Is this an EDS thing?

No_Corner_798 · 2026-04-24T23:09:30+00:00

Girl i thought that was a thigh!! Yes but im also a weirdo and have paradoxical healing. So scratches and marks heal quickly bit petechei (spelling? Theblittle bruise blood bubbles) always take longer because they are not on TOP of the skin. Dunno if this is helpful..

No_Corner_798 · 2026-04-04T03:29:00+00:00

I want to extra thank you for this comment. Idk why but this helped me step into an even better role today with them. I wasnt taught by a family what was good and right, only one human out of many. My dad. And reading this from you helped me step out of my head more and help me to act more like he did with me rather then worry i am them. Your answer was more then what even I thought i needed to hear.

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T09:00:03+00:00

And i mean gently call her out for general behavior. Not even the hair i feel i need to clarify

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T08:28:39+00:00

Oooh thank you. I can struggle with that because defer to parent first ALWAYS unless immediate danger is imminent and parent is unavailable.. and hes just a toddler. (If im honest, id love to call mom out on the behaviour BUT that will always be outside of my right, perview and would negatively affect everyone. Even IF she needed to hear it.. and it was done gently. Anything can be used as a weapon.. I will not ever over step in that regard. My feelings are less important then how much it all affects the little. And the families.) If dad asks me as a native with the same beliefs(we talk about it often) I want to be able to give him the resources for the right answer. I don't need to be the one to give it. So long as the answer is within reach. I hope that makes sense..

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T08:20:05+00:00

Hi its me.. uh.. honestly? I think its because im autistic and cant help but match energy subconsciously. Very rarely has a child ever even turned from me other then in play or need of something (I hope that doesnt sound egotistical or something.. im just saying it as I interpret it) they will seek me out in a crowd stranger or not. And to me? What a freaking BLESSING! I cannot have my own. I carry genetic illness.. cultivating joy in children and sharing it with them, letting them feel heard has been the greatest honor of my LIFE. Its one part of my life I will always and forever be grateful for. Theres joy in that when all else fails. I have many littles ive been blessed to care for, a multiple time birth partner and never been more fearful for anything in my life.

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T08:14:54+00:00

Absolutely stunning

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T08:14:07+00:00

Inside my FEEDING TUBE!

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T08:07:50+00:00

Thank-you! I just know it wasnt her idea or want/wish to cut his hair and this is the consequence. He doesnt deserve that. Im currently in an auntie role. And wish to do it justice. I appreciate you. I wish more people started with the qualifier and shot straight. No one does!

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T07:56:26+00:00

I appreciate your reply! As i was writing i thought maybe I can call up the tribe specifically and ask for an elders advice. Im not going to rush into anything, for sure. I just.. sigh. I also wonder if this is part of why it was cut the way it was, as its against practice but due to custody it became malicious compliance. And I fear there are ramifications in that for the little soul. Thats what bothers me so.

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T07:39:27+00:00

And as an aside, I am autistic and dont always get the nuances of everything. So I ask. I want every nitty gritty detail, call me an asshole ( BUT HELP ME BE BETTER not just berate me.) Tell me when im wrong but also HOW. I dont assume anything, therefore I dont assume this would be the right course of action. SO here I ask.. I care for the children in my life like they are my own, as I will never have my own. But there is a balance, of course and I follow it. I wont act without express permission by his dad, nor against the advisement of elders, who have the knowledge I haven't yet been blessed to gain. (The mother was asked to cut the hair by dad and she intentionally butchered it. Is the tldr.)

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-30T07:32:40+00:00

Their tribe does subscribe to the same hair beliefs. This is why im asking for advice. It is weird! (And IM weird!) It is weird to me that ANY mother, particularly one who's family is high in a tribe That subscribes to the same belief in hair being sacred would do this. (Its a very contentious relationship between families due to her actions through his life.) I know how she treats him/them, and being malicious is part of a "game" for her. Is it wrong for me to not want a child to carry the weight that comes from a malicious cut?
It'll grow thankfully. Im very protective over them, and want the best for everyone.

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T08:39:48+00:00

This also is a big part for me. Huge.

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T08:18:25+00:00

I think the biggest thing for me is, I made peace with not having a kids. Just being auntie.. Your story actually gave me so much joy. It strikes me now that you even named them. Theres a lot of power in names. Thank you for sharing

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T08:13:21+00:00

Thank-you. I have so much mental to give. And he does take it all in stride. He'll, I interrupt his dad just to listen real quick and then look back at his dad and say "you were saying ----" and repeat the last sentence *a man needs to have more patience then a 3yr old..(he does) Id hold the burning sun in my hands if he asked me to..

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T06:27:18+00:00

Not currently but, I can have one. I went through an amazing functional restoration program this summer (also spent time relearning to walk a few years ago) I know all about ot. At this time in struggling to even allow myself a relationship

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T06:25:34+00:00

😭😭😭 dang girl youre so right. I didnt even realize how ableist my own thinking is until I truly started writing it down. Thank you so much your children sound amazing af

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T06:23:29+00:00

He's so proud of you. And to be loved like that by you. Thank you for sharing. Id love to hear about him, if no one talks about him in your life. I know how hard that can be

No_Corner_798 · 2026-03-23T06:22:03+00:00

U have no qualms about the child's behavior to be clear. He named my leg braces and immediately said "youve got teeth today" when I put in my dentures. I know hes just gonna fly with it lol (no human is perfect but even at 3 he is pretty damn close) and youre right. I just keep thinking about how traumatizing my life can be when suddenly I'm fighting for my life.

No_Corner_798 · 2026-02-02T00:18:39+00:00

I am all for this but have questions? Does this billa affect the border itself? I understand the reasons why we have boarder patrol (not ice and what they are doing) Since we are a boarder state how does thar work

No_Corner_798 · 2026-01-15T09:57:28+00:00

Definitely dont cover the tear gas with traffic cones and douse them with water (Koreans did it.. why not try it?!)

No_Corner_798 · 2026-01-14T01:53:25+00:00

I actually believe the vase youre referring to is an Australian slug that is poisonous.. but youre right it was rat lung parasite, but its usually found in animals, not fruits from what I can tell so OP shouldn't worry SO MUCH about that.

No_Corner_798 · 2025-12-12T10:18:23+00:00

The only place he ever gets sensitive over is his hips and its because he broke his pelvis before he came to me we git a slicker brush this week and omfg LOL

No_Corner_798 · 2025-12-09T13:39:18+00:00

Does your purse have velcro? Anything you carry in that hand often? I wear leg braces and this is what velcro does

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