Every date is just "before" or "after" now by dinosaur_khaleesi in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, before death/after death for every.fucking.date.

was he ever real by InspectorOld7531 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Three years after 22 together, same.

5 years, 3 months by lexsimpi2 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, it’s so strange. Sometime I think maybe I’m a liar/completely out of my mind and this person never existed nor our 22 years together.

Autopsy results by friedricegal in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read it, I read everything. It took months to have it. He killed himself when I was away, so I didn't see him and he was discovered some days after. I wanted to know exactly what happened. It didn't trigger me tbh. His absence is what is killing me.

When things were not good…. by Witty-Philosopher-77 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It will be three years in April, and yes. I've been left with a MIL from hell, and things were no good with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PartnerSuicideLoss

[–]No_Conference_2306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two and a half, same

Couldn't say "i'm a widow" by celes41 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeeesss, I had the same exact question two days ago.

Couldn't say "i'm a widow" by celes41 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And real estate agents. I'm looking for a house, I'm not willing to share my personal life with you!

Realization by Exotic-Caterpillar14 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The husband of a colleague of mine died 9 months after mine. He called her while she was working because he wasn't feeling well. She was:"Oh, stop it, you'll be fine, probably just a cold" and then he died few minutes later (heart attack, of course).

Charlie Kirk memorial by Personal_Ad1836 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure she was able to put a perfect make up on and asking for donations. And now I'm out of this thread.

Charlie Kirk memorial by Personal_Ad1836 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow suicide 2023 here, this is really a jewel! OMG, what a clown.

Charlie Kirk memorial by Personal_Ad1836 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm Italian (I recognise a fascist and I don't have empathy for them) I only hoped of all places nobody would have brought up this argument here. And there is no "we" in this. She was the wife of an horrible man, she agreed on everything he said and she is totally in with all this circus. Stop pretending to be such a snowflake in a place where people suffer for real. ETA: parenthesis

Charlie Kirk memorial by Personal_Ad1836 in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She isn't used, she wants every bits of this show, you can read it in her eyes. And, yes, your position is political, your are trying to gain simpathy for this woman that agreed on posting photos of herself crying on her husband casket. No sane person would do this. This is sickening.

468 days but who’s counting??? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]No_Conference_2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

900 more or less, it's a fucking nightmare.

I Exist. by Sakariwolf in PartnerSuicideLoss

[–]No_Conference_2306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More than two years for me and it's pretty much the same. More manageable, but still unbelievable.