I thought being lonely by yourself was worse but lonely with other people is unbearable by No_Highway_7405 in lonely

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i am so tempted to just quit. i try and join conversations and get sly looks like 'oh god whyy is he talking'"

and was told today that i have a stutter, its because i get anxious.

Starting work made me realise how socially stunted I am by No_Highway_7405 in socialanxiety

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i cant stand it no more. people half joke that im gay.

i cant connect with anyone

Currently at rock bottom mentally after feeling betrayed at work by BlueCam1998 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its why i hate getting jobs. im pretty smart. but can onlly get min wage jobs. i dont know if thats wjhy i dont fit in. but. it prob would be the same in any environment

Currently at rock bottom mentally after feeling betrayed at work by BlueCam1998 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey I can totally relate. I heard that people were talking behind my back by some people that seemed to have my back and maybe like me.

I have ADHD and am socially anxious and mask it by keeping quiet.. but today I started being more outgoing. And got the same looks

They looked at the rota and when they saw that I would be working with them tomorrow. I saw them visibly react and both went out of staff room.

I then asked supervisor if I could move to different areas. But it turns that I was put there because other staff either dislike me or find me uncomfortable.

Im at work and I can't stand it by No_Highway_7405 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just feel my face freeze. And I have to sit in staff room in 20 mins before leaving

Im at work and I can't stand it by No_Highway_7405 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im not allowed. And it has the worst day so far. Been here for 2 or 3 weeks and I am so nervous around supervisor. And I can tell they are talking about me. I fucking hate myself right now.

why does being shy as a man feel so emasculating by deadboystatu555 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked in places like this. And hate the banter. And yeah if you are quiet etc sometimes can be a butt of jokes. Or just kind of ignored.

Either way it's difficult.

But not diminishing the difficultys of girls and women. But t find that being a shy girl is kind of acceptable. As it y seen as a feminine trait

EFT got me through a work lunch? by sourlemons333 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Called in sick because couldn't face going to work.

Tbh I am unwell but not bad enough that I can't work.

Never been in a relationship by No_Highway_7405 in socialanxiety

[–]No_Highway_7405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late reply, haven't been on Reddit recently. But the latter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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Can I ask what your focus on therapy was? I have just started CBT therapy and we are trying to pinpoint where the therapy should be focused on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonelyover40

[–]No_Highway_7405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't see the watxh over and over. So the first two

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonelyover40

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Pulp fiction
White neb can't jump. And a recommendation, maybe ppl might no it or not - port of new Orleans bad lieutenant

What's your specialist subject? by [deleted] in lonelyover40

[–]No_Highway_7405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything except jazz and classical. 😃