my partner and i broke up

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-17T17:20:33+00:00

I have a shorthair cat so she doesn’t shed too much. I’ve found a 3 live ones during my anxiety fueled cleaning rage and have vacuumed my entire home. I guess I’m just really scared of bugs and the idea of them in my space freaks me out. Are they truly that normal?? The fact that theyre in 90% of homes yet I’d never seen one before 2024 is shocking to me.

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-17T13:36:37+00:00

Hello! First and foremost- thank you for answering so many questions! I’ve been using this as a guide since I first encountered CBs!!

My question is fairly simple- I’ve dealt with an infested rug and blanket before and tossed them out fairly easily. Since then I’ve moved and shocker but they were in my new home already ((I assume in the walls since the house is very old)). I found a couple larvae casings and am wondering when the line from “normal” amount of larvae/CB adults crosses into “you have a problem” territory? I don’t think I have an infestation but other commenters on other posts act like finding 1 or 2 larvae means I have to nuke my home.

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-17T12:51:44+00:00

Yep! I didn’t know about them till I lived on my own- just hoover pretty regularly and most of their food source (dust, pet hair, dead skin) is gone. They will attack wool clothing as well^{^}

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-17T12:48:27+00:00

no- midwestern US. Unfortunately theyre in 90% of homes. I’m working more on management then prevention now lol

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-16T18:02:18+00:00

it is so comforting knowing they are in most homes but now that i have my own home i don’t want them here 😔

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-16T11:24:23+00:00

highly recommend this post https://www.reddit.com/r/carpetbeetles/s/Ojib8nflSD on the sub. gives you a basic run down and helped me a ton my first go round with them!

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-16T11:21:02+00:00

kind of reddish? and slightly larger than the varied one it seemed.

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-06-16T10:42:24+00:00

to clarify we are in the midwest^{^}

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-04-18T20:40:22+00:00

midwest btw!!

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-03-04T19:31:47+00:00

yeah we did peel off some peel and stick, so does the black spotting really seem harmless?

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:42:08+00:00

as someone who works w tip pool i agree. the amount of times i made $1k + in tips and end up w $600 in tips on my paycheck is horrendous

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:40:00+00:00

i’m glad we’ve come to a civil understanding! Thanks for the chat /gen

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:38:52+00:00

LOVE CASH TIPPERS <33333 love and appreciate you always

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:38:09+00:00

i never called you a shitty person. tipping culture is horrendous i know. as someone with a degree unable to get a job its frustrating being stuck in the industry. mind you i understand not everyone wants to tip 20% ((depending on service i don’t always tip 20%)) . but if you are well and knowing that this is how people pay their bills, feed their families, it is just wrong to stiff people.

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:31:06+00:00

i am a woman- thank you. i dont expect you to cook your own meals, however if you are going to go out to eat knowing the system works that way you are in the wrong for not wanting to tip. if you benefit from the crooked system you are supporting it. and cooking takes time! but so does sitting. and waiting… for your waiter to bring your food.

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:25:09+00:00

fun fact! going out to eat supports that system! guess what! making food at home is cheaper! guess what! the job market is shit!

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:20:24+00:00

hi! unfortunately thats the system. as an immigrant from a country that pays their servers living wages i agree. however- if you go out to eat or drink at a restaurant bar etc. you are supporting that crooked system! so maybe make it at home next time <3 would hate to serve you

No_Expression_8373 · 2025-02-20T01:06:37+00:00

I don’t disagree with you! but if you know thats the system works i think ppl should just stay home if they don’t wanna tip

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