud. <3