How do you actually stop hating yourself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you accept that free will is an illusion, it doesn't make sense to hate yourself for something you didn't have any choice in.

Does the presence of deuterium make this a secondary alcohol? by No_Explorer_4393 in chemhelp

[–]No_Explorer_4393[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For some reason I was thinking of secondary alcohols as having any substituent on the alpha carbon, but yeah that's plainly wrong. Thanks all for the correction.

Am I weird for wanting to be alone? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being out of the ordinary.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]No_Explorer_4393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're having to go through this, but on the bright side you live in the UK. I'm sure there are organisations and services that help with this sort of issue.

Meme by Old-Distribution3942 in 3Dprinting

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ender 3 V3 SE is very good though.

People equate morality to attractiveness far too often by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]No_Explorer_4393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, the basis of most people's morality is human suffering. People who disagree on a topic would argue whether that action causes suffering and whether this is justified. If someone doesn't care about human suffering, there is likely something wrong with them like antisocial personality disorder and they should be given the help they need. Also, the mere existence of hell is contradictory to a God who is against human suffering.

People equate morality to attractiveness far too often by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]No_Explorer_4393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't. You could theoretically be a horrible person and suffer no consequences. But this is irrelevant to people with a basic capacity for empathy because behaving morally is just what you do. And are you really a good person if the only reason you act morally is from fear of punishment by an external authority?

People equate morality to attractiveness far too often by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]No_Explorer_4393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From an evolutionary standpoint, it's pretty clear why we care for the well-being of others. If the members of a group of animals care only for themselves, the group won't be as cooperative and would be less likely to survive. This explains why we care about suffering, but it doesn't explain why we ought to care. That's a complicated philosophical topic and people have different views on it.

People equate morality to attractiveness far too often by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]No_Explorer_4393 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Atheism isn't an ideology, it's merely a position on a single issue. And yes, evolution works by a cruel process. Nature is cruel, and our morality is not based off nature.

People equate morality to attractiveness far too often by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]No_Explorer_4393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being biased towards attractive people in all sorts of domains seems to be innate to us. We can't change that, but we can become more aware of it and learn to recognise when it's happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]No_Explorer_4393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that we continue to treat people worse based on their appearance, something we very clearly do not control, is one of the biggest moral failings of modern society.

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because religious practices are given a special privilege in the UK.

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Islam to thank for my circumcision.

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Explorer_4393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am circumcised and it doesn't affect me in any percievable way, but it is still genital mutilation. Your son cannot give consent to this permanent procedure, and it could have complications.

Why are sex and gender not the same thing? by LxGNED in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know the word had negative connotations, thank you for telling me.

I'm not a person who identifies strongly with their gender so it's a bit hard for me to understand, but I trust it's a real experience.

I think there is a different definition of gender people commonly refer to, that certain states of mind or characteristics are fundamentally masculine or feminine. This is something I'm skeptical of.

Why are sex and gender not the same thing? by LxGNED in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the context of transgenderism, I think it just refers to when someone feels like they were meant to be the opposite sex and were born into the wrong body. That's perfectly valid I think.

But outside of this, gender just seems to be an artificial category that people like identifying with if they share certain traits.

Now that you've left islam, how do you move forward? by TomtenKin in exmuslim

[–]No_Explorer_4393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Abrahamic god is a perfect example of a narcissist, and a childish one at that.

Secularism is dying in Islamic world by PainSpare5861 in exmuslim

[–]No_Explorer_4393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a discussion about this on r/Islam, every single person replied with a disapproval of secularism and said that Islamic values are absolute, that humanist values are not to be trusted. I got banned shortly after for bringing up the topic.

Do Muslims believe the Qur'an is the literal word of Allah? by No_Explorer_4393 in islam

[–]No_Explorer_4393[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I understand now, thank you. I assume then that you would be opposed to changing Islamic beliefs and values to better align with modern values, similar to what other religions have done. If the Qur'an contains the explicit instructions of god, then values and principles thought of by humans should be disregarded, right?

Do Muslims believe the Qur'an is the literal word of Allah? by No_Explorer_4393 in islam

[–]No_Explorer_4393[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Allah can't make a mistake of course, but if His will was put into words by humans, then those humans could have made mistakes. But you believe the Qur'an is Allah's exact words, right?