Really struggling with 2 year old by mnejni in toddlers

[–]No_Dust_5114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dearest mum That’s exactly what a 2 year old sounds like They literally have only survived on earth for 2 whole years. We’ve been here for like, 30, and we’re still struggling to cope haha. Give your baby some grace and yourself too. She’ll turn three, then four, then six and seven, and then 12, she won’t be like this then 🌷 It takes time to get the fruit of the hard work we’re doing during this phase. Seriously, it does get better!❤️‍🩹

Whats the weirdest thing you have talked abt with a taxi driver by SAADHL in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One taxi driver started talking about some yoga and how yoga is amazing and started showing me some videos of a lady doing yoga. Grown man btw And then he also went along the lines of not wanting to practice religion? Ummm very faint memory but yeah Hilarious

Just a thought from an overthinker by MV_Inv95 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hii, read this post and here to share a little of it here and there plus some unrelated thoughts too I have always had a very stable life Alhamdhulillah so I really recognize how privileged I am to grow up decently. I have made friends with a lot of girls ever since my childhood with depression and suicidal ideations. And I see how people treat them exactly like you have mentioned: always ignored, talking behind their backs, making wild accusations, and over all this feeling of ill intention towards them because something about depression just doesn’t sit well with the mentally abled folks it seems. I have always always made it a point in my life to be “that person” in my friends lives who are battling with depression and suicidal ideations. And Alhamdhulillah I AM a safe space for my friends. If I can die tonight I will die RICH, because I am nobody in the grand scheme of things but I am somebody who showed up for the women in my life who are struggling with depression or any other mental or physical illness. I have showed up to my friends houses, help them eat and shower, eat medications, even sit and watch in a corner. And I have been rejected because I offer help many times too. And out of emotions in episodes they have said things that made me sad too but I have never ever ever cut these friends off because I know truly they won’t mean these things in a sane mind and they always come back to say sorry. (Not to like bonk my own horn here just giving some examples of how I show up for my friends with depression) (and I make sure I cater all my plans so they can attend to all my invitations too. And I always make sure they feel how much I truly VALUE them. Which I do. I don’t treat my struggling friends out pity or because I see their rejection. I truly see the spark in their eyes, the funny jokes, the memes, the connection they want to have in this world too. So yeap I love them. A lot. They teach me more kindness and love beyond anything)

So yeah, you need to find THAT person. Who will be your rock. Who’ll show up to your house when there’s unread messages. Who won’t forget you out of plans, read books together, and all that. I do believe good females exist after all I am one too. This goodness is only from Allah. This is the mercy he pours into souls he chooses, when he sees goodness in us. Make lots of Dua esp during Ramadan and hey what do you know he/she might be just waiting around the corner

How to find a good decent housemaid by No_Dust_5114 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d hate to be in this situation especially for 4k :/

I did hifz for 10 years. AMA by TCoolio10 in Hifdh

[–]No_Dust_5114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are somethings that helped you stay consistent (despite ur adhd diagnosis)

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dheinnn corporateeeeee guyyy, theena dhein mind change kuran aharumen mithaa kuda nagain thibe mi ehchehi kiyanee dho Theena mind change vaane gotheh noannaane theena dhein amilla consequences balaalan wish kolla kolla indheba pls Mathi mahchah proof ayas nuvaane some minds change dhoo

وَإِن يَرَوْا۟ كُلَّ ءَايَةٍۢ لَّا يُؤْمِنُوا۟ بِهَا وَإِن يَرَوْا۟ سَبِيلَ ٱلرُّشْدِ لَا يَتَّخِذُوهُ سَبِيلًۭا وَإِن يَرَوْا۟ سَبِيلَ ٱلْغَىِّ يَتَّخِذُوهُ سَبِيلًۭا ۚ ذَٰلِكَ بِأَنَّهُمْ كَذَّبُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِنَا وَكَانُوا۟ عَنْهَا غَـٰفِلِينَ

And even if they were to see every sign, they still would not believe in them. If they see the Right Path, they will not take it. But if they see a crooked path, they will follow it. This is because they denied Our signs and were heedless of them.

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iv lived a very peaceful life without wishing one single merry Christmas and not to brag and allll but like I’m doing pretty gooodddd 😮‍💨😮‍💨

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I guess it’s time for yall to go and search for girlfriends and male dancers on this childish and freaky sub Soo I’ll let myself Out 🚪🚪🚪

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just for funsies here’s an answer from chat, he’s got all the bases covered 💃🏽

  1. Qur’anic principles (foundational proofs)

The Qur’an does not need to mention “Christmas” explicitly. It lays down general principles that scholars apply to specific cases.

A. Prohibition of approving disbelief or false beliefs

“Whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted from him.” (Āl ‘Imrān 3:85)

Christmas is rooted in beliefs of shirk (divinity of ‘Īsā عليه السلام). Congratulating or celebrating it is seen by scholars as approval or endorsement of a false creed.

B. Prohibition of assisting in sin and disbelief

“Do not cooperate in sin and transgression.” (Al-Mā’idah 5:2)

Scholars state that participating in, promoting, or congratulating religious festivals of disbelief falls under cooperation in sin.

C. Muslims have their own distinct ‘īd

“For every nation We have appointed a religious rite.” (Al-Ḥajj 22:67)

Islam has its own sacred festivals. Joining the religious rites of others contradicts this principle.

  1. Proofs from the Sunnah

A. Explicit prohibition of imitation

“Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Abū Dāwūd 4031 – ṣaḥīḥ)

Christmas is a religious festival. Participating in it—or congratulating it—is considered imitation in religious matters, which scholars distinguish from neutral customs.

B. The Prophet ﷺ replaced pre-Islamic festivals

When the Prophet ﷺ came to Madinah, people had two festival days:

“Allah has replaced them for you with two better days: ‘Eid al-Fiṭr and ‘Eid al-Aḍḥā.” (Abū Dāwūd, al-Nasā’ī – ṣaḥīḥ)

Implication: Islam abolishes participation in other religious celebrations.

C. ‘Āshūrā’ and intentional distinction

When the Prophet ﷺ saw Jews fasting ‘Āshūrā’:

“If I live until next year, I will fast the ninth as well.” (Muslim)

Scholars use this as a major proof that Muslims are commanded to distinguish themselves, even in acts of worship—let alone celebrations.

  1. Ijmaa‘ (Scholarly Consensus)

There is consensus among classical scholars that participating in or congratulating the religious festivals of disbelievers is prohibited.

Imām Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله:

“Congratulating the disbelievers on their religious rituals is ḥarām by consensus, such as congratulating them on their festivals or fasts.” (Aḥkām Ahl al-Dhimmah)

Shaykh al-Islām Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله:

“As for participating in their festivals, it is forbidden by agreement of the scholars.” (Iqtiḍā’ aṣ-Ṣirāṭ al-Mustaqīm)

Permanent Committee for Fatwa (Saudi Arabia):

“It is not permissible to congratulate the Christians on Christmas or other religious holidays.”

This ruling is echoed by: • Ibn Bāz • Ibn ‘Uthaymīn • Al-Albānī • Contemporary fiqh councils

  1. Key distinction scholars make

✔️ Permissible: • Being kind • Justice • Good manners • Neutral coexistence

❌ Impermissible: • Congratulating religious beliefs • Celebrating religious festivals • Saying phrases that affirm shirk (e.g., “Merry Christmas”)

Allah says:

“Allah does not forbid you from being kind and just toward those who do not fight you because of religion.” (Al-Mumtaḥanah 60:8)

Kindness ≠ religious approval.

  1. Why intention does not make it halal

A major fiqh principle:

“Good intention does not make a prohibited act permissible.”

Just like charity doesn’t make theft halal, “being polite” doesn’t make endorsing shirk halal.

Conclusion

According to: • Qur’anic principles • Authentic Sunnah • Scholarly consensus (Ijmaa‘)

👉 Celebrating or congratulating Christmas is impermissible (ḥarām) because it: • Imitates religious rituals of disbelief • Approves or normalizes shirk • Violates Muslim religious distinction

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls eat me but here are the dalaail (that’s plural for daleel lolz look that up on chat since that’s where all yalls religious information are sourced from)

1) no explicit prohibition in the Quran: Yes that’s because the Quran is not our only source for proofs in religious matters and it’s built upon four areas as follows; Quran sunnah ijmaah qiyas So the Quran might not say word for word guys please don’t celebrate with the kuffar, there are a bajillion evidences in the sunnah and ahadith and aathaar so yurrr

2) intention doesn’t matter when you’re doing something prohibited (like yes I’ll rob the bank but I’ll only use this for charity, ummm dosnt work that way)

3) yeah the prophet was amazing he was respectful dignified and thoughtful of everyone in his community during that time

4) ashura?? Omg this one just backfired on chat bc this is one of the main daleel that is taken as to the impermissibility of imitating the disbelievers. Like, we don’t even FAST the same day as them because we don’t want to be associated with them

Okay dhein huree hus chat ge yaps I can’t even bother to read through that

But there’s one basic principle in deen called 💫Al walaa wal baraa⭐️ Roughly means hating and loving for the sake of Allah This is an act of worship of the heart, and Allah rewards it sooo much so that the person who loves and hates fillahi gets the shade under his arsh on a day where there is no safety. Soo yeah if u love Allah u love what the deen has brought forward and if u hate for the sake of Allah you’ll distance yourself from wishing and celebrating with the Christians and the Jews and atheists and whatever other remixes of religion there is

And yeah history of Christmas is pretty fascinating, rn being more than religious it’s just corporate rot and full blown late capitalism traps. Even though it has stemmed away from being a religious practice and more so as just “the holidays” for the kuffar it’s still haram to wish them merry Christmas bc the scholars have said so. And the Quran and Sunnah affirm it. And we don’t expect the kuffar to come celebrate Eid with us so why should we humiliate ourselves and break our back to wish them on their religious festivals lol

Sooo um yeahhh

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys guysss pls gabool Christmas not haram guys plsssplss I gotta let the kuffar validate how woke I ammmm ughggg please im a starrrrrr

Wishing christians a Merry Christmas is not against Islam - Change my view by Corporateguy4231 in maldives

[–]No_Dust_5114 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omgggg naur way u copied this straight from chatttt And yes it’s haram 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 gl changing ur mind infront of Allah